Q for Married Men...

[21pro]

How many different girls have you had sex with since being married?

I'm at 13.

Now, I'm not calling for any morality calls... but, I'm sure the idiots will come out as they always do

 

[Darkman5]

I lost count after 200

 

[tboy]

Ok, I'm all for the saying "to each his own" but if one is having sex with that many women after getting married, why the heck are you still married?

Is it just me or is monogamy dead? (least here at terb lol)

 

[Darkman5]

SP's, MP's and TERB made me do it. lol.

 

[a 1 player]

While I was married 0, I believe in being faithful.

Since I have been divorced (for about 3 years), somewhere in the neighborhood of 40 not including SP's.

 

[Mongrel4u]

Ok, I'm all for the saying "to each his own" but if one is having sex with that many women after getting married, why the heck are you still married?

Is it just me or is monogamy dead? (least here at terb lol)

Have you ever been married?

 

[a 1 player]

As much as I wanted to while I was married, I kept thinking how would I feel if my wife did the same thing. That is what kept me faithful. Now I'm making up for lost time.

 

[LancsLad]

Is this the time for all the naughty little boys to notch their bedposts?

Maybe just a whittle.





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[Scarey]

before marriage.about 70-80.after ...2......Know what though?..i have love now......that's right L-O-V-E,(tongue firmly in cheek)

 

[great bear]

Maybe just a whittle.





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Nice post.

 

[tboy]

Have you ever been married?

And your point is?

 

[jbar]

I lost count after 200

Geez...where the hell do you meet these girls? On Terb?

 

[red]

I lost count after 200

201 comes after 200.

 

[Mongrel4u]

And your point is?

Until you've been there you cant comment...because you may be no better...thats my point...hell even if you are married, every marriage is different; you still cant comment.

I used to say the same thing as you before I got married. But then you get married, the sex life goes out the window but your needs dont..and other than that you have a great marriage..is it worth dumping an otherwise good wife over something that is easily fixable like sex? I highly doubt you would do it Tboy; it wont take you long to figure out that a good marriage is a lot more than just sex.... and to find a good mix of qualities needed to make that good marriage is damn hard. Its like amputating your leg when all you need is a few stiches on your big toe

I'm not saying that it justifies it, but we are living in a "grey" world where most of our efforts go towards managing the lesser of evils rather than simply segregating black and white

 

[Darkman5]

Guys I have been married for 22years.

 

[tboy]

I can't speak for the guys who have been "married" for 22 yrs (whoa) but I have been in relationships that lasted 6 yrs + and been totally monogamous the whole time with every one. In fact, when I'm with someone I find them as attractive (sexually) on the last day as I did on the first. But that's just me.

Yes, it is common (almost a golden rule) that sex goes out the window 2 minutes after a woman hears the L word but that only indicates that you TWO have something to work on. If she isn't interested in finding out why? Then I leave...plain and simple.

Sorry, Mongrel, you may feel that a good sex life isn't a major part of a relationship but to me, it is 1/3 of it. I don't care how good the other 2 are, if there's no sex, then there's no relationship. For eg: if a woman didn't love you would you stay with her? Nope. If she started doing stupid things like spend all your money on Cardboard buildings would you stay with her? Nope. So why stay in a sexless marriage?

 

[a 1 player]

Nope. So why stay in a sexless marriage?

Too expensive to divorce, especially when children are involved. WAY too expensive.

 

[Bill the Pirate]

perhaps you should look to your own sig line to answer your questions. Who are you to question the "married" men.

 

[tboy]

perhaps you should look to your own sig line to answer your questions. Who are you to question the "married" men.

LOL the joy of living in a society based on free speech that's who!

I have as much right to post my opinions here as anyone else, if you don't like it, then might I suggest you create your own forum based website where you can determine arbitrarily who can post what and where.

Oh, BTW, what does having a piece of paper have to do with being in a monogamous relationship? The Law recognizes anyone living together for more than a year (or is it two?) as being equivalent to marriage so .......

 

[Mongrel4u]

I can't speak for the guys who have been "married" for 22 yrs (whoa) but I have been in relationships that lasted 6 yrs + and been totally monogamous the whole time with every one. In fact, when I'm with someone I find them as attractive (sexually) on the last day as I did on the first. But that's just me.

I've been in long term relationships before getting married as well...its not the same

Yes, it is common (almost a golden rule) that sex goes out the window 2 minutes after a woman hears the L word but that only indicates that you TWO have something to work on. If she isn't interested in finding out why? Then I leave...plain and simple.

Well it actually goes out the window when she hears "I do". Sure its a problem for both to work on, but if one isnt working with you the problem stays.

Sorry, Mongrel, you may feel that a good sex life isn't a major part of a relationship but to me, it is 1/3 of it. I don't care how good the other 2 are, if there's no sex, then there's no relationship. For eg: if a woman didn't love you would you stay with her? Nope. If she started doing stupid things like spend all your money on Cardboard buildings would you stay with her? Nope. So why stay in a sexless marriage?

well there are more than just 3 aspects to a good marriage...its alot of things; and sex a smaller slice of the pie than other things like "love" and "money". Again until you get there these are things you wont grasp; as I was saying that I had the same opinions.

If thats how you feel about it thats your prerogative but for your sake I hope you never get married because you'll just keep getting divorced and divorce is not something you want to go through...believe that