Hi,
I have a question about orgasms, and I guess this is the best place for it. I'm particularly hoping that some of the SPs on the Board can shed some light.
How do you know when a woman (SP or otherwise) has REALLY had an orgasm? In my non-SP sex life, the climaxes of the women I've been with have all been similar (i.e. beforehand - a tensing of all the muscles in the body and the woman has trouble speaking/breathing, and during - the vagina clenches (once or repeatedly, either gently or strongly)). I've been with enough non-SPs who shared this common behaviour to make me assume that this was what happens during a real orgasm.
A couple of the SPs I've been with (orally) have also responded this way, but the majority just make a lot of noise. I always figured that they were faking it, but the other night I was with an SP who didn't react the way I've mentioned above, but who kept raving throughout the rest of my visit about how strong her orgasm had been. Normally I'd take this with a big grain of salt, but she proceeded to do things with me which I know are on her list of "don't do's", and she said they were a reward for my talent.
So, my question is this - do all women respond in the way I've mentioned above when they orgasm, or do some just make a whole lot of noise without any (noticeable) response in the vagina? Was the SP from the other night just pulling my leg, or was it really as good as she claimed?
Thanks a lot for any responses. Feel free to PM if that's more appropriate.
JBB
I have a question about orgasms, and I guess this is the best place for it. I'm particularly hoping that some of the SPs on the Board can shed some light.
How do you know when a woman (SP or otherwise) has REALLY had an orgasm? In my non-SP sex life, the climaxes of the women I've been with have all been similar (i.e. beforehand - a tensing of all the muscles in the body and the woman has trouble speaking/breathing, and during - the vagina clenches (once or repeatedly, either gently or strongly)). I've been with enough non-SPs who shared this common behaviour to make me assume that this was what happens during a real orgasm.
A couple of the SPs I've been with (orally) have also responded this way, but the majority just make a lot of noise. I always figured that they were faking it, but the other night I was with an SP who didn't react the way I've mentioned above, but who kept raving throughout the rest of my visit about how strong her orgasm had been. Normally I'd take this with a big grain of salt, but she proceeded to do things with me which I know are on her list of "don't do's", and she said they were a reward for my talent.
So, my question is this - do all women respond in the way I've mentioned above when they orgasm, or do some just make a whole lot of noise without any (noticeable) response in the vagina? Was the SP from the other night just pulling my leg, or was it really as good as she claimed?
Thanks a lot for any responses. Feel free to PM if that's more appropriate.
JBB