Question For Handsome Men That See Escorts.
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This is an interesting question, and at the risk of sounding conceited, I will share what I believe to be true. Even though I'm in my 30s now, I still receive a fair amount of praise/attention for whatever reason. It is flattering, however, when you weigh the pros and cons of engaging in a long term relationship, some may feel it isn't worth it. I normally engage in polite pleasantries and move on even if I do find them attractive. I think most could relate to the fact there are a lot of stressors in long term relationships and they are unpredictable due to the vast number of exogenous variables that cannot be accounted for.
With that said, I think this is why a "handsome man" segment of the market exists in this particular marketplace. It satisfies the physiological needs, and that may be enough for some individuals.
With that said, I think this is why a "handsome man" segment of the market exists in this particular marketplace. It satisfies the physiological needs, and that may be enough for some individuals.
I think your response provides the most insightful rationale to the OP's question.
I did not see SPs until I was in my fifties, but I will add my two cents. More than anything else, being in the hobby is an adventure. It is a whole different world, full of surprises and along the way you occasionally meet someone you connect and work well with. And if the magic wears off, because you do not have emotional and financial entanglements, you just mourn for a bit and then move on. I love the infatuation phase of a relationship, which for me has never lasted longer than two years with a civilian. GFE seems to be the answer for me for the foreseeable future.
She ain't in Markham.damnn bro dont gatekeep aunty in this economy pleasee
I've been hobbying for 4 years, and I have had 3 romantic relationships with SPs. At the peak of each relationship, the feeling and intensity was unlike any relationship with a civie I have ever had. Best sex I have ever had. Unforgettable experiences and memories, but coming with a lot of psychological mind-fucking. Occasionally seeing their names in the reviews gets me reminiscing and depressed when I'm trying to move on.
"and it felt like the universe was trying to tell me something."
Mr. Universe is trying to tell you something
Similar to what others have said, men see escorts primarily for the lack of hassle . “Civilian sex” is complicated. There are expectations, emotional attachment, games, power struggles, jealousy….. I could go on. Having non paid sex is great. It’s an ego boost. It’s unpredictable, and if there is a true mutual attraction, it engages parts of your brain that enhance the experience. But it comes with a cost, and for some guys that cost (in terms of shortage of time, being married / attached) is too high. Paid sex fills a need for physical contact, sex, companionship, and if you are lucky, a bit of an ego boost, with minimal hassle.
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I agreed to a point... Just the fact that you don't need to worry about your "wild side" or lacking of, this is a huge pressure off your mind and dick. You fuck the way you want to.
I always remind myself and her that I am just here to fuck. So, I don't have the same attachment that I need to reminiscing or depress over it. If I want, I stop seeing her for months or years. Or, just popping in weekly for a good uncomplicated fuck.
SP’s are to the point and efficient.
Restaurants and dates are fun - but a waste of time.
Many of us have professional careers and time is valuable. Even off time.
SP’s that keep themselves in good shape, maintain appeal and play nice when paid to do so are worthwhile.
However like anything. Maintain professional limits.
I’ve seen too many guys “fall in love”… which is like falling for a fantasy. People can judge all they want but SP’s are exactly that…. SP.
Restaurants and dates are fun - but a waste of time.
Many of us have professional careers and time is valuable. Even off time.
SP’s that keep themselves in good shape, maintain appeal and play nice when paid to do so are worthwhile.
However like anything. Maintain professional limits.
I’ve seen too many guys “fall in love”… which is like falling for a fantasy. People can judge all they want but SP’s are exactly that…. SP.
Firstly, Zayn Malik is very handsome but Robert Pattinson is ugly, imo. I'm also very handsome and I see escorts because I love having sex with different women.
Im an older middle-aged guy, you dont need dating apps....its a fucking waste of time...I would tell that to my 10 years ago me.
you see a girl you like, go upto her say that shes beautiful and that you like her form and ask her out to coffee or a regular restaurant...keep it simple and go from there
you see a girl you like, go upto her say that shes beautiful and that you like her form and ask her out to coffee or a regular restaurant...keep it simple and go from there
ask yourself this 10 years from now....its the other way round
youre being conditioned to think that but thats ok... women are much more simpler than social media lets you believe
the earlier you learn women aren't interested in looks but charisma, confidence and your stupid unique jokes the better you'd find yourself
you like a girl,, go upto her and tell her that.... whether in Europe, Canada or who knows where.....the ball is in her court then
I'm happy and content... have a SO who's way outta my league ...the ones before were too, and I enjoy myself with the lovely SP women I see...life's good
Buddy, im havin a discussion here, not an argument..but thats ok enjoy your life
Ill gladly step away since I said Im not handsome
I say this with no condescension nor with malice, but think about this (it might take time to realize this) : women are much more simpler than social media lets you believe
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I am all of the above and add Urkel, Screech and whoever you think is on the opposite end of the spectrum
. Truth be told - I haven't dated since joining this industry (2020) and I don't plan to date. Don't get me wrong - I have gone out for drinks and with no intention to pursue a relationship. I have loved, lost and found a new love that I plan to see for a long time. With that said I have found peace in this industry and choose the simplicity that this industry brings (@xmontrealer said it the best - "lack of complications involved") - simple because all parties know the end goal - no mind games. The biggest distinction is this - that there is no judgement and the willingness through open discussion to try new things - sexually based of course. The idea that you are safe to explore new boundaries - again though open dialogue gives you the biggest distinction in why we see SP's. Its amazing if you actually think about it - why are we so comfortable in stripping down and exploring each other when we have just met. It is the pure willingness to try, trust and be open and explore - this would not happen in a civie environment. Industry Lifestyle > Civie and I am totally content as I have found a home with the SP's I enjoy spending time with and I appreciate those who take the opportunity to know me as well.I see what you're saying...im not gonna waste my time watching those videosI'm willing to bet all those men who dont got no action would gladly accept those women in these same videos who can't find the "right man".
women can't find the right man coz the good well-intentioned men get caught up with all the social media clutter and dont muster the courage at the right time to say 'Hi, hows you're day'...no guy does that at all ..nada not a single one
riddle me this, Pete Davison is banging Kim Kardashian, ya think he looks like a Greek God? or does he have confidence to go upto a woman and talk?
I've been in your shoes in my 20s and it was just as worse.. wasted a lot of time overthinking...back then we were just wasting a lot of time, these days with apps, your wasting money on the apps as well getting the 'right' recommender.
you pay for dating apps in essence for your inability to face rejection and move on
quit building castles in your mind.....women are much more simpler than you think..
be there when they need you over the years, seem genuine and not just to get into their pants, they'll reward you with their time and attention...ciao
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