Please get tested (providers and clients)

[OvOReviews]

Yes, but also for people who don't want to go bother their family doc every month, or aren't comfortable having a direct talk about testing, or if you're worried about being judged or your doc making comments about your sex life.
I find it easier, plus you get results free, most labs have a paid app in order to see your results

I'm lucky, I've had the same Family Doctor for... oh 25 year now? Literally the only doctor my kids ever had. I think my ex-wife still uses him. lol. When I asked him for STI testing he said "I'm happy you're dating again" lol.

 

[rollingloud647]

bbbj has more risk for the women doing it then the guy receiving it. Besides bbbj feels too good. If you told me I got an std due to bbbj, I'd shrug my shoulders. If you told me I got an std due to daty, dato, or dfk, I would be pissed.

dude 30 mins before you carries an std that transfers through fluid exchange, dumps his load in the girls mouth, you want to be the guy putting your jon in her mouth after him? Nasty work. Such a stupid remark to say "stick to that" Some of these girls can see upwards of 20-30 guys a day you know that right?

 

[KittyCaterina]

dude 30 mins before you carries an std that transfers through fluid exchange, dumps his load in the girls mouth, you want to be the guy putting your jon in her mouth after him? Nasty work. Such a stupid remark to say "stick to that" Some of these girls can see upwards of 20-30 guys a day you know that right?

20 to 30 guys a day?

That math is not mathing.

 

[OvOReviews]

Some of these girls can see upwards of 20-30 guys a day you know that right?

I mean... what!? Have you ever actually spoken to a SWer? If you said "20-30 different guys a month" I could believe that. but a day!? Come on.

 

[Massageguy00]

I was going to recycle my earlier scene from Billy Madison…

30 men a day is 1 man every 48 minutes for 24 hours. That’s some Bonnie Blue type world record numbers there…

I mean... what!? Have you ever actually spoken to a SWer? If you said "20-30 different guys a month" I could believe that. but a day!? Come on.

 

[Theredmilf]

dude 30 mins before you carries an std that transfers through fluid exchange, dumps his load in the girls mouth, you want to be the guy putting your jon in her mouth after him? Nasty work. Such a stupid remark to say "stick to that" Some of these girls can see upwards of 20-30 guys a day you know that right?

Men: have no boundaries & offer cheap services
Also men: you nasty

 

[rollingloud647]

I mean... what!? Have you ever actually spoken to a SWer? If you said "20-30 different guys a month" I could believe that. but a day!? Come on.

Yes, I have. I actually went to highschool with the notorious hailey 1.0 you all have had countless reviews on, and continued to speak with her up until she had to leave ottawa due to situations.

Not every sw on here is going to be like the next, high end or low end. Yes, hailey used to see 20+ guys during her working hours within a 12 hour window. Maybe not every time, but it was often enough. Look at the Asian agencies here in ottawa, with the ladies there working 12 hours, and time slots all booked up. Pretty good indication of how some providers can be revolving doors. My main point in all of this was that all the men should do their part and get tested, no one knows the hygiene of the person before them and for that reason alone we should keep it safe for everyone, no clue with I have to sit here and elaborate my point when it went over everyones head...

 

[rollingloud647]

Men: have no boundaries & offer cheap services
Also men: you nasty

I've never once expected a sw to have 0 boundaries not sure why we're categorizing everyone here to be the same

 

[McKenna King]

Holy fuck, if y’all wonder why some girls retire… it’s to preserve our sanity from the idiocy that permeates threads like this.

20-30 a day is not the norm. It’s maybe not even the 1%, especially in the Ottawa market.

If girls are telling you they’re that busy, they either don’t wanna see you, or they’re creating a scarcity mindset.

 

[Theredmilf]

Yes, I have. I actually went to highschool with the notorious hailey 1.0 you all have had countless reviews on, and continued to speak with her up until she had to leave ottawa due to situations.

Not every sw on here is going to be like the next, high end or low end. Yes, hailey used to see 20+ guys during her working hours within a 12 hour window. Maybe not every time, but it was often enough. Look at the Asian agencies here in ottawa, with the ladies there working 12 hours, and time slots all booked up. Pretty good indication of how some providers can be revolving doors. My main point in all of this was that all the men should do their part and get tested, no one knows the hygiene of the person before them and for that reason alone we should keep it safe for everyone, no clue with I have to sit here and elaborate my point when it went over everyones head...

So basically, just worry about your dick, don’t worry about us at all. Where’s your concern for your friend that you just made less safe?

At what point are the men here going to start standing up for sex workers that take on so much risk to offer services? Or everyone is completely fine that there are some women in this industry who have to see 20 to 30 guys a day to make their income?

And you’re also going to stand there nonchalantly and say you’re friends and that’s how you know. With friends like that, we don’t need pimps.

 

[KittyCaterina]

Yes, I have. I actually went to highschool with the notorious hailey 1.0 you all have had countless reviews on, and continued to speak with her up until she had to leave ottawa due to situations.

Not every sw on here is going to be like the next, high end or low end. Yes, hailey used to see 20+ guys during her working hours within a 12 hour window. Maybe not every time, but it was often enough. Look at the Asian agencies here in ottawa, with the ladies there working 12 hours, and time slots all booked up. Pretty good indication of how some providers can be revolving doors. My main point in all of this was that all the men should do their part and get tested, no one knows the hygiene of the person before them and for that reason alone we should keep it safe for everyone, no clue with I have to sit here and elaborate my point when it went over everyones head...

I call bullshit.

Usually I try to be civil in my posts but you sir are a douchecanoe and should be blacklisted especially considering you just outed information that was supposedly confided to you.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

The point being....GET FUCKING TESTED! I do every 6 months. I have NEVER seen an SP/MA whenever I am feeling under the weather. Be fucking honest too! Regardless! EVEN If you are the SP/MA OR the one seeing the SP/MA! Communication is key!

HPV was never really on the radar for those who went through life during the 90's. We were concerned about HIV/AIDS!

 

[Peter485]

This thread ties in very well with other threads out here.

1) Regardless of what you do and how often, your risk only goes DOWN if you are tested regularly. Whatever your 'STI-avoidance-system' is as a guy, just get tested as well. And for married guys who are just ignoring it because a positive result would end your marriage: your only chance to survive is to hear the news first.

2) Math time: Men, think how much the average woman needs to make in Ottawa to live. Then divide that by what you spend on an average date. While not a perfect indicator, it gives you an idea of 'her number'. If that number makes you uncomfortable, then the way to fix that is to PAY MORE. Half the comments on here are 'how is $$$ considered reasonable now', 'used to see her before her rates went up', 'good value for money'. You can't have it both ways.

So that's basically it: If you want to keep both you and her safer, get tested; and if you want her to go on less dates with other people, pay her more.

 

[Assblaster]

Most of what mentioned on this thread is called common sense.

Use condom,, don't kiss or do oral and you should be alright. If not you are accepting the risks and potential consequences.

Am a simple hobbyist as long as I can travel to Greece am satisfied.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

I am OK with accepting the kissing and oral risk. I don't push my minimum boundaries on MA/SP. I don't have herpes (I know. I could be a potential carrier), I have never had an STI, and I know I have 2 kids. One was not planned in my youth and the other was planned. I ALWAYS wear a condom for FS and I do NOT do greek! Insanely higher risk of infection and the thought of a condom breaking freaks me TFO!

 

[kodakblack]

I am OK with accepting the kissing and oral risk.

Realistically, what are the chances of catching an STD (not HSV) from kissing alone?

 

[Peter South]

There absolutely no way that I will see a lovely lady without kissing and oral. I stick to one person for a long time. Pretty much as long as I can unless something comes up and f#%ks it up. I know it’s not perfect but the more people you see, greater the chances. I don’t want to catch anything and I respect my regular lady a lot so I’m faithful to her. I know that when you bang someone, you’re basically banging everyone she’s been with so I believe that seeing someone new every time for diversity only multiples the risks.

Whoever wants to cast the first stone is welcomed but that how I do it.

 

[Capital Amatuer]

Thanks for the Teletest and Getakit.ca options. At one point I thought if I constantly went to my family physician, insurance could conceivable ask for my medical records revealing what some people see as a risky lifestyle. Also, I remember waiting for hours at the sexual health clinic. That was a while ago. All this in an effort to stay off the radar. So I'm liking this GetAKit idea to take to the lab. Only down side is the lab will ask you for your health card.

 

[philonius]

Thanks for the Teletest and Getakit.ca options. At one point I thought if I constantly went to my family physician, insurance could conceivable ask for my medical records revealing what some people see as a risky lifestyle. Also, I remember waiting for hours at the sexual health clinic. That was a while ago. All this in an effort to stay off the radar. So I'm liking this GetAKit idea to take to the lab. Only down side is the lab will ask you for your health card.

Tell them you don't have one or it expired and you'll pay out of pocket for it, if you want.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

If you kiss and go down on any non trivial number of escorts, you are basically guranteed to eventually get hsv-1. Stop coping.

Guaranteed to eventually...

So, you're basically saying I may possibly get HSV. Got it there PhD!

Not all who have HSV show symptoms and are carriers but remain asymptomatic. It is estimated that 70 % of the population under the age of 50 have either HSV-1, HSV-2 or both.