I agree that it's normal for a little cleanup so that you can come back and cuddle. As long as I know that you're coming back for more intimacy, then that's even better.The post coitus reward moment. I didn't know it was such a turn off. I thought when you pulled out it was just normal to clean you up asap so I can come cuddle with you. Is it that bad? I am feeling bad suddenly. I never meant to make anybody feel that way.