Possible 1st timer

[TheWhiteRabbit]

I've been a member for a while thinking about whether or not I want to do it. I've read a lot of threads from other first timers. They were helpful. I get that there are risks.

I'm safety conscious. I get the HPV and HSV risks... Any advice about where to get the HPV vac discretely? Beyond looking for signs of HSV and avoiding providers who advertise higher risk option, any other advice? I kinda thought I might start with Handjobs lol...

Anyway. Any advice welcome. I don't know anyone who does it so I have to decide to take the leap or not.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Just one rule.................wear protection, always!

 

[LTO_3]

What CC said is ALWAYS your best safety shield. as for any testing and available meds either your family doctor or any Sex Health Clinic where any testing is done discretely and they can advise on any meds and questions.

LTO_3

 

[OntGuy2010]

In addition to reading first-timer threads, also search and read threads regarding general and specific safety concerns, a LOT for you to look at!

 

[Oblaster]

I've been a member for a while thinking about whether or not I want to do it. I've read a lot of threads from other first timers. They were helpful. I get that there are risks.

I'm safety conscious. I get the HPV and HSV risks... Any advice about where to get the HPV vac discretely? Beyond looking for signs of HSV and avoiding providers who advertise higher risk option, any other advice? I kinda thought I might start with Handjobs lol...

Anyway. Any advice welcome. I don't know anyone who does it so I have to decide to take the leap or not.

HPV is unavoidable. Most sexually active people will have it at some point in their lives. You can't even get it checked if you are a man. Luckily, it's largely symptomless. For everything else, look for warts and sores and use a condom. Oh and don't have sex with people who have a cold.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I've been a member for a while thinking about whether or not I want to do it. I've read a lot of threads from other first timers. They were helpful. I get that there are risks.

I'm safety conscious. I get the HPV and HSV risks... Any advice about where to get the HPV vac discretely? Beyond looking for signs of HSV and avoiding providers who advertise higher risk option, any other advice? I kinda thought I might start with Handjobs lol...

Anyway. Any advice welcome. I don't know anyone who does it so I have to decide to take the leap or not.

Your family doctor or search sexual health clinics in your area. Walk in clinic. Your city website will also have clinics. Sometimes they are rotating. definitely get updated gardasil three shots

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

HPV is unavoidable. Most sexually active people will have it at some point in their lives. You can't even get it checked if you are a man. Luckily, it's largely symptomless. For everything else, look for warts and sores and use a condom. Oh and don't have sex with people who have a cold.

stop making it seem so casual. We all still need to be vaccinated against all that we can. Hpv is the absolute. Gardasil is updated now to three shots. Go get it

 

[TheWhiteRabbit]

stop making it seem so casual. We all still need to be vaccinated against all that we can. Hpv is the absolute. Gardasil is updated now to three shots. Go get it

I think I should have been more clear. I have had HPV for almost 30 years. But my understanding is there are different variants and so there's probably valuing getting vaccinated?

I may be misinformed and so I'll probably Google this after posting. I'm not going to use my family doctor as I share that with other people. But have looked into clinics near me and there are some.

I would always wear protection. But as I say, I may go with a very low risk option of the show with the release only by hand. We'll see.

 

[massman]

The variants that the HPV vaccine targets are the ones that cause genital cancers. (Predominantly cervical).

 

[Daveboy]

Don't do it. You'll regret it.

 

[blakhouze]

Don't do it. You'll regret it.

Did you listen to your own advice? How do you feel now? LOL.

 

[Daveboy]

Did you listen to your own advice? How do you feel now? LOL.

I regret it.

BTW, I'm honored that you made your 2nd post in 9 years, quoting me.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I think I should have been more clear. I have had HPV for almost 30 years. But my understanding is there are different variants and so there's probably valuing getting vaccinated?

I may be misinformed and so I'll probably Google this after posting. I'm not going to use my family doctor as I share that with other people. But have looked into clinics near me and there are some.

I would always wear protection. But as I say, I may go with a very low risk option of the show with the release only by hand. We'll see.

I’m really surprised. You should be notifying the ladies of this. You are transmitting even if not active infection. Does your wife know ? because if she wasn’t already infertile she is likely going to have issues with cervical cancer. This is so upsetting. Just go to your family doctor and stop making the people you have sex with sick. Get vaccinated yes and get proper sexual health education Having them use their hand and now wearing gloves is also a risk and you’re knowingly letting them get this

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

The variants that the HPV vaccine targets are the ones that cause genital cancers. (Predominantly cervical).

Ya and this guy ruined his wife’s and still refuses to just use their family doctor. She’s going to know if she doesn’t already !! How selfish of you op

 

[TheWhiteRabbit]

I’m really surprised. You should be notifying the ladies of this. You are transmitting even if not active infection. Does your wife know ? because if she wasn’t already infertile she is likely going to have issues with cervical cancer. This is so upsetting. Just go to your family doctor and stop making the people you have sex with sick. Get vaccinated yes and get proper sexual health education Having them use their hand and now wearing gloves is also a risk and you’re knowingly letting them get this

She knows. Always has. Not an issue.