Physical Appearance?

[Elmundo]

This might be a stupid question being a newbie to the community and someone who has never had the pleasure of enjoying the company of an SP but do SP’s care about physical Appearance? I don’t mean cleanliness or hygiene I mean if you are in great shape average build or overweight, do SP’s have or voice opinions about this.

Thanks in advance for the info
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[IM469]

I have never had one open the door and immediately run to the bathroom to vomit .... which could shake my confidence somewhat.

I will be curious to see actual SP answers. There are women who I could not touch with a gun to my head ... is there such a thing as too ugly to service ?

 

[franz888]

I have had sessions when the SP didn't dfk me, while on many other reviews dfk was provided by her, so yeah it matters, look and body shape. Never heard about guys getting kicked out due to being ugly but qualities of service would be different.

 

[Frankfooter]

Word from the ladies is that being clean and polite trumps being hot.

 

[Mrbasil]

In general, I don't think SPs care about your physical appearance. Although it does affect your service to a degree. Some instance I'm 100% sure that some SPs won't offer DFK if they find a client unattractive. It makes sense too because I wouldn't want to make out with someone at a intimate level if I don't find that person physically attractive and that's what DFK does essentially.

 

[Don Draper]

In general, I don't think SPs care about your physical appearance. Although it does affect your service to a degree. Some instance I'm 100% sure that some SPs won't offer DFK if they find a client unattractive. It makes sense too because I wouldn't want to make out with someone at a intimate level if I don't find that person physically attractive and that's what DFK does essentially.

Of course an SP cares what you look like! They're not blind. Just because an SP is receiving a donation for her time doesn't mean her senses are 'turned off'. She is as human as you are.

Hygiene is paramount with ANYONE you're having sex with be that person an SP or a civilian.

 

[wazup]

You're never gonna get an sp on here to admit it if it does bother them, it will be just a bunch of guys comm3nting

I imagine they see all shapes, maybe drugs help.

 

[Goodoer]

Real World = SP World + Guaranteed Sex

I agree with most posts above.

I've been called 'hot' and 'good looking'... I've had successful relationship experiences + fun on the side. I have 100% hit it off with some hot women immediately and yet with other 'normal'/typical women, I've flamed out and/or not even had a chance. I can't figure it out. Is it me? Is it them? Who knows?! Women are confusing and younger women even more so (or not!).

What I'm saying is don't worry about it. Go and have fun. Be an 'alright dude' and you'll be fine. If you follow the bell curve, you'll have no problem meeting fun people who have desirable traits. The same applies in reverse towards you. Personality typically governs. Anomalies happen from time to time.

Get your dicky sticky.

 

[rhuarc29]

Do they care? Yes. Will it affect the service you receive? Depends entirely on the type of person the SP is.
Will you be refused service entirely? Highly, highly doubtful unless there's a hygiene issue to go along with it.

If you're hygienic and come off as a nice guy, even if the service levels are initially depressed because of your weight they should improve over time as the SP comes to know you.
Don't let your weight dictate how the session goes. Go in exuding confidence (not arrogance) even if you don't feel it. Hell, it may do wonders for you and your ego.

 

[dgreen]

some sps might say they dont care but if you think about it that just cant be true unless they have a thing for fat or ugly guys. put it this way if you have two clients where one is ugly but he is still nice, hygienic and then the other guy has a nice body, good looking face, 6 pack abs and everything but just as nice and hygienic as the ugly man, who do you think the sp would like more, give better service etc ? its common sense

but like everyone is saying overall the bottom line is most sps only care that you are clean and nice so you will not be denied service if you are fat or ugly but being good looking, fit and nice may get you better quality time. just have fun and enjoy your time with sps

 

[HobbyHorse]

Real World = SP World + Guaranteed Sex.

Should your plus sign not be a minus? Real World = SP Word minus Guaranteed Sex? (True for me.)

 

[justfor]

some sps might say they dont care but if you think about it that just cant be true unless they have a thing for fat or ugly guys. put it this way if you have two clients where one is ugly but he is still nice, hygienic and then the other guy has a nice body, good looking face, 6 pack abs and everything but just as nice and hygienic as the ugly man, who do you think the sp would like more, give better service etc ? its common sense

but like everyone is saying overall the bottom line is most sps only care that you are clean and nice so you will not be denied service if you are fat or ugly but being good looking, fit and nice may get you better quality time. just have fun and enjoy your time with sps

Agree... 100%. This is what I'd call YMMV ( your mileage may vary).

I will suggest that the most important things are - hygiene and respectfulness. By hygiene, it means the whole body including a thorough shower before, making sure every nook and cranny spic and span, orally clean and fresh, nails trimmed and filed, freshly laundered clothing etc.

By respectfulness, it means to be polite, no haggling of price, no pushing the boundaries, ask for permission before, stop when told to stop...

Then, I am sure you'll have a good time.

 

[ravencroft]

Appearance is subjective, and most of the ladies that choose this industry are far more accepting of a man's physical "faults" than we are of theirs. As you already stated, you're not talking about a lack of hygiene, but a less-than-ideal body image/appearance. That is usually irrelevant to most SPs so long as you're polite, respectful, and don't weigh 300+ lbs and want to climb on top (they don't want to be crushed to death).

Having a rippling six-pack and a movie-star face *might* help you get slightly more enthusiastic service (once again, looks are subjective), but these ladies aren't in the business to be seduced or fall in love: they're here to make money, ideally have fun, and definitely keep their personal and professional lives separate; i.e. NOT get romantically attracted/involved with you.

So go to it, be a well-groomed gentleman, and enjoy!

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Appearance is subjective, and most of the ladies that choose this industry are far more accepting of a man's physical "faults" than we are of theirs. As you already stated, you're not talking about a lack of hygiene, but a less-than-ideal body image/appearance. That is usually irrelevant to most SPs so long as you're polite, respectful, and don't weigh 300+ lbs and want to climb on top (they don't want to be crushed to death).

Having a rippling six-pack and a movie-star face *might* help you get slightly more enthusiastic service (once again, looks are subjective), but these ladies aren't in the business to be seduced or fall in love: they're here to make money, ideally have fun, and definitely keep their personal and professional lives separate; i.e. NOT get romantically attracted/involved with you.

So go to it, be a well-groomed gentleman, and enjoy!

Co-sign ^^^^

 

[Malika Fantasy]

No it doesnt matter if you are overweight or older or younger. As long as you are clean and respect my limits thats my basic.
If you happen to be a DILF with tattoos yes I may wiggle my butt more. But as ravencroft said this is our income. Ill be your fantasy for 30 minutes or 2 days but again this is how I pay my rent.
I rather an older gent that feel maybe not confirm to steorytype beauty but is a pleasure to be with over a 25 years old jock that has the mentally " you should pay me lololol cause im hot"

 

[Don Draper]

...but these ladies aren't in the business to be seduced or fall in love: they're here to make money, ideally have fun, and definitely keep their personal and professional lives separate; i.e. NOT get romantically attracted/involved with you.

That, my esteemed colleague, is not entirely true. A woman is and always will be a woman.

I can attest to it personally that falling in love and into a relationship has no boundaries or parameters as to how it happens.

 

[ravencroft]

That, my esteemed colleague, is not entirely true. A woman is and always will be a woman.

I can attest to it personally that falling in love and into a relationship has no boundaries or parameters as to how it happens.

I didn't say falling in love is not possible, just that the ladies don't go into the business with that intention.

I've "dated" a few MPAs myself, but they were always the one to initiate and the men in this industry should not go into it thinking they can seduce/woo a provider. It's a complicated relationship enough as it is, and the ladies don't need any added pressures/risks to their safety when guys are already trying to push every boundary they have.