Pros and semi-pros -- AFF and SA
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I've been on for a few days and I must say it's quite fun, since I really have a lot of time on my hands these days. Lots of messages from girls, so it takes a bit of time to sift through them. Just like at the strip club, there are lots of quality ones and lots of ones that aren't that desirable.
Currently messaging with a 20 year old student who's offering a nice reasonable rate. Meeting her this week for drinks hopefully it works out.
Currently messaging with a 20 year old student who's offering a nice reasonable rate. Meeting her this week for drinks hopefully it works out.
Nice. Good luck. Did you start off with a one month membership? I'm assuming you need to pay for a membership in order to message the girls? Thanks.
+1 son! ..................went on a date tonight. Girl was fucking mad cool. Young and normal. She knows the drill and was totally down with the fact I am not a millionaire. We are both kind of new to the whole thing and in the middle. I talked about my occasional hobbying and she was frank about the people she had hung with. It was liberating. Even if we never fuck I think I have met a kindred spirit.
Yes you can only message once you've paid for the membership. It can be a long process to find the right type of girl as some are cool with booty-calls, some only want long-term & some no sex at all. Many think they can get big bucks for doing nothing. But the girls are nice so long as you're upfront about your wishes...Give it a try!
Keep in mind that a lot of the girls who put "no sex" on their profiles will have sex. They admittedly put that there in case someone finds the profile. I've chatted with a few who admit this, the ones that really don't do sex will also let you know very quickly in the first chat.
Just curious if you guys were able to get the girls to hit the sack right away (after agreeing to the rate) or do you typically need to wine and dine aka meet and greet first before indulging in the fun?
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OnTheWayOut
yes, in the olden days it was a completely different story...i'm happy to be part of the new modern world before i wilt away like a spring dandelion....lucky me i seem to still have some mojo...We are truly blessed we live in an age that we can get laid so many ways!
It is possible to get a lady in the right position on the first date. I've had various levels of success. Some want dinner and a show before the fun. Others are quite willing to get into fun after trading a few messages. The younger ones are pretty flaky and you will spend lots of time sending messages. Don't get fooled there. If you haven't progressed to suggesting a meeting in the first couple messages or she hasn't agreed to meeting, move on. There are lots to choose from.
Thanks for the feedback, Brian. The reason I posed the question is two-fold: Wine and dine is all fine and dandy but that means additional investment time and cost, which is absolutely fine but something to keep in mind. An equally important factor is whether you guys are comfortable going out on the town with the girls and possibly run into or be seen by others...Big city with the small town feel, that's how people like to describe Ottawa to me
If none of that is a concern then it's all good in my book!
If none of that is a concern then it's all good in my book!
just got 1 to go home with me on our first meet. bought her dinner, chatted her up, and asked her if she was comfortable enough to proceed. it make sense that if she takes the time to have drinks and food with you, she might as well go home with you and make some money to make it worth her while. i think there is a pretty high success rate if you just ask and be direct.
Yes, that's the standard deal. But if you end up spending a lot of $ just for 1 or 2 SOG's then was it really worth it? If the cost is reasonable, then there is much fun to be had. With respect to the previous post, I have no issue being out on the town with a lovely young lass.
Yes, I personally recommend meeting the girl before discussing any terms. The whole advantage of SA is that you can meet the girl first and spend time before deciding if you want to spend more money, and if so how much. Many times a girl will have nice pics and maybe send you decent messages, but in person it's a total flop.
Just be vague if she asks you in the emails what you are looking for; say you are open to any arrangement if you get along well but have to meet first.
I'm having a blast on sa lol. So far I got a 5 hour score for under $200 and a couple of 19 year olds on deck. Also got a mid twenties nurse looking for a relationship and not a sd.
I'm just an average guy with a decent salary not super rich or anything. From what I gather a lot of girls on there are having trouble finding normal guys.
Highly recommend it you have decent social skills and time to meet various girls for drinks. Wish I signed up sooner.
I'm just an average guy with a decent salary not super rich or anything. From what I gather a lot of girls on there are having trouble finding normal guys.
Highly recommend it you have decent social skills and time to meet various girls for drinks. Wish I signed up sooner.
