premature ejaculation

bursa said:
anyone have this problem?
any advice?
any medicines that can help?

try searching this topic - it has come a few times.
 
The answer is V. You'll last longer than an energizer bunny.
 
yeah, if you pop a Viagra you likely will have reduced feeling and it will last longer but see your doctor.
 
A topical anesthetic will help, as long as you are not allergic to it (e.g. lidocaine cream or similar creams).

However, you may lose so much sensation that you can't keep it up so you might need some V, or C, or L. (check with your doctor first).
 
A recent column I read proposed this solution:

http://www.drugstore.com/qxa1316_33...ion_treatments_for_premature_ejaculation.htm/

and defined the problem as ejaculation in less than 5 minutes of copulation

Are there any prescription treatments for premature ejaculation?
answer for 'Are there any prescription treatments for premature ejaculation?'Premature ejaculation is a common condition that affects 30 to 40 percent of men, regardless of age. It occurs when a man ejaculates before or soon after entering his partner. This can happen with very little physical stimulation.

One common side effect of antidepressants is delayed ejaculation. So some doctors prescribe antidepressants for premature ejaculation. Some studies have found that the antidepressant clomipramine (brand name Anafranil) works well to delay ejaculation. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) antidepressants such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), and sertraline (Zoloft) can also be effective. Studies have shown that 20 to 70 percent of men have a delay in ejaculation of three to five minutes when they use these medications.

Treatment for premature ejaculation should begin with behavioral approaches such as sex therapy, followed by the use of condoms with or without Maintain. Prescription medicines are an option if other measures don't work.

Sources:
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Kim, S.C. "Efficacy and Safety of Fluoxetine, Sertraline, and Clomipramine in Patients with Premature Ejaculation: A Double-blind, Placebo Controlled Study," The Journal of Urology 159 (1998).
Mayo Clinic Family Health Book. William Morrow & Co., 1996.
Xin, Z.C. "Penile Sensitivity in Patients with Primary Premature Ejaculation," The Journal of Urology 156 (1996).
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However, there's a down side! A quote in the New York Times:

"But for many people treated with these and other psychiatric drugs, the remedy, though highly effective in making life meaningful again, falls short in a major sphere. Instead of raising libido and the ability to achieve sexual fulfillment, popular antidepressants commonly cause a loss of interest in sex and block the ability to achieve sexual satisfaction."

You can't win! Although you can keep it going, you really don't want to!
 
Laughing....

hellhole said:
I think a lot of it is psychological ...I find its very difficult to control it when you are with a new partner; the excitement, anticipation, nervousness are factors leading to this problem. Once I become more familiar with a partner, control becomes a lot easier.

As I got older women would say "wow you are just so good at it"... hello! Standard nerve damage!

However I do not dismiss the psychological factor. I was a bullshit lover in my teen and 20's even thought I had the stamina of a stallion on viagara. When I became 40 I just learned to enjoy the process and it was longer and many times.

I still look back to my University days when I was 20 and fucked a girl once and stopped and wonder what the hell was going on.