Question for clients: Does anyone know you see providers?
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One friend who is a hobbyist. I introduced him to terb last year. Other than that, not a soul and that is the way it will stay.
If someone's assistant knows he hobbies, you can bet some of the assistant's friends know the guy hobbies too. Everybody talks about their boss and/or co-workers from time-to-time, and I'd bet such a juicy bit of gossip is too good to resist sharing.
If you don't want MANY people to know that you hobby, don't tell ANYONE.
I'd love to be able to tell a friend but I strongly believe that most people can't keep their mouths shut.
So, tell me of this hobby you speak of. It sounds intriguing.
So, tell me of this hobby you speak of. It sounds intriguing.
No fucking way. Even if personal circumstances allow it to be known, consequence free, right now, in a few years one's circumstances could change and it may be devastating to have that old secret revealed. So, no fucking way.
One day you could be married to a Wal-Mart heiress and then out of the blue she asks you about those stag parties with your hockey buddies when you were in your early 20's.
I tell everyone who will listen.I usually hobby on the weeken so when I come into work Monday morning the guys are all waiting for a story about my adventure and if I didn't see anyone that weekend , they are pissed.Kinda living vicariously through me.
Yeah , its a small world and TO is a small city. Next time you walk
out of the MP near one ot the Yonge St intersections you could bump
into your co-workers on their way to the restaurant next door for lunch.
You might pretend you didn't notice them. But that wouldn't help if one
of them was a broadcaster in the office.
out of the MP near one ot the Yonge St intersections you could bump
into your co-workers on their way to the restaurant next door for lunch.
You might pretend you didn't notice them. But that wouldn't help if one
of them was a broadcaster in the office.
No matter how far away from your real life as it seems things always have a way of coming around and biting your ass. My counsel has always been not to tell anyone anything you don't want your SO or family to hear.
Accordingly, I speak of things with no one. Don't want to meet anyone else in the hobby and never have.
I go to Cafe Atlantis with friends quite often but I never get dances when they are there. Only get dances when I am by myself. That way I don't have to kill the witnesses.
Accordingly, I speak of things with no one. Don't want to meet anyone else in the hobby and never have.
I go to Cafe Atlantis with friends quite often but I never get dances when they are there. Only get dances when I am by myself. That way I don't have to kill the witnesses.
The only person, besides people I've met through this hobby, I've mentioned this to is my doctor.
I felt it was prudent to justify the frequency and level of detail I request for my blood tests.
Other than him, not a single word to any person I know in my personal life.
I felt it was prudent to justify the frequency and level of detail I request for my blood tests.
Other than him, not a single word to any person I know in my personal life.
You can just tell your doctor that you want to be tested. Maybe that you have multiple sexual partners. If they respond with anything but "no problem" you need a new doctor.
Everybody knows for me, i always show up pictures(from the website) to my friends of the girl i saw, tell them how it was, its not a secret at all. Even my mom knows as i lived with her a long time and was tired of putting up crap when i was going to MTL(not from toronto) from my small town. I don't feel ashamed of it, i don't have a girlfriend, i don't have sex outside this, its my money, and to me its a fair exchange of service, pretty much like getting an haircut...
I always said i would not cheat on my GF would i had on, it would be over on that side. I see SPs because i am unable to have sex in real life. I am too shy, hardly abord girls, i am not very great looking, and unatractive girls don't ... attrack me... so i end up lusting on girls way out of my league... so im screwed up. I saw too much porn i guess... Anyway so i do this... works great.
I always said i would not cheat on my GF would i had on, it would be over on that side. I see SPs because i am unable to have sex in real life. I am too shy, hardly abord girls, i am not very great looking, and unatractive girls don't ... attrack me... so i end up lusting on girls way out of my league... so im screwed up. I saw too much porn i guess... Anyway so i do this... works great.
I try not to tell anyone as they may report it to The Star. They are already on me for my drinking and cutting the fat.
The only person who knows is my wife and she is fine with this.
I twice sat next to a colleague in a meeting in Ottawa who was looking at TERB on his computer and organising his next meeting with an SP in Toronto. I was thinking of telling him I was also a hobbyist.
I twice sat next to a colleague in a meeting in Ottawa who was looking at TERB on his computer and organising his next meeting with an SP in Toronto. I was thinking of telling him I was also a hobbyist.
