Pitching-in for TOFTTs 💰

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CuddleBuddy2

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Another option could be that someone volunteers to TOFTT for a particular SP if X amount is donated to the charity of his choice. This would be more discreet and based on an honour system.
 

steveo955

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IMO, I think this would be best run as a private group. I have a few guys on here that I regularly share detailed info with after I have read through many of their posts to see if we share common ground. It’s unfortunate that all of us don’t share the same philosophy/respect for the hobby and the ladies we see. I have posted before that led to girls having increased fake bookings which hurts both of us, wasting her time and making it difficult for regular clients to schedule.
At the risk of sounding like a selfish dick, I think this is a great idea but the intelligence gained needs a gatekeeper.
 

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I seem to remember that there was a private group formed a few years ago made up of some very well respected and long time members. It did not end well when the mods stepped in and the members were all ultimately banned. Anyone else remember?
 

Daddy2021

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IMO, I think this would be best run as a private group. I have a few guys on here that I regularly share detailed info with after I have read through many of their posts to see if we share common ground. It’s unfortunate that all of us don’t share the same philosophy/respect for the hobby and the ladies we see. I have posted before that led to girls having increased fake bookings which hurts both of us, wasting her time and making it difficult for regular clients to schedule.
At the risk of sounding like a selfish dick, I think this is a great idea but the intelligence gained needs a gatekeeper.
Sorry but I’m my opinion if you want to see a lady then pay to see her yourself. I see many on here that are just cheap asses that will take advantage of this. This isn’t a charity for crying out loud. You pay for your own pencil to get dipped. Can’t afford it, then don’t hobby. Simple. TOFTT isn’t not something you are entitled to do or have done for you.
 

Ryeguyonthefly

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If joining a group like that isnt for you, then dont join. Not sure why you feel the need to tell others that they should not.

A group like this really isnt different than the board itself except in this group, I get the sense that it is only really for the serious gents who want to participate in the hobby and dint have reason to mislead or waste ppl time.
 

2beornot2be

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Someone needs to be really dedicated to a charity. I never thought about banging a chick could help the children in need except her own lol. I believe that your best experience could be my worst so apart than being robbed or thugged, every story here is YMMV
 

Daddy2021

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If joining a group like that isnt for you, then dont join. Not sure why you feel the need to tell others that they should not.

A group like this really isnt different than the board itself except in this group, I get the sense that it is only really for the serious gents who want to participate in the hobby and dint have reason to mislead or waste ppl time.
Yes it is very different then this board as it’s basically looking for a handout. Take it privately then.
 

Ryeguyonthefly

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Yes it is very different then this board as it’s basically looking for a handout. Take it privately then.

One of us missed the OPs point. It could be me I guess, but I took it that was seeking a group to support someone to TOFTT so giving some money not taking it. Am I wrong?

New ladies in the area would definitely benefit as they would be verified for a group who arent wasting time or fakebooking etc. So they would be able to establish themselves easier.

I also think that the point is to make it a private group as you suggest, so there really be no need to hold a grudge.
 

CuddleBuddy2

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Sorry but I’m my opinion if you want to see a lady then pay to see her yourself. I see many on here that are just cheap asses that will take advantage of this. This isn’t a charity for crying out loud. You pay for your own pencil to get dipped. Can’t afford it, then don’t hobby. Simple. TOFTT isn’t not something you are entitled to do or have done for you.

Nobody is suggesting a handout. It's about rewarding people who have the time and willing to take a risk on a TOFTT.

I've done my share of TOFTTs in the past but now I don't have the time, patience or energy to TOFTT.

There are members here who like to or can TOFTT and we would be rewarding them for their work.

Just to be clear, I'm not organizing or collecting for any TOFTTs. I'm only willing to contribute a little amount towards a TOFTT for a SP I'm interested in. Most likely a SP who's not been reviewed in the west end and someone's pics I fancy.

There can be other groups formed based on location etc. Some people maybe into BBWs and some into Slim SPs. A single group can't be interested in a diverse set of ladies.

People can share their reviews publicly or keep the gems to themselves. However it would be appreciated if they could share it with everyone. Hope that clears your misunderstanding.
 
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CuddleBuddy2

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I seem to remember that there was a private group formed a few years ago made up of some very well respected and long time members. It did not end well when the mods stepped in and the members were all ultimately banned. Anyone else remember?
As far as I know they were banned for discussing inappropriate stuff which went against the boards rules. Not for merely privately reviewing SPs.
 

CuddleBuddy2

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So it’s like a paid subscription to TOFTT ? What if someone else does it and publishes it, do I get a refund ?
Kind of like pay per view subscription.
That you have to workout with your chosen TOFTTer 😁
 

steveo955

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Sorry but I’m my opinion if you want to see a lady then pay to see her yourself. I see many on here that are just cheap asses that will take advantage of this. This isn’t a charity for crying out loud. You pay for your own pencil to get dipped. Can’t afford it, then don’t hobby. Simple. TOFTT isn’t not something you are entitled to do or have done for you.
Im a bit confused as to why you quoted me, are you agreeing with me or disagreeing with me???
All I was saying is that I am in support of a fund to help guys TOFTT and share the info with other supportive members. We are all in different financial situations so spreading the cost out over a few members(probably a very select few) would encourage guys to TOFTT.
Personally, I would prefer to donate cash to the cause than time, but when I’m available I would have no problem seeing a new girl myself and reporting back. The negativity on this forum makes it difficult to openly share good info because we are essentially sending miserable people to see girls we like.
 

sx4play

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Can’t see this working in a public forum where info is being made available for all, but only a handful actually funding it. You’d find more success forming a private discord group of like minded persons and rotating the TOFTT among members. However, there are existing discord groups where members openly share among members without having a need for a central fund.
Personally, I wouldn’t contribute to fund for somebody to TOFTT of a girl I’ve zero interest in. Too much logistics would also be required.
 

Daddy2021

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One of us missed the OPs point. It could be me I guess, but I took it that was seeking a group to support someone to TOFTT so giving some money not taking it. Am I wrong?

New ladies in the area would definitely benefit as they would be verified for a group who arent wasting time or fakebooking etc. So they would be able to establish themselves easier.

I also think that the point is to make it a private group as you suggest, so there really be no need to hold a grudge.
No grudge being held here. I took it as a group putting in money for someone to see a lady when they are not wanting to fork over the money themselves. Not sure how this will help ladies with fake bookings. Are you saying that by booking to see a lady this way will prevent fake bookings. Not sure how that will help. Seems like a reach to me.
 
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Daddy2021

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Nobody is suggesting a handout. It's about rewarding people who have the time and willing to take a risk on a TOFTT.

I've done my share of TOFTTs in the past but now I don't have the time, patience or energy to TOFTT.

There are members here who like to or can TOFTT and we would be rewarding them for their work.

Just to be clear, I'm not organizing or collecting for any TOFTTs. I'm only willing to contribute a little amount towards a TOFTT for a SP I'm interested in. Most likely a SP who's not been reviewed in the west end and someone's pics I fancy.

There can be other groups formed based on location etc. Some people maybe into BBWs and some into Slim SPs. A single group can't be interested in a diverse set of ladies.

People can share their reviews publicly or keep the gems to themselves. However it would be appreciated if they could share it with everyone. Hope that clears your misunderstanding.
Rewarded? 🤣🤣🤣 yes these guys need a reward for going to have sex with a lady they wanted to see and have sex with. Yes it’s such hard work. I’m out. This is some of the dumbest shit I have read. You guys are really full of yourselves.
 
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PointyP

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It's about saving money, and weeding out bad actors SPs quickly, as opposed to 5 to 10 bookings later, 1k$ or more later, let's say vs do it once, 200$, fake done. 200 will pay for one day Airbnb or hotel, if.

The entire scamming becomes unprofitable. With 1k$ take home, it's still worth it to do it again. Or go to another city. Or change names. Or change phone numbers...

Whats clients risk? 20-40$ loss vs 200$? But hey want to burn $, go do it. I at least thought they would be more volunteers to toftt, but apparently not :) good thing?
 

2beornot2be

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It's about saving money, and weeding out bad actors SPs quickly, as opposed to 5 to 10 bookings later, 1k$ or more later, let's say vs do it once, 200$, fake done. 200 will pay for one day Airbnb or hotel, if.

The entire scamming becomes unprofitable. With 1k$ take home, it's still worth it to do it again. Or go to another city. Or change names. Or change phone numbers...

Whats clients risk? 20-40$ loss vs 200$? But hey want to burn $, go do it. I at least thought they would be more volunteers to toftt, but apparently not :) good thing?
You must be living in a fairy tale full of rainbows and unicorns lol I’m not trying to be mean but I found this quite amusing.

Unless I’m completely wrong, I don’t see this doing much of a difference. Please educate me if I see this incorrectly
 

PointyP

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You must be living in a fairy tale full of rainbows and unicorns lol I’m not trying to be mean but I found this quite amusing.

Unless I’m completely wrong, I don’t see this doing much of a difference. Please educate me if I see this incorrectly
Any particular explanation to me being a mimbo who believes in fairy tales, lol?
Which parts are amusing? Educate me...given the comments...
 
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2beornot2be

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Sorry, instead of sounding like a jerk, I’ll explain myself.

What’s the percentage of people that uses these fantastic ladies services that comes on this forum and participate ? I will follow you into your fairly tale and say 20%.

That’s 80% of guys out there that are going to fall for it. There was talk about doing a private group, that’s selfish in my opinion. We all come here to help each other

Bad service doesn’t count as a scam unless it’s repetitive. There’s too many layers. When you go clubbing, you see the girl before bringing her home. Not these ladies. It’s a surprise everytime

So, it comes down to bait & switch or being robbed. Most of the times, these stories are unheard of. It’s not cool going online and tell your story about being robbed by a pimp. That’s my logic
behind this. Maybe I’m wrong
 
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