prepaying
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You are right... my apologies.Lol... I think it was jiggety who said that - I definitely didn't.
Before you got to your car!Ah yes...a private thing that went sour...how quickly would an sp out you if you didn't pay your bill?
No problem, no harm done.You are right... my apologies.
Oh, I'm not saying that they intentionally dupe you. What I'm saying is that they have good intentions, but when the future comes ringing, they need money and move onto the currently paying customers as you don't have any redeeming qualities at that moment. Cleo excepted, of course!No outing for me just yet. I had too great a time with her and she treated me really well like a friend; deep down, I still don't believe she was trying to take advantage of me, and I am hoping against hope that she'll reappear some day.
Sorry, withpassion, my post about not outing was actually responding to curiousm7's mentioning about outing. I have no intention of mentioning her handle here at this point. But rest assured, she can not dupe anyone since she has not been seen for nearly half a year now.Oh, I'm not saying that they intentionally dupe you. What I'm saying is that they have good intentions, but when the future comes ringing, they need money and move onto the currently paying customers as you don't have any redeeming qualities at that moment. Cleo excepted, of course!
I agree with you about losing the redeeming qualities when you want to meet them in the future. We should definitely be cautious when face with this dilemma.
Are we children? I'd never not pay my bill, so it would never be an issue. You've missed the point. Anyways back to the thread.Ah yes...a private thing that went sour...how quickly would an sp out you if you didn't pay your bill?
I would personally never prepay for an appointment, and would advise anyone I know not to as well. Every guy I know who has done so has been burned and in a couple of cases, badly! If a woman wants money up front, my best advice would be to go elsewhere.
In my case the SP didnt want or seem to prefer the money in advance, but instead offers it to regulars as a payment option which does save me $ and works for her as well. If an SP asked me to pay for the next apt in advance because of instability/money problems I would think twice about that for sure. I have had no problems paying for 10 appointments in advance and the 11th is no charge. Works for me.
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Yes, I find that becoming very habitual these days. I avoid those that want payment up-front, with a few exceptions, as it lends itself to daccomodating scammers.Though this "paying up front" must be clarified a bit. Some SP's may want their entire payment at the beginning of the session, rather than at the end. This I've accomodated in the past, though it's not my favourite form of payment, you are in the same room as her, so it's not usually a problem.
Wait, you're saying that you guys have had service from SPs without giving cash first??? I don't think I've ever done that.. I just normally hand over the cash when I walk in..??
As for prepaying sessions in advance, I've prepaid before without issues. It really just depends on the person.
As for prepaying sessions in advance, I've prepaid before without issues. It really just depends on the person.
I have done all the above..at the beginning, I have paid at the end, I have paid in advance with USD when a fave was planning a trip, another time it was a special deal offerred, and once I completely forgot about paying....no problem that time either...the lady knew me and wasn't the least bit fazed, even laughed about it a bit...I paid her, and included a bonus for my transgression..Wait, you're saying that you guys have had service from SPs without giving cash first??? I don't think I've ever done that.. I just normally hand over the cash when I walk in..??
As for prepaying sessions in advance, I've prepaid before without issues. It really just depends on the person.
But...I stick mostly with regulars, so perhaps a trust is built there.
I've very rarely paid in advance, always on incalls, and it never seemed to be an issue. It might be another facet of the business where YMMV. I guess I must have an honest face! lol
On the contrary, I always pay in advance - for two reasons:
First, the ladies I see so far all advertise on the pink board - so I have no trust issue. The payment etiquette had been widely discussed, and most, if not all ladies prefer payment in an unsealed envelop and placed on the counter soon after you enter the room.
Second, this was an embarrassing one. One time with a visiting SP whom I had seen at least 2 times before - we were happy to see each other, so - with all the hugs and kisses, and my handling her a small gift etc, we proceeded to the session. Afterwards, I started to dress, and that's when she asked - have you forgotten something? I then realized that I had not given her the envelop yet! It was so embarrassing that I had to apologize to her profusely! lol.
First, the ladies I see so far all advertise on the pink board - so I have no trust issue. The payment etiquette had been widely discussed, and most, if not all ladies prefer payment in an unsealed envelop and placed on the counter soon after you enter the room.
Second, this was an embarrassing one. One time with a visiting SP whom I had seen at least 2 times before - we were happy to see each other, so - with all the hugs and kisses, and my handling her a small gift etc, we proceeded to the session. Afterwards, I started to dress, and that's when she asked - have you forgotten something? I then realized that I had not given her the envelop yet! It was so embarrassing that I had to apologize to her profusely! lol.
