I like to go in prepared, so I'll often go through a ladies garbage before talking to her so I can learn as much about her as possible... you'd be amazed what you can learn about a person from their garbage.
Otherwise its all about taking advantage of a situation, like slashing her tires while she's shopping and then casually bumping into her so that you're conveniently there to offer a ride home. Other times it means hacking her email accounts and sending racist emails to all of her friends so that she has more free time for you.
Don't be afraid to call her at weird hours either and just sit there and listen without speaking. While she's busy wondering who's calling her and breathing deeply into the phone you can hear lots of stuff in the background like what show's she's watching, which will give you something to talk about with her.... Do You like dancing with the stars? I love dancing with the stars!!!
You could also do things to screw up her bank accounts, report her credit cards stolen (because you went through her garbage you have a lot of this info), and maybe even find a way to get her evicted or locked out of her apartment due to asbestos or something... all of which would make her much more likely to rely on the kindness of strangers.
Good luck!