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NicolesBoudoir

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This has probably been discussed before but I can't find it so I will post my pet peeve and leave it or you to reply if you want.

THE PET PEEVE: People who call me from an advertising they saw but know nothing about my information and ask to book an appointment without knowing my location or rates.

Now I know some guys love my pics and just call but it is so annoying when I answer the phone and then comes the 3478 questions (not really 3478 questions but you get the idea)

The priceless part is when they pause or gasp when I tell them my minimum rate I offer.

I can't figure it out. Why is that?

Besides laziness, what else could it be? I am one SP who's website has overkill of information. I will never understand it. I do post on my advertisments to go to my site first and read before calling. Any suggestions?
 
Do what I do, have them e mail first and once they understand all my rules etc... then they may call, it stops any unserious phone calls as well as tying up the phone for questions or suspected fun that they may be having just over the phone. Other than that just have patience because you will get the same sort of questions in your e mail.

But that is just it men love pics and at least they read that you offer a service, at least you can be happy for that. Or, maybe it is because so many women up the price once they arrive. I have had a few state that they wanted to be sure because once they get to some places that the lady would charge them more. For me I think it because they really do not understand what is in a regular session and how far they can go. I think they like to push it to the limits. For some there could be reasoning behind it.

Anyhow, that is just a suggestion that you could try and see if you can clear it up via e-mail first.
 
stacey4u2luv said:
Do what I do, have them e mail first and once they understand all my rules etc... then they may call, it stops any unserious phone calls as well as tying up the phone for questions or suspected fun that they may be having just over the phone. Other than that just have patience because you will get the same sort of questions in your e mail.

But that is just it men love pics and at least they read that you offer a service, at least you can be happy for that. Or, maybe it is because so many women up the price once they arrive. I have had a few state that they wanted to be sure because once they get to some places that the lady would charge them more. For me I think it because they really do not understand what is in a regular session and how far they can go. I think they like to push it to the limits. For some there could be reasoning behind it.

Anyhow, that is just a suggestion that you could try and see if you can clear it up via e-mail first.
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Yes I do understand that there are many ladies who have 'hidden charges' which I find is not right. You either offer it in the price, be upfront about it, or don't offer it. The phone calls don't bother me really, just wonder why guys do it.
 
oh, I just thought of another possibility. When is the last time you checked that all the ads on the net were indeed placed by you. I have found a few sites that have added me to thier list and just add some information about me and not all by what they find on my web page or where ever they find me on the net. The wording that they may use mey not be wording that you would chose. Keep track of what is happening out there with your handle.
 
Well Nicole, I have to admit that after seeing your website I don't understand why anyone would need personal reasurance on what you offer. Everything seems to be laid out quite plainly. Excellant site.
 
You might double check to see if your info is clear if the same questions are asked by different people.

That being said, I think most escorts get calls from immature guys who just like to hear your voice and hope to string you along for free phone sex.
Don't try to find any rationale behind it or fuel their fantasies, be professional and keep the call short if you get the impression he's asking questions that he already knows the answers to. Keep a record of his phone number, share it with other girls if you think he's creepier than some.
 
lhasfun said:
Horny guys can't read?

A few questions may be in order, but not a long shopping list. Good point Stacey about the ads - maybe ask where they got your info.
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You know I have dont that a few times and the answer I get is "I saw you on the net" HAHAHA

Yah like that helps.
 
Svend said:
You might double check to see if your info is clear if the same questions are asked by different people.
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Exactly.

On a lark, I just went to her website to see if *I* might have any questions, and within two minutes noted that she had "Voyear (sic) fantasies" and "Menage a trois" packages that are offered to couples; but her FAQ says she does not entertain couples. So now if I were looking for that, should I refrain from asking her? And should I now assume this is the only offering that she has both "yes" and "no" responses for?

No matter how "clear" we think we are, there are always a million and one reasons for questions - not the least of which is that things change, websites (or yellow pages) are not always updated in real-time, and these things are not always perfect. Surely everyone has had to get confirmation on things that are said elsewhere now and again... and if it were me, I would rather ask for a minute of the young lady's time to give it, than risk an hour of my time (and $300+) assuming that I know.


This is not a defense of ignorant behaviour or harassment - that is unacceptable. Nor is it a critique of Nicole, her website, or her services (although we've never met, I wish her nothing but success). But still - just on a humanitarian level - to be annoyed with an earnest question, just because YOU think they should know the answer, seems a little bit unnecessary (and rash) to me....
 
NicolesBoudoir said:
This has probably been discussed before but I can't find it so I will post my pet peeve and leave it or you to reply if you want.

THE PET PEEVE: People who call me from an advertising they saw but know nothing about my information and ask to book an appointment without knowing my location or rates.

Now I know some guys love my pics and just call but it is so annoying when I answer the phone and then comes the 3478 questions (not really 3478 questions but you get the idea)

The priceless part is when they pause or gasp when I tell them my minimum rate I offer.

I can't figure it out. Why is that?

Besides laziness, what else could it be? I am one SP who's website has overkill of information. I will never understand it. I do post on my advertisments to go to my site first and read before calling. Any suggestions?
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You poor baby.....you have these big, big problems
 
How did I know that Oil and Esco would be in this thread, leaving their 2 cent tip behind with no real substance. HA

Always good to see them around in my posts, nothing changes.
 
NicolesBoudoir said:
How did I know that Oil and Esco would be in this thread, leaving their 2 cent tip behind with no real substance. HA

Always good to see them around in my posts, nothing changes.
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And you are so easy to get going!!

And you so turn me on when you do!
 
Fuzzy Thumper said:
Exactly.

On a lark, I just went to her website to see if *I* might have any questions, and within two minutes noted that she had "Voyear (sic) fantasies" and "Menage a trois" packages that are offered to couples; but her FAQ says she does not entertain couples. So now if I were looking for that, should I refrain from asking her? And should I now assume this is the only offering that she has both "yes" and "no" responses for?

No matter how "clear" we think we are, there are always a million and one reasons for questions - not the least of which is that things change, websites (or yellow pages) are not always updated in real-time, and these things are not always perfect. Surely everyone has had to get confirmation on things that are said elsewhere now and again... and if it were me, I would rather ask for a minute of the young lady's time to give it, than risk an hour of my time (and $300+) assuming that I know.


This is not a defense of ignorant behaviour or harassment - that is unacceptable. Nor is it a critique of Nicole, her website, or her services (although we've never met, I wish her nothing but success). But still - just on a humanitarian level - to be annoyed with an earnest question, just because YOU think they should know the answer, seems a little bit unnecessary (and rash) to me....
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actually thank you for pointing that out, thought I changed that last night when I updated my site. Info has been changed to the correct info. But personally that is why I have the feature to ask questions on my website, to avoid the phone calls. Sometimes information can be conflicting but clarification via email is always nice. I personally keep the phone for bookings.
 
See the questions some guys ask are not for clarification that can get annoying but information that comes when someone does not read anything period. Now a few of you have given some reasons for why one might call with questions but in the original post of this thread was to understand why someone would call up a SP when they didn't even take the time to do anything but take the number and call. Going on and on about "it's part of business, and suck it up....Just truly immature statements and frankly a waste of GB space. If some can't respond without a smart remark just should not bother.
 
Esco! said:
And you are so easy to get going!!

And you so turn me on when you do!
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It does? Wow that's lame. Well I can't say you got me going, I'm still dry. Have to come with something better to get me wet :)
 
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