So, to those wondering how it went for the ole first-timer here’s my takeaways regarding my experience. I have no real bad takeaways regarding my SP, and I also asked her before I left if I could write a (positive) review on here, and she was okay with it. The lovely SP was the famous Rebecca Gold
Premise: I was given a hall pass by my partner of 7 years (not the first but only happens when she goes away which isn’t often). It was given on short notice and I didn’t have time to find someone on tinder like I have in the past. I decided to finally make the move of finding an SP after 8 years of browsing, researching, waiting until I could comfortably afford it. I only had today to do this after only being told late Friday night. She knows this has been a fantasy as well as us wanting to have a couples session with an SP in the future.
Before: i sent her a nice message describing myself, and telling her what I was in search of. she answered promptly and was very understanding, and friendly regarding the questions I had. I had a little “am I really doing this?” Talk with myself, and I officially booked for roughly 4 hours later. 20 mins before leaving, I showered, got ready and left so I could get there 10 mins before. Easy to get to her room. I was nervous but also wanted to just take the leap. I knocked and the door opened
During: she opened the door and she looked how I expected her to based on her photos she posts on her twitter, save a few that had filters. I’m 27 and she was in her mid to late 30’s, maybe? It didn’t matter at all, she could’ve been older, I love milfs and cougars from a fantasy pov, and I’ve only been with girls my age or younger. she was very bubbly, which really helped calm my nerves, as I’m normally a bubbly person too. We talked for about 5-10 minutes about what brought me here and how I had known of her for years and seen her being well reviewed. She was touchy and flirty, I asked for gfe and I loved the dynamic. It felt like I was meeting up with an old friend’s mom that was always seen as hot but now we’re all grown up lol. She gave an AMAZING bbbj after teasing me until I got super hard. She was complimenting me for my BBC that I warned her about and it was turning me on so much her talking along with her technique to the point that I had to tell her to be careful at certain points because it was too good..she would check on me and ask if I’m doing okay, even though I was clearly enjoying things, which I appreciated. She put the condom on and I first went with doggy. I knew she had a nice ass but I wasn’t expecting it to look as good as it did in that position, as well as how it felt when I was grabbing it. at this point I wasn’t nervous but I was wayy too horny and wayyyy too sensitive because of how nice the view was, in addition to everything else in my mind that was in awe that I finally did this. I wasn’t able to pound/drill the way I normally do which was frustrating but it was crazy having to pull out after almost every stroke just because I was so overstimulated. I then went to missionary and one stroke too many sent me over the edge before I got to really get into the swing of things. On account of MY performance, not at all what I’m used to for myself, nor how I wanted it to go in terms of how I planned to go about it. She could tell I was A little bit bummed but I made it clear it was strictly about my performance, not hers, and joked that her performance was what made me lose control. There was still about 25 minutes left of my session, I put on my boxers and we laid on the bed
After: interestingly, one of the highlights was the conversation we had after, where I shared more detail about my relationship, my previous naive beliefs (more on the comical side, nothing judgemental) regarding this industry, and my fascination with some of the things I’ve come to learn about this industry over the years as a spectator, from both the client and SPs sides. She indulged in my curious but respectful questions, such as asking if there has been situations where her feelings actually got in the way, or how she would treat someone she met on a night out if they didn’t know she was an SP. it was very refreshing and made me forget my slight disappointment in my execution earlier. It would’ve made for a very good podcast episode haha.
The conversation could’ve gone for much longer but it ended naturally and right on time. I said my goodbyes, joked about if I saw her next time I wouldn’t be so nervous, and left.
I DEFINITELY understand why she has been put in some people’s top 5’s as well as been deemed as being great with first-timers. She overall was what I expected in comparison to the photos online if you are able to know some photos can have filters, edits, etc. and that no one really looks 100% how they do in photos. I have a list of SP’s I have been set on seeing for the last 8 years, so while I wouldn’t mind seeing her again, I intend to see all of them once before re-visiting any. Thank you to any and all who offered help and insight!
