Problem keeping him hard...

[whynot888]

Hi All,

I have a problem which surfaced recently...I'm currently 30 years old and I've been losing my hard on the past couple of times i attempted to have sex. although I feel kinda embarrassed, but at the same time i also hope some of you guys can help give me some advice and suggestions.

I asked a few friends of mine and they say i should try seeking help from a doctor where he can prescribe some viagra or cialis?

i don't know? what should i do?

 

[bogo]

Some classic contributors are, smoking, weight, stress, lack of cardio, and diet. I too have on occasion dealt with this, I try to get some exercise, drink lots of water and watch fatty foods. Stress cant seem to figure this one out.

 

[skypilot]

See a uroligist and don't be embarassed about it.

I found out after years of problems that the valves that hold the blood in my penis during a hard on were broken and let the blood leak out. None of the pills worked so the uroligist had several other solutions that did.

 

[ApoC44mac]

Hi All,

I have a problem which surfaced recently...I'm currently 30 years old and I've been losing my hard on the past couple of times i attempted to have sex. although I feel kinda embarrassed, but at the same time i also hope some of you guys can help give me some advice and suggestions.

I asked a few friends of mine and they say i should try seeking help from a doctor where he can prescribe some viagra or cialis?

i don't know? what should i do?

Hey Just wondering if you do any type of penile exercises? Eg.. PC Squeezes (kegels), Testicular massage etc? If not those would be two ways to improve erection's. Also can you get an erection while masturbating? You can also do the stamp test. Basically go buy a row of stamps and stick them onto your flaccid penis before sleep, if in the morning they are still there and haven't ripped apart then you have a physical issue, if they are broken than most likely your issue is psychological. Most likely stress, guilt, nervousness, etc...

Best bet though is to see your GP, but I would first do the stamp test, and just figure out if your fine when you masturbate. If you are then most likely its in your head and you just need to build some confidence or reduce outside disturbances like stress. (go the the gym, get a hobby, stop fuckin sp's if you feel guilty about it... etc).

If you need anymore detail's PM me.

ApoC

 

[danmand]

Hey Just wondering if you do any type of penile exercises? Eg.. PC Squeezes (kegels), Testicular massage etc? If not those would be two ways to improve erection's. Also can you get an erection while masturbating? You can also do the stamp test. Basically go buy a row of stamps and stick them onto your flaccid penis before sleep, if in the morning they are still there and haven't ripped apart then you have a physical issue, if they are broken than most likely your issue is psychological. Most likely stress, guilt, nervousness, etc...

Best bet though is to see your GP, but I would first do the stamp test, and just figure out if your fine when you masturbate. If you are then most likely its in your head and you just need to build some confidence or reduce outside disturbances like stress. (go the the gym, get a hobby, stop fuckin sp's if you feel guilty about it... etc).

If you need anymore detail's PM me.

ApoC

Although it is a misuse of medication, a tiny bit of viagra can give
you confidence and take away the psychological problems. Sort of
a "real" placebo.

 

[Questor]

First off, it probably not a good idea to solicit medical advise on an escort review board. Take everything you are told with a grain of salt. But then again, most men are somewhat reluctant to go to their doctor to talk about their erection problems, and so asking a few questions here, getting a variety of answers, and then deciding on a course of action, is not such a bad idea.

Your failing phallus could be either a psychological or a physical problem. A doctor is in the best position to help you determine which it is. Psychological factors could include: being with someone new or a change in your relationship with your partner; some new stress in your life such as work or almost anything.

If it is physical, a doctor can recommend a course of action to help correct it i.e. diet, exercise.

If it is psychological, then hopefully it will pass on its own, soon.

If you are embarassed to go to your GP, or if you don't have a GP, then there are walk in clinics that will prescribe something for you: cialis or viagra being the most common choices. In this way, you can try it out and hopefully the problem will pass with time. However, in the long run, you are probably better to suck it up and just ask your doctor. He/she has many patients and no doubt you won't be the first to have that problem. He/she won't giggle in front of you. With any luck, they won't go down to the local pub and have a good laugh at your expense either...just kidding.

Good luck. Having droopie dick is not fun. Especially at age 30. There's a good chance something is just bugging you and in a week or two, it will pass. On the other hand, it can also be a symptom of poor blood circulation, diabetes, heart disease, etc. So that's why its a good reason to check with a doctor.

 

[Emma@SecretaryService]

i don't know? what should i do?

Start by getting accurate information from a reliable source ( not an escort review board ) and then decide if you need to see your doctor:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/erectile-dysfunction/DS00162

I really hope things start looking "up" for you soon. (I know I know... but I couldn't resist)

 

[Rockslinger]

Do you wake up every morning with huge erection? If yes, your problem is probably mental (nothing mechically wrong with your thing). If not, then go see your doctor. 30 seems kind of young to be having this problem but then men hit their sexual peak at 18 so you are on the downhill.

 

[Timbit]

I like Andrea's thinking - if you ask her politely, maybe she'll give you a discount rate - it being a mission of mercy and all.

Timbit

 

[Damondean]

Excellent suggestions!

I think you should find an experienced SP... Sometimes it helps.

Seriously, this is an excellent suggestion. The right SP--one that turns you on and knows what she is doing may be the solution.

 

[tboy]

Hi All,

I have a problem which surfaced recently...I'm currently 30 years old and I've been losing my hard on the past couple of times i attempted to have sex. although I feel kinda embarrassed, but at the same time i also hope some of you guys can help give me some advice and suggestions.

I asked a few friends of mine and they say i should try seeking help from a doctor where he can prescribe some viagra or cialis?

i don't know? what should i do?

Some clarification please:
1) When this happens, is it with an sp?
2) Does it happen when you whack off?
3) Does it happen with civilian women too?

If you don't have a problem when you're "doing the laundry by hand" then it's psychological.

I used to have this problem too. It is because I typically dated a woman a few times before knockin' boots and then the comfort level was there. That's kind of difficult to do with an sp in an hour.

 

[squash500]

Some classic contributors are, smoking, weight, stress, lack of cardio, and diet.

I agree with this statement 100% . I've been having the same problem lately except I'm in my mid 40's. The only good thing about is that I have been able to cut down my sp expenses for the past couple of months.

Sorry to hijack your thread. I am afraid to talk to my gp about it as she is a hot looking milf type. Maybe I should go to a men's clinic as well----lol.

 

[Plan B]

Hi All,

I have a problem which surfaced recently...I'm currently 30 years old and I've been losing my hard on the past couple of times i attempted to have sex. although I feel kinda embarrassed, but at the same time i also hope some of you guys can help give me some advice and suggestions.

I asked a few friends of mine and they say i should try seeking help from a doctor where he can prescribe some viagra or cialis?

i don't know? what should i do?

You should definitely try Viagra or Cialis. I have only had experience with Viagra, but you will feel like Superman an hour after taking it, although there are side effects to it. If you feel embarrassed about going to a doctor, then you can order sildenafil citrate(viagra) online at any time. Its cheaper, but its not as good.

 

[GlavaMan]

I agree with this statement 100%. I've been having the same problem lately except I'm in my mid 40's. The only good thing about is that I have been able to cut down my sp expenses for the past couple of months.

Sorry to hijack your thread. I am afraid to talk to my gp about it as she is a hot looking milf type. Maybe I should go to a men's clinic as well----lol.

I would say that's a reason to talk to you GP about it! Maybe she will evaluate your problem....first hand!

 

[Macator2003]

Hey Just wondering if you do any type of penile exercises? Eg.. PC Squeezes (kegels), Testicular massage etc? If not those would be two ways to improve erection's. Also can you get an erection while masturbating? You can also do the stamp test. Basically go buy a row of stamps and stick them onto your flaccid penis before sleep, if in the morning they are still there and haven't ripped apart then you have a physical issue, if they are broken than most likely your issue is psychological. Most likely stress, guilt, nervousness, etc...ApoC

Kegels are a good idea. Just a word of caution. A friend of a friend of mine tried the stamp test. Nothing happened the first night. He went back to the Post Office the next day and bought twice the number of stamps and applied them all to his flaccid penis before going to bed that night.

This poor chap woke up the next morning with no cock. It ended up being mailed out to Dildo Newfoundland. Least he had his balls so he could carry on with the Testicular massage.....

 

[Rockslinger]

I have only had experience with Viagra, although there are side effects to it.

Doesn't Viagra make you blind?

 

[HafDun]

I think you should find an experienced SP... Sometimes it helps.

Are you covered under OHIP?
I think I need a consultation!!

 

[Prim0]

Some classic contributors are, smoking, weight, stress, lack of cardio, and diet.

GOD! That sounds like my life!

 

[Radio_Shack]

Doesn't Viagra make you blind?

Yeah I think it does but it helps you fuck like a rabbit and hell if your blind you can go for the low budget escorts cuz it doesn't matter what they looks like.

 

[tboy]

Yeah I think it does but it helps you fuck like a rabbit and hell if your blind you can go for the low budget escorts cuz it doesn't matter what they looks like.

LOL which makes one side effect actually beneficial in the long run lol....

Kind of like beer goggles that don't give you brewer's droop!