Question for MSOG guys

[Bear669]

Good comments so far..

Okay I really want to do MSOG when hobbying. I always book an hour thinking that I will Msog but after the first shot I don't really feel excited enough to even go there. I have a feeling that if I just wash up after round 1 and let the SP do their thing to get me going again I can have a round 2. But instead I just spend the rest of the time chatting with the SP.

So do you guys force yourself to go for round 2 because you paid for the hour or are you guys already horny enough for 2nd round?

Maybe its my meds?

Peace out.

But let the wise old Bear take you through the many aspects of the issue-

1) How OLD are you?
2) Outside/before hobbying what was your MSOG experience?
3) How long after walking in the door is you first SOG?
4) How do you feel if/when you can have M S AT Goal (erection) but perhaps not necessarily MSOG (orgasm)?

Depending on your response, much more to follow, but for the moment:

If you enjoy chatting with SPs you just got your monies worth, and if you are even a passable conversationalist- the SPs must ADORE you , which is a very good thing.

 

[phail]

Okay I really want to do MSOG when hobbying. I always book an hour thinking that I will Msog but after the first shot I don't really feel excited enough to even go there. I have a feeling that if I just wash up after round 1 and let the SP do their thing to get me going again I can have a round 2. But instead I just spend the rest of the time chatting with the SP.

So do you guys force yourself to go for round 2 because you paid for the hour or are you guys already horny enough for 2nd round?

Maybe its my meds?

Peace out.

stinger. take it as a [size=+2]BIG HINT[/size] that gen has contributed to your thread.
along with the other things everyone has suggested, choice of sp is critical.
if she cant do it for ya, then i'll retire (not)....but you get my point.

 

[stang]

Second SOG is nice but can't happen when I try too hard.
It's not necessary if you ask me, I still have fun. Sex is still good without the second full release.

 

[sting]

From my experience as an SP, your experience sounds like that of at least half of the gentlemen I see.

Reading reviews here, it sounds like every guy goes for MSOG, which leads me to believe that either those who go for MSOG are disproportionately writing reviews, or that a quite a few are "embellishing" their encounter when reporting it here.

I'd suggest you just go with the flow. If you feel like going for a second round, by all mean, go for it. But what's the point in forcing it, even if you paid for the date? To me, it's like forcing myself to finish a meal at a restaurant even when I'm already full. Sure, I paid for it, but forcing myself to eat more than I can is not going to make me enjoy the experience more - rather the opposite.

Gen, thanks for giving me some insight from your side of the fence. I like the idea of going with the flow and that's what generally happens. But going into the appointment I always have an expectation that I will be able to MSOG and when I don't get around to it maybe I feel like I failed.

 

[genintoronto]

Gen, thanks for giving me some insight from your side of the fence. I like the idea of going with the flow and that's what generally happens. But going into the appointment I always have an expectation that I will be able to MSOG and when I don't get around to it maybe I feel like I failed.

Why do you feel like you failed? Do you enjoy your time, even if you have "only" one SOG? If you do have a good time with one SOG, then where's the failure? Again, as I said in my first comment, don't let the reviews you read here distort your expectations of what your experience should be.

That being said, I think that the suggestion given to you by another poster to "challenge" the SP to get you to MSOG may be a good idea. If you make the suggestion playfully, I'm sure most SPs will be happy to take you on the challenge. Don't stress it over, and just enjoy the ride.

Also, you may want to consider booking for a longer date. Many guys just don't have the physical ability (either because of their age, physical health, medication, etc.) to do MSOG in a one hour appointment.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Don't stress over it, and just enjoy the ride.

BEST ADVICE right there!

 

[smylee52]

I may be reading between the lines here but I sense you are more concerned with the SP doing the "talking thing " after 1st SOG instead of initiating intimate contact .

A short break after orgasm is standard but you may have to grab her hand and put in on your cock if you have a girl that wants to talk until the time runs out .

I very rarely get 2nd SOG but I expect sex play until the final bell and sometimes it means I have to take the lead to insure I'm not paying to just to hear an SP talk .