My experience talking to and overhearing ladies...including interview w a porn star...working dicks the priority, as long as they're in the average range. The porn star Nina Hartley said average dicks best for your day to day partner. She said a big one now and then but definitely not in a partner. Most ladies say appx avg length and a bit above avg girth. Too big and too small a problem. Surprisingly - to most men - one study showed women were more likely to leave a well endowed partner. Although I can imagine the new guys response when she says "its so much better boning a guy with a smaller dick." Lol.
One bloke was telling me about his 11" long and 8.5" around weiner (take a sheet of paper and roll it into a cylinder the long way if you want to know what that looks like) and he said sex was such a chore, most women won't let him in, certainly no Greek, barely any doggy, lots of lube, and very slow action. Said he has to get custom made condoms from a place in NJ that end up costing almost $10 A pop. He was out in the Maritimes, did see sp's cuz he had a gf and he was too much for her lol. She'd pick the sp out even and sometimes come along. He said he'd warn the sp's but most shrugged it off like he was some garden variety braggart, until they saw the evidence lol.