Poll - How long is a provider in your rotation?
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definitely like to settle in with a gal i click with... saw Sweetest Gina for years... saw Jade613 for years... been seeing Alma for going on 12 years - in fact i was the one who first posted about her here on TERB on Oct 13, 2013 and i saw her again last month and she is just a fun now as she was then.
In rotation as long as services don't change.
Not surprised by the results. Taking chances on new ladies is a recipe for serious disappointment (and worse) in Ottawa. In this town, if you find someone good, best to stick with them.
If I find someone I like, where we get along and I have a great time whenever we meet, I’ll stick with them. Longest so far is like 7yrs.
I usually have one really regular, that I see approx. once every month, or so.
Then, I have the one I see every 4-5 months.
And, there are the others that I see once, often at spas, mostly one and done.
But I had, as long time regular for many years Jessy Brown, Sweetest Gina, Mariah Everly and now Alinah. For all of them, I stopped seeing them because of retirement.
Then, I have the one I see every 4-5 months.
And, there are the others that I see once, often at spas, mostly one and done.
But I had, as long time regular for many years Jessy Brown, Sweetest Gina, Mariah Everly and now Alinah. For all of them, I stopped seeing them because of retirement.
I am actually a little surprised that the vast majority seek long term engagements with providers. Love the feedback lads. Personally I tend to go one year with those I really connect with but the rest are 3-4 sessions to see where it can go before searching for new experiences. So many amazing ladies to meet!
Interesting results for sure. For me, I appreciate the connection with a lady or two and will continue to visit with them regularly. However, as is to be expected, the relationship either stagnates or a disconnect emerges. I like to see ladies who are in their late 20s or older but the reality is I am 50 and we are strangers connected in a fantasy world. Highly unlikely for this to last more than 6 months to a year. Added to this is that the lady is likely to retire or move as their personal circumstances change. For many of them, this is not their life long career. In many senses, we are all just here for a good time not a long time!
Here's a post I wrote years ago. It just depends what stage you are on lol:
I will keep a girl on the roster as long as she doesn’t slip up on her appearance and timeliness. The second she does, she is flushed. It sucks when that happens but then new fresh pussy makes it all better.
I tend to alternate. One month I will see my "regular" provider and the next month will try someone new.
I’ll present a perspective from the other direction. Short dates can start to feel transactional when doing this professionally and god help me if sex starts to feel like I’m a factory widget head! I try to use techniques to keep the energy fresh and lively, so prefer longer dates, tour quite a lot, have many duo partners and offer a variety of services in order to keep things fun and exciting for me and you!
As a result of my travels, I have a VERY small inner circle I see 5/6+ times a year but then we book longer & more substantial dates which will never fossilize because we’re sharing our lives and have become friends. I would love more gentleman like this TBH but I know from experience this will happen naturally and just can’t be forced. Unicorns connect and that doesn’t happen every day.
Thanks for reading and kisses for a wonderful holiday season,
Ruby
As a result of my travels, I have a VERY small inner circle I see 5/6+ times a year but then we book longer & more substantial dates which will never fossilize because we’re sharing our lives and have become friends. I would love more gentleman like this TBH but I know from experience this will happen naturally and just can’t be forced. Unicorns connect and that doesn’t happen every day.
Thanks for reading and kisses for a wonderful holiday season,
Ruby
