Question for married guys

[Mikehorn]

Not all women think the same. As a woman, I'd say tell her. Some women are stupid or emotionally (or financially) dependent enough to forgive. If you have young children, that might help you too.
I personally wouldn't forgive and much less forget, for all the reasons already listed on the previous replies. I'm just saying that I see it happening a lot; some women just don't have the courage to walk away.
Regardless, bottom line is, SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO KNOW. If you made a commitment to marry her, it means plain and simple that other women are out of the picture. Be a man and honor the commitment you made with her. You can't pick and chose when to honor it or not. You either are faithful or you are not, there's no grey area.
If you don't follow the commitment you've made, she has the right to know. And then decide what she feels about it and how to deal with it.

Great job choosing your handle, it fits you perfectly.

 

[blackrock13]

Oh sure, but how are things at the homestead? Have you been keeping the old lady sexually satisfied? Is she attractive?

What would happen if I met her and I didn't have a C-note in hand? I'd be a blabbering fool and she'd kick me to the curb?

First off, she younger than I, and a better shot than either one of us. If you and she were in the same room, your fumble mouth would get you in trouble in no time and she would laugh her self silly at your misogynous clap trap. I did point out earlier, she does have a sense of humour.

 

[yeah_right]

Great job choosing your handle, it fits you perfectly.

Awe you're so sweet, thank you!

 

[yeah_right]

And who are you? I bet a women whose husband confessed to her and now you've gotten a nice big settlement - right? Don't listen to this advice at all and don't tell your wife anything as if you did it would be a very big mistake.

And who are you to make assumptions just because of my post? It's the same as if I see a post of yours on this thread and assume you're a cheating coward who can't admit the truth to a woman.

Regardless of your pointless assumption about my personal life, that is not that case and I'm not here to try to influenceon the financial outcome of the situation. I was voicing the opinion, shared by many women, that if he had a commitment to that woman when he cheated, she has the right to know about it.