Ask her a question. Some good ideas here already,
What are you watching at the moment? Why would you recommned it to others?
What is the best advise your parents gave you? Did you listen to it?
What are you the most proud of in your life? Why?
Tell me about your childhood home.neighbourhood. Who were your best friends growing up?
Or any other just a bit inocuous things to get conversations rolling.
These are good. I’ll also add “ what’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever done”
No matter what you ask the most important thing is to pay attention when she answers. Look at her, watch her facial expressions and look right into her eyes sometimes. Don’t interrupt and give her your attention.