I was thinking recently about how & why stereotypes develops. The classic one in the world of hobbling is the "no blacks gents" we see on so many postings by SP's. Why do you think that preference exists? Is it based on the persons experience of that SP or rather a stereotypical view of "black gents"?
Pondering stereotypes
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Probably both. Clearly some have had bad experience, some have a personal fear, some have been warned by others or are just following suit, some may not be attracted to them. Might be other reasons but the advertiser is the only one who can explain why she made that decision.
Gender stereotypes IMO are a prevalent issue. I fell into a trap once when someone mentioned bank manager and I responded back thinking that the manager was a man.
There's a few threads about no black gents so beware the wrath of some.
It's a pimping stereotype, typically from formally experience in strip clubs girls with a "man" aren't allowed to speak to other pimps or their "man" will be charged. No I've never had a pimp but a girl tried to recruite me once and ran me through that. I see all ethnicities as long as you're respectful and hygienic
That. Also many girls are afraid of getting robbed by a guy from the projects and his buddies. It's a generalization, but girls are often scared of what might be out there and this is one way they let themselves feel a little more in control.
A few dancers I've known have told me that it is not black guys but brown guys they avoid. Apparently there is a stereotype in the heads of white dancers (earned or not I don't know) that brown guys, from India, etc, are not respectful to the dancers. Being a white guy with yellow fever I can't comment on that further.
I have surveyed SPs on this and the two reasons direct from their mouths is that they try to "recruit" the SP and secondly they are inconsiderate lovers (don't shoot the messenger).
People keep claiming robbery but I suspect they just don't want to admit racism
There are more white gang members in TO than black
Toronto has a very low rate of robbery compared to nearly every other city
The crime claim is a bs cover up
But we accept it because we all fear black males
There are more white gang members in TO than black
Toronto has a very low rate of robbery compared to nearly every other city
The crime claim is a bs cover up
But we accept it because we all fear black males
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?617343-Glad-they-caught-the-guy-sad-news&p=5975444#post5975444
Maybe a little helpful why many of us not prefer black clients. When a moth....ker like this Oluwatobi Boyede kill a girl , assaulted and raped others. It's really hard to convince me about how kind and innocents you are. Yes it didn't say he was a black guy but come on. Oluwatobi Boyede???
You know the answer! It's a shame of the Canadian justice system release this guy and let him walk freely , after 15 court date, many previous case ....etc.
Maybe a little helpful why many of us not prefer black clients. When a moth....ker like this Oluwatobi Boyede kill a girl , assaulted and raped others. It's really hard to convince me about how kind and innocents you are. Yes it didn't say he was a black guy but come on. Oluwatobi Boyede???
You know the answer! It's a shame of the Canadian justice system release this guy and let him walk freely , after 15 court date, many previous case ....etc.
Hard to know as Canadians are too cowardly to measure it....
https://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2015/08/17/a-thorny-history-of-race-based-statistics.html
Assuming this guy is black, so what? Could easily have been of any ethnic background. Pretty sure most serial killers throughout history are white. I think people were shocked when the sniper in the US gunning down people from his car turned out to be black - that in itself is a stereotype.
There's going to be a bunch of bad apples from every ethnic background. Was reading an article about teachers in Ontario teaching a course in (or at least the concept of( white privilege. The one teacher admitted she doesn't know what it's like to be followed around in a store because she's not a visible minority and feels bad for other women who experience this.
You right Sempel. Not everyone are the same but I had bad experiences too. If I want to play russian roulette I won't do it for 250 CAD.
Unfortunately if I don't feel safe or afraid from a client, I just don't take them and I have every right to do it. I kicked out many guys from other race from my place in the past. Otherwise trust me, black guys are not a big spender in this business. ( Except a few but I leave them for other girls )
If I don't want to sex with black guys why they, or you, or the media try to push me?? Why?? Spend their hard earning money for someone who likes and takes black clients.
I have 3 strong reason :
1. As an international ex dancer and SP, I had really bad experiences in the past. France and Canada and Spain too.
2. I hate when the media suggest it's so cool, as a white blond girl, I must f..k with black guys with big dicks( what is a totally false info. They
not bigger just darker) I don't like if the media push me at any direction. I'm an adult and I can make my own decisions.
3. 85% of my regular clientele are usually older than 40-50 years old. Asians, whites, indians, middle easterns.
Believe it or not, those guys don't like to share me with black clients. You can't believe how happy they are because no ebonies in my
bedroom and I got that question through text many times in the past.
They don't want daty or any activity if they know there were a black sausages half hour before their session.
It's funny...... because it's true.
If I take black guys ( what I simply won't because it's my body and my choice) I will lose half of my regular clients.
Case closed!
You right Sempel. Not everyone are the same but I had bad experiences too. If I want to play russian roulette I won't do it for 250 CAD.
Unfortunately if I don't feel safe or afraid from a client, I just don't take them and I have every right to do it. I kicked out many guys from other race from my place in the past. Otherwise trust me, black guys are not a big spender in this business. ( Except a few but I leave them for other girls )
If I don't want to sex with black guys why they, or you, or the media try to push me?? Why?? Spend their hard earning money for someone who likes and takes black clients.
I have 3 strong reason :
1. As an international ex dancer and SP, I had really bad experiences in the past. France and Canada and Spain too.
2. I hate when the media suggest it's so cool, as a white blond girl, I must f..k with black guys with big dicks( what is a totally false info. They
not bigger just darker) I don't like if the media push me at any direction. I'm an adult and I can make my own decisions.
3. 85% of my regular clientele are usually older than 40-50 years old. Asians, whites, indians, middle easterns.
Believe it or not, those guys don't like to share me with black clients. You can't believe how happy they are because no ebonies in my
bedroom and I got that question through text many times in the past.
They don't want daty or any activity if they know there were a black sausages half hour before their session.
It's funny...... because it's true.
If I take black guys ( what I simply won't because it's my body and my choice) I will lose half of my regular clients.
Case closed!
Whoa - don't get all bent out of shape. I was merely pointing out that using a single article about some random guy who was bad as reasoning, which is what you implied, didn't make the most sense.
You seemed to have made a huge jump to me judging you for your choice and almost demanding you either feel bad, defensive, or needing to change.
I sort of liked the stereotype that many Asian guys know kung fu or some type of martial arts (I do). Growing up I was never bullied or had a fight
And that stereotype of Chinese people being bad drivers. Totally not true. They are not bad drivers. They just think they own the road lol.
And that stereotype of Chinese people being bad drivers. Totally not true. They are not bad drivers. They just think they own the road lol.
LOL....
You didn't get it, as you didn't get anything on this board. A troll try to test me? Seriously? 
Ok girl. I born in Sweden and I saw what's happened there. Against the agenda and the politically correct media the truth is a big different. You can't believe how many girl assaulted, stabbed, raped for only one reason. Because they are WHITE.
I was in coma in Paris when I was assaulted, and I was assaulted in Spain because I said no for BBFS.
I was a dancer in the House of Lancaster in Toronto then what?
A black girl broke my locker and stole everything. My money, my bank cards, my papers my keys.
I had my first black clients 10 years ago in Canada, after I made a decision to give them a chance. Then what? My 400$ I pad went missing from my drawer.
After I made one exception, because my client ask me to take his friend and I will his birtday gift. He was black, paid half hour ( one shot) and cum within 30 seconds.
After he asked me , begging me for one more shot and promise me to bring hundred $ more from his car. I agree because my client who recommended him. Then what? He left after the second shot, and never come back. That was the last straw.
Maybe I'm just not lucky with the black people but I'm sure about one thing. Black people are not less racist than the white people.
And sorry I don't see only black clients , and I do it for serious reasons. Any other race are welcome here.
And if someone call me racist because I don't want to f...k with black dudes? So be it!
Have a great day!
Please don't tell me you really believe that??? Even if you think it is somewhat a compliment that is an extremely racist statement.
Really??? do you know in North America that most serial rapists and serial killers are white?? I can t believe this thread!!
What would you expect in a thread titled "Pondering Stereotypes".. Terb is known for allowing offensive threads to exist
I believe everything you are saying for reasons why you don't trust people of colour. However it is not because the colour of skin that made most of those people assault you, it is because of their social economic back ground. Sorry but you have to admit that you are dealing with people that don't have the financial resources to make proper life choices and it is not like you are dealing in an environment with educated pillars of society. Hell an hundred years ago the majority criminals in Toronto were Irish. This wasn't because they were Irish but because they were poor, uneducated, desperate people that had limited opportunities and were forced by society to make bad choices to survive. Their life experiences lead them to make decisions that were morally wrong just like your life experiences lead you to make morally wrong racist decisions.
As a middle age average white guy who has lived a privileged life , I can only make these statements based on reviewing historical data and I might be incorrect but at least I attempt to keep an open mind.
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