I think some people need to have a big GROUP HUG.
No homo
.There that feels better doesn't it?
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No homo
.There that feels better doesn't it?
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Poor parenting skills
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Lustology said:
Dude: just how stupid ARE you? YOU admitted that you had a 1 inch dick.....
Here, in case you forget:
Lustology said:
luv4lust said:dudes calm down and get a grip on what ever " 's you have and relax kids learn from example
LOL shit, KIDS read these forums? Damn, there goes the neighborhood! lol
luv4lust said:ah so it worked i made you smile lol
Hey, I've been smilin' ever since (notso) fabulous got banned!!!!!
Buwaahahahhahahaahahhahahahah
Watch out for the falling txxxsladyofthenite said:Holy crap tboy..NEVER thought I'd say this, but in regards to your post at the top of page 5 of this thread...
I AGREE WITH YOU 100%
Will wonders never cease?
Sandy
*going outside to see if pigs are flying*
Lustology said:
LOL nice try on the editing of the quote...but you already put it out in a post for the world to see....well, with a magnifying glass they could see it....
You're such a homer....you keep admitting that you fucked a guy....glad you're comfortable with your homosexuality......
What bothers me is ....you can have as many kids as you want...and not discipline them if you like, but you need to get liscence to have a dog and there are laws as to how many you can have.
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Kids have some vast resource of energy that never seems to fade. They are little con artists with dozens of tricks up their sleeves. They also seem to have planned attacks and are masters of getting almost any thing their little hearts desire. The fact is that kids have more control over the parents than they know.
Just think about it they start to condition their parents from birth by crying. This is the scary part because a man called Pavlov first discovered this in the 1800's by training dogs to salivate to the sound of a bell. Hence the condition part of the package; each cry has an order behind it, I’m hungry, I’ m dirty I’m tired, I’m sick, etc. In fact every parent has had the cries down at one time or another haven’t you?
Kids are an ingenious bunch testing how far they can go, manipulating situations to their advantage, and easing their way into any thing they want. They suck every ounce of strength out of your body and every cent from your bank account. They make you work until you have nothing left to give. Then when you are at your weakest, they do something wrong to get in trouble. You being the parent know that this is around the point that they are punished.
So now you have control, right? Not a chance, here comes the second attack, the guilt trips. If they just weren’t so cute and pitiful with a remorseful pout on their face. Now don’t fall for it; It’s just a trick a strategy if you will. You fell for it didn’t you? You feel awful for punishing them don’t you? Guess what? Now they have you in the palm of their little hands, ready to form you into any thing that their little organized minds can come up with to top the last attempt to stress you out.
The bad news is that this goes on for a few years. The good news is that you will have your chance to get them back as soon as you become a proud grandparent.
Kids
Kids today they expect parents to have 48 hours in a day and 16 hands to help them with. They want you to clean up after them, do their laundry, shopping, cooking, oh and let us not forget the homework and playtime. Now can you realize how parents can be stressed no well here are a few more reasons.Kids have some vast resource of energy that never seems to fade. They are little con artists with dozens of tricks up their sleeves. They also seem to have planned attacks and are masters of getting almost any thing their little hearts desire. The fact is that kids have more control over the parents than they know.
Just think about it they start to condition their parents from birth by crying. This is the scary part because a man called Pavlov first discovered this in the 1800's by training dogs to salivate to the sound of a bell. Hence the condition part of the package; each cry has an order behind it, I’m hungry, I’ m dirty I’m tired, I’m sick, etc. In fact every parent has had the cries down at one time or another haven’t you?
Kids are an ingenious bunch testing how far they can go, manipulating situations to their advantage, and easing their way into any thing they want. They suck every ounce of strength out of your body and every cent from your bank account. They make you work until you have nothing left to give. Then when you are at your weakest, they do something wrong to get in trouble. You being the parent know that this is around the point that they are punished.
So now you have control, right? Not a chance, here comes the second attack, the guilt trips. If they just weren’t so cute and pitiful with a remorseful pout on their face. Now don’t fall for it; It’s just a trick a strategy if you will. You fell for it didn’t you? You feel awful for punishing them don’t you? Guess what? Now they have you in the palm of their little hands, ready to form you into any thing that their little organized minds can come up with to top the last attempt to stress you out.
The bad news is that this goes on for a few years. The good news is that you will have your chance to get them back as soon as you become a proud grandparent.
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I remember growing up my mother was the screamer and then there was my dad. Oh boy. My mother would yell at anything. As time went on it just became redundant. Don't get me wrong, I knew when she was angry but it was her just yelling again. Now when my dad said something, it was serious and I knew not to step out of line. He didn't yell as much or not even close to my mother. But when he did I, oh boy. My dad didn't sweat the small stuff, but made sure I knew when I was approaching that line.
My point, yes you need to keep your kids in line, and kids are kids and they do stupid things. We've all done stupid things growing up. And it doesn't mean our parents are bad, or have bad parental skills. TBoy, do you blame your parents for the stupid things you did growing up? I thank my parents for the person I am today, not for the the dumb kid stuff I did, like poking groceries.
Yes the mother should have said something, but I'm not going to call her a bad parent either.
My point, yes you need to keep your kids in line, and kids are kids and they do stupid things. We've all done stupid things growing up. And it doesn't mean our parents are bad, or have bad parental skills. TBoy, do you blame your parents for the stupid things you did growing up? I thank my parents for the person I am today, not for the the dumb kid stuff I did, like poking groceries.
Yes the mother should have said something, but I'm not going to call her a bad parent either.
You are secure enough in yourself you don't need any outside affirmations, I know it would have been nice though.
I remember being on the subway once and I got up for an older lady to give her my seat (she looked shaky), before I had a chance to offer my seat to her people had slid over and one had sat down to fill the seat. The older lady refused the seat (I would have got the people to move), but I guess people are just like that now.
I remember being on the subway once and I got up for an older lady to give her my seat (she looked shaky), before I had a chance to offer my seat to her people had slid over and one had sat down to fill the seat. The older lady refused the seat (I would have got the people to move), but I guess people are just like that now.
Amber said:
I saw that on the news too...pretty wild....but reminds me of a cousin of mine who took her parents car for a drive when she was 8.....Nothing like that, my cousin only drove it straight into a ditch.....
luv4lust said:Kids Kids today they expect parents to have 48 hours in a day and 16 hands to help them with. They want you to clean up after them, do their laundry, shopping, cooking, oh and let us not forget the homework and playtime.<snip>
This is nothing new, that's how kids have always started out. It's up to the parents to act like parents instead of being afraid that they won't be their kid's friend.
Whenever my sister or I would tell my mom "I hate you" she would just reply "that's okay, I love you" or somesuch. Of course it bothered her, but she knew that if she gave in it would just cause us to push that boundary even harder.
Kids aren't born with morals and scruples, they have to be taught. They start off life totally ego-centric and have to be taught to understand other people's feelings and stuff like that.
