Q & A with Valeria Beleza

[ValeriaBeleza]

have you ever developed feelings for your client?

have you ever considered or even dated a client?

Yes I developed feelings for one client, we met when I first started back in 2007 and it's been just platonic ever since.

I have not dated a client, not even the one I had feelings for, and I'm unsure if this would be the best way to meet someone because of many reasons, I've had clients who've said that they have feelings for me and I tell them to see more girls and explore more that's why it's a 'hobby' I can't deny that I've met amazing men that have swept me off my feet but most are in a different place in their lives where they are not looking for commitment and will never overcome the fact we've met this way. Some look beyond my choice of doing what I do an value me for the person I am but there is always a line we intuitively know we can't cross. It's an interesting topic and my view or opinion can be different of what others may have experienced.

 

[Titalian]

Yes I developed feelings for one client, we met when I first started back in 2007 and it's been just platonic ever since.

I have not dated a client, not even the one I had feelings for, and I'm unsure if this would be the best way to meet someone because of many reasons, I've had clients who've said that they have feelings for me and I tell them to see more girls and explore more that's why it's a 'hobby' I can't deny that I've met amazing men that have swept me off my feet but most are in a different place in their lives where they are not looking for commitment and will never overcome the fact we've met this way. Some look beyond my choice of doing what I do an value me for the person I am but there is always a line we intuitively know we can't cross. It's an interesting topic and my view or opinion can be different of what others may have experienced.

And also an interesting ending to your statement, For if we believe the scriptures one of the holiest men to ever graced this planet, befriended a woman such as yourself.
After saving her from certain death, she left everything just to be by his side.
If truth be told, she became his closest adviser, especially near the end.
Apparently she was the one who revealed Judas to him.
That's why she is depicted as prominent!!
In a very famous portrait (painting) by Da Vinci.

 

[On_the_side]

Have you had MFM before? Did it involve DP? Please give details!

Are you open to MFM where the M's are interactive?

 

[Mikehorn]

I've had clients who've said that they have feelings for me and I tell them to see more girls and explore more that's why it's a 'hobby'

Perfect answer! I never have just one favorite SP, always at least two I see regularly (looking to add a third, wink wink )

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Frequent flyer points or bonus plans?????

 

[explorerzip]

If you met the right guy (non-client of course) would you leave the industry right away or stick around?

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Where are some of the places that you have had sex in public in Toronto? You'd have to be brave since it's too bloody cold even in the summer

I plead the 5th....lol

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

And also an interesting ending to your statement, For if we believe the scriptures one of the holiest men to ever graced this planet, befriended a woman such as yourself.
After saving her from certain death, she left everything just to be by his side.
If truth be told, she became his closest adviser, especially near the end.
Apparently she was the one who revealed Judas to him.
That's why she is depicted as prominent!!
In a very famous portrait (painting) by Da Vinci.

I didn't know! Puts everything on a different perspective. I'm just talking from comments and talking with my clients and getting their honest input. And from my conversations the consensus have been that the dynamics of a relationship, once you've met the girl this way, is very different as if you've met her in other circumstance, sometimes better or worse, I guess it just requires a 'holy man'
To get past of what the girl has chosen to do or been through because of her choice and from the girl perspective unless the man is 'holy' in the back of one's mind it's the always the possibility that he'll have someone else or play around and so what I've seen with people or the SPs I know, that have relationships and their partner knows what they do, is that they engage in 'open relationships' and in my case I'm old school about that.....sorry I'm just rambling now...

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Are you open to MFM where the M's are interactive?

Yes I am (I was surprised on one I did recently when that happened) it was actually hot.

 

[Titalian]

I didn't know! Puts everything on a different perspective. I'm just talking from comments and talking with my clients and getting their honest input. And from my conversations the consensus have been that the dynamics of a relationship, once you've met the girl this way, is very different as if you've met her in other circumstance, sometimes better or worse, I guess it just requires a 'holy man'
To get past of what the girl has chosen to do or been through because of her choice and from the girl perspective unless the man is 'holy' in the back of one's mind it's the always the possibility that he'll have someone else or play around and so what I've seen with people or the SPs I know, that have relationships and their partner knows what they do, is that they engage in 'open relationships' and in my case I'm old school about that.....sorry I'm just rambling now...

Or maybe he had no prejudices, and used his power of persuasion to save a life. with no intent involved. Holy no, Human yes. :wink:

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Or maybe he had no prejudices, and used his power of persuasion to save a life. with no intent involved. Holy no, Human yes. :wink:

Ok then that's different and yes it would make lot of sense if someone cares about you with no hidden agenda but genuinely cares and just wants to help .....I thought we were talking about love and relationships.

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

If you met the right guy (non-client of course) would you leave the industry right away or stick around?

I would leave but first ill be truthful to him about what I've been and done (in my mind if I'm going to start anew and have a clean slate it would be best if he knew, the past always has a way of coming out and if I care for this person I would not like to deceive him)

 

[explorerzip]

I plea the 5th....lol

The next time I witness a couple having public sex, I'll just assume it's you Outdoor sex is intriguing, but I always wonder what the sand does to your nether regions. :Cry:

 

[explorerzip]

I would leave but first ill be truthful to him about what I've been and done (in my mind if I'm going to start anew and have a clean slate it would be best if he knew, the past always has a way of coming out and if I care for this person I would not like to deceive him)

Guess we need to make sure you never meet the "right" guy then! Just kidding That's awesome that you would be transparent with someone about your past and you're right that it can come out at the wrong time.

 

[On_the_side]

I plea the 5th....lol

easy on the 5th on john street?!?

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Frequent flyer points or bonus plans?????

I'm working on ideas for appreciation for my regulars, for now I just grandfathered the rates and a reward program wouldn't be bad idea.

 

[D-Fens]

I'm working on ideas for appreciation for my regulars, for now I just grandfathered the rates and a reward program wouldn't be bad idea.

Who would be considered a "regular" though? in order to qualify for that, someone who has seen you more than once? or someone who sees you on a regular basis? ie every week ever month

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

Who would be considered a "regular" though? in order to qualify for that, someone who has seen you more than once? or someone who sees you on a regular basis? ie every week ever month

You are my regular and regulars are grandfathered by the rates from when they initially saw me (excluding discounts)
In my case a 'Regular': is someone I like whom Ive known and seen more than once.
Ive also honoured instances in which I have not been able to see the person for the first time or more than one time, because of scheduling conflicts on my or change of schedule on his end- flight delays, conference venue change...etc) but we have keep in touch on email and he has shared about him ('about you' section on my site)

 

[explorerzip]

I'm working on ideas for appreciation for my regulars, for now I just grandfathered the rates and a reward program wouldn't be bad idea.

I thought you had a reward program not too long ago? Something about getting a discount after booking 5 appointments or something like that. I guess it can be tough to keep track of that?

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

I thought you had a reward program not too long ago? Something about getting a discount after booking 5 appointments or something like that. I guess it can be tough to keep track of that?

Yes! That was an experiment, now with the feedback I've got ill be launching another one (short term) and see what works better out of the two. Data management is definitely an issue.