Poll: Are an SP's looks a double edged sword?

[DATYdude]

Lately I've been wondering whether seeing the most gorgeous SP is the best way to have a good time or whether seeing a more average woman who tries harder to please, is naturally more sexual, or is intelligent and/or great to interact with, end up bringing a better overall experience...

I think that my feeling about this is either evolving or REvolving, not sure yet, but now that I've been indulging for a while I find myself looking for women who I want to repeat with, and they aren't necessarily ONLY the most physically attractive women.

So what are your thoughts?

 

[DATYdude]

Oh btw the Service Service Service option is meant to mean "It's all about me; who cares if the SP is responsive?"

 

[a 1 player]

Service, service, service... and looks.

 

[Bear669]

Crap!

Oh btw the Service Service Service option is meant to mean "It's all about me; who cares if the SP is responsive?"

I voted before I saw this, as I suspect did many others.


"Service" to me means a great GFE, responsive, chat, laughs etc etc

 

[Dani]

Lately I've been wondering whether seeing the most gorgeous SP is the best way to have a good time or whether seeing a more average woman who tries harder to please, is naturally more sexual, or is intelligent and/or great to interact with, end up bringing a better overall experience...

You make a bad assumption that a good looking or gorgeous SP does not try hard to please..
AU CONTRAIRE

 

[rayden]

I voted before I saw this, as I suspect did many others.


"Service" to me means a great GFE, responsive, chat, laughs etc etc

Yup I did the same thing.

For me I will always go for service and friendly attitude over looks. Having said that, looks must be at least 6 on my scale of 10 or else little Ray may remain as LITTLE RAY. Give me a 6 that knows how to be a hot GFE/PSE over a dull 10 that thinks her looks will carry the day anytime.

 

[Lou Siffer]

I voted "something else motivates me". The problem is that I'm not always sure what that "something else" is. Chemistry, attitude, responsiveness, something that just makes me wanna go back.

I have found that "something" in girls that have 'girl next door' looks as well as really hot looking girls but mostly in the former.

 

[Terminator2000]

Usually - the pretty ones are the ones that carry around the "princess complex" and the superior attitude -

treat me like a queen because I'm better than you and the rest of the peasants mindset .

or more specifically, the mindset that you're lucky to sharing their personal space and breathing the same oxygen they are -

they don't give a shiit about your experiences, your laughs, your conversation.

but this also goes for most girls in general..

 

[Lou Siffer]

Usually - the pretty ones are the ones that carry around the "princess complex" and the superior attitude -

treat me like a queen because I'm better than you and the rest of the peasants mindset .

or more specifically, the mindset that you're lucky to sharing their personal space and breathing the same oxygen they are -

they don't give a shiit about your experiences, your laughs, your conversation.

but this also goes for most girls in general..

The psychologist in me says you're projecting.

Sometimes it is true that better looking women think that they're too good for the average Joe. But more often it is the average Joe that secretly feels that he is not worthy and he somehow finds validation of those feelings in some actions or mannerisms of the girls.

Or maybe I'm full of shit. It wouldn't be the first time.

 

[LexingtonJeremy]

I chose sexual energy and responsiveness. More than anything, I want to feel like she's into it, even if I know intuitively that she's just doing her job.

Looks sure go a long way though. I find that when masturbating to porn, for instance, there seems to be a direct correlation between the hotness of the girl and the size of my load / orgasm intensity.