Picking up goth girls?

[fjdude]

Just wondering how easy it is to pick up girls at goth clubs. The girls always seem to be laid back but however they're just into the music and appear to be engrossed in just themselves (i don't mean self-centred here). So it seems really difficult to approach them in the the club. Any thoughts???

FJ

 

[fantasiafan]

Go to Funhaus, where the girls are open and will talk to anyone as long as youre not an ass or pervert.

Try going to one of these events: http://www.djlazarus.com/

 

[fjdude]

I take it Savage Garden has lost the charm it used to have at one point in time.

 

[Eli]

The goth scene started in the mid 80's and has kinda gone through numerous generation losses. So now you have goths who imitate goths who imitate goths...They use to be more sociable inside their clique but now it seems everyone is alienated from everything (even the ability to dance).

You might be able to get your fix over at the SuicideGirls website.

 

[strokegenius]

I do remember them being about the homeliest and fugly girls you could ever imagine. Well maybe 1 out of 10 of them was an almost looker.

 

[High_Roller]

Some of the Goth girls are hot.

Problem is that if they're not lesbos, then they usually have some kind of philosophy which derives from extreme leftist, feminist, "all men are evil" mentality.

And the things they talk about may seem really, really weird to you, and none of it has to do with you getting laid at all.

 

[strokegenius]

And the things they talk about may seem really, really weird to you,

When talking to freaks that's usually so.

 

[ruck]

When talking to freaks that's usually so.

I'm no goth and I certainly do not have any goth friends but I take offence to this line of thinking. You're opinion, fine.

Freaks? This coming from a guy who visits adult escort boards and enlists the services of hookers? Take a good loooong look in the mirror when you wake up tomorrow. Freak indeed.

It amazes me how judgemental the people of small societies are. We are not the norm and by being part of the this board and the industry, through providing or indulging, makes us freaks from the norm. Choose your words wisely. If you stated you do not agree with their looks, tastes, whatever, that's fine. Freaks is extreme and uncalled for. Especially when you take into account that most of them are intelligent, although not always the easiest to talk to. They too like apple pie.

 

[fantasiafan]

I'm no goth and I certainly do not have any goth friends but I take offence to this line of thinking. You're opinion, fine.

Freaks? This coming from a guy who visits adult escort boards and enlists the services of hookers? Take a good loooong look in the mirror when you wake up tomorrow. Freak indeed.

It amazes me how judgemental the people of small societies are. We are not the norm and by being part of the this board and the industry, through providing or indulging, makes us freaks from the norm. Choose your words wisely. If you stated you do not agree with their looks, tastes, whatever, that's fine. Freaks is extreme and uncalled for. Especially when you take into account that most of them are intelligent, although not always the easiest to talk to. They too like apple pie.

well said ruck! who is normal.....

 

[frankcastle]

I find the goth look appealling. Something about short black mini skirts and platform shoes and fishnets that do it for me.

I find they are often fans of music which is another turn on.

And for the most part I think they like attention (or why dress that way) of course some might use it as a shield to keep guys at bay (know at least one girl that does that).

For the most part I think the clothes and music are for a sense of belonging to something that is a bit off of the mainstream.

However, I do find that women that dress that way prefer guys that also dress in the male counter part (e.g. black shirt, black leather pants, tats and piercings).

Any thoughts on Bovine Sex Club or Velvet Underground?

 

[ruck]

I find the goth look appealling. Something about short black mini skirts and platform shoes and fishnets that do it for me.

I find they are often fans of music which is another turn on.

And for the most part I think they like attention (or why dress that way) of course some might use it as a shield to keep guys at bay (know at least one girl that does that).

For the most part I think the clothes and music are for a sense of belonging to something that is a bit off of the mainstream.

However, I do find that women that dress that way prefer guys that also dress in the male counter part (e.g. black shirt, black leather pants, tats and piercings).

Any thoughts on Bovine Sex Club or Velvet Underground?

Bovine sex club is not fun. Never been VU.

I also find the statement about the male counterpart peculiar. While in most cases it is true, I have seen many instances where goth chicks are with normal guys and vice versa. I need to find a petite, goth chick to put my dipstick into. I'm craving them now.

 

[strokegenius]

I'm no goth and I certainly do not have any goth friends but I take offence to this line of thinking. You're opinion, fine.

Freaks? This coming from a guy who visits adult escort boards and enlists the services of hookers? Take a good loooong look in the mirror when you wake up tomorrow. Freak indeed.

Yes....Freaks. I get horney and don't want to go out to find a girl to try and pick up I check here, get a number and have a girl come over...nothing too freaky about that...oldest profession in the world probably because there are soooooooo many people who call them.

As for the goth girls..freaks. And yes that's my opinion and I posted it. You don't like it...tough shit.

As for your diatribe about the moral compass of the world or whatever...save it. Chances are somewhere down the road you will run into someone who might give a shit.

 

[raven@mirage]

Queen Street fashion district. I got a nice dress from a store there.

 

[newbler]

just walk up to them and be like, do you cut yourself too?


















































lol, ok maybe i'm an asshole

 

[Mongrel4u]

I've always been curious about the goth scene as well but always held back... I dunno... guess I just dont know what to expect if i were to approach them? Do they only mix with "their own"? .... will they laugh at me because Im so different from them (appearance wise)?

Too many unknowns

 

[gibsomstreet]

As for the goth girls..freaks. And yes that's my opinion and I posted it. You don't like it...tough shit.

Blonde "Hugh Hefner girlfriend" type porn stars/strippers/SPs: boring, generic, banal, and I'm only talking about the ignorant uglies who insist upon that ideal in a woman, even if it involves surgical fakery. And yes that's my opinion and I posted it. You don't like it...tough shit.

 

[strokegenius]

Blonde "Hugh Hefner girlfriend" type porn stars/strippers/SPs: boring, generic, banal, and I'm only talking about the ignorant uglies who insist upon that ideal in a woman, even if it involves surgical fakery. And yes that's my opinion and I posted it. You don't like it...tough shit.

Lots of other girls ou there that aren't blond surgically enhanced or freaky goth chicks....But it is good to know you are attracted to the homlies...someone needs to be.

Like that?

 

[RTRD]

I thought...

... now it seems everyone is alienated from everything (even the ability to dance).....

...this was pretty much the definition thereof, and what they lived for?

 

[strokegenius]

...this was pretty much the definition thereof, and what they lived for?

It is, It was.

 

[RTRD]

Well....ok....that and this....

Problem is that if they're not lesbos, then they usually have some kind of philosophy which derives from extreme leftist, feminist, "all men are evil" mentality.

...then would cover the definitons.