Paying before session through interact e-transfer is advisable???
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I prepaid through paypal once with a reputable lady. I actually liked it, didn't have to worry about carrying cash. Even though it's a small action of handing the money, the lack of that moment made the time spent more organic.
I'd do it more often if I could, maybe with Bitcoin if I ever figure it out. I'd never do it with someone who wasn't as well known as her. But she never made it a must, it was just an option that she had available. I think if it was a requirement, I'd be a lot more cautious.
I'd do it more often if I could, maybe with Bitcoin if I ever figure it out. I'd never do it with someone who wasn't as well known as her. But she never made it a must, it was just an option that she had available. I think if it was a requirement, I'd be a lot more cautious.
Many ladies and myself ask for pre-paid email transfers because it shows that there is trust on the clients end and that both parties are serious about showing up for a date. It also protects us because people have a tendency to not show up or to fake book.
It's not for everyone, which is why I also recommend two Sp referral (which Sp's and I do check) s and your roseyboard/ terb userhandle on days I already have a date.
I have personally have had dates who were comfortable enough to send an email transfer a month in advance. I have not had any issues.
If you feel a lady is being pimped an email transfer is the least of your worries.
You should go by your comfort level and the reputation of the Sp. If you can't trust the Sp then you should not seek a booking unless that changes, or you should see someone else.
Best,
-Chloe.
It's not for everyone, which is why I also recommend two Sp referral (which Sp's and I do check) s and your roseyboard/ terb userhandle on days I already have a date.
I have personally have had dates who were comfortable enough to send an email transfer a month in advance. I have not had any issues.
If you feel a lady is being pimped an email transfer is the least of your worries.
You should go by your comfort level and the reputation of the Sp. If you can't trust the Sp then you should not seek a booking unless that changes, or you should see someone else.
Best,
-Chloe.
Anonymous e-transfers
And all the recipient/companion gets to see is:
Recipient's name: (here)
Sender: SMITH, JOHN has sent you an INTERAC e-Transfer.
Amount: $1300.00 (CAD)
Sender's Message: A message was not provided
Expiry Date: 10 Jun 2016
Action Required:
To deposit your money, click here:
<link>
The sender always has the opportunity to change his personal details when sending out an e-transfer if he doesn't want to use his full name and wants to remain anonymous for the online transaction (I do it all the time when sending e-transfers to pay for advertising). To add more discretion to the transfer, I ask my gentlemen that the recipient's name they include not be my companion name either. And of course, the email address I use is a professional business one not related to my Gabby adventures.
And all the recipient/companion gets to see is:
Recipient's name: (here)
Sender: SMITH, JOHN has sent you an INTERAC e-Transfer.
Amount: $1300.00 (CAD)
Sender's Message: A message was not provided
Expiry Date: 10 Jun 2016
Action Required:
To deposit your money, click here:
<link>
I'll never prepay for a session and I'll never do an e-transfer. I'll always stick with cash. Discretion is the name of the game, I don't want a money trail even though the likelihood of me getting into trouble is very low. Better safe than sorry though.
I was referring to the subject in the transfer. When I receive or send a transfer the subject is 'INTERAC e-Transfer: xxxx sent you money'. The name used in place of xxx is the name from your bank account. I think the email address you register is only for notifications once the transfer is complete since the transfer itself is sent from an interac email address.
I only use e-transfer for tips, top ups or extra time, but in ALL cases, it is with an SP that I know and trust (and her the same for me).
I would never pre-pay ahead of time with an SP I don't know. In some cases, a deposit is required for high-end SPs who travel from afar. That might be the exception.
I also use a pseudonym that matches my hobby email.
How can you check? I guess I can send money to myself.
I've changed the names of SPs (not their address). Nothing incriminating written. Amounts are not equal to session donation amounts. You will be fine.
For myself it's for a first time meet only, to ensure people are being serious about spending time together. After that I never ask for a transfer.
Sometimes there is a benefit, people have contacted me about it because they feel things are more organic without taking out cash. Or, some others feel it would be less awkward say, if things went down an unfortunate turn and LE or housekeeping came in on a session, there would be no proof of payment.
I agree that trust needs to be there and that a report is important. People have different levels of trust and that's okay. Different ideas and comfort zones, different Sp's to choose from.
-Chloe
p.s. Something I find very bothersome is that people are saying an SP or two has gipped them Via transfer before. Why has that not been mentioned? I thought stuff like that was what this forum was for. It just seems odd.
Just for myself, if someone claims there is an issue with Interact-E transfers please feel free to post where you wish, but note that I will be defending myself and I do feel it's important to screen shot emails and post them as proof of communication.
Make sure you read an Sp's guidelines for E-transfers, she may have a cancellation fee, or take out the cost of the hotel room out of it if you cancel X amount of time before showing up.
Sometimes there is a benefit, people have contacted me about it because they feel things are more organic without taking out cash. Or, some others feel it would be less awkward say, if things went down an unfortunate turn and LE or housekeeping came in on a session, there would be no proof of payment.
I agree that trust needs to be there and that a report is important. People have different levels of trust and that's okay. Different ideas and comfort zones, different Sp's to choose from.
-Chloe
p.s. Something I find very bothersome is that people are saying an SP or two has gipped them Via transfer before. Why has that not been mentioned? I thought stuff like that was what this forum was for. It just seems odd.
Just for myself, if someone claims there is an issue with Interact-E transfers please feel free to post where you wish, but note that I will be defending myself and I do feel it's important to screen shot emails and post them as proof of communication.
Make sure you read an Sp's guidelines for E-transfers, she may have a cancellation fee, or take out the cost of the hotel room out of it if you cancel X amount of time before showing up.
Whether it's racist of not really depends on context. That site also listed "boy" as a racist term to African Americans. Which really again, depends on context and to whom you are referring to.
Usage note
Gyp in the meanings “to swindle” or “a person who swindles” is sometimes perceived as insulting to or by Gypsies, since it stereotypes them as swindlers. However, gyp has apparently never been used as a deliberate ethnic slur, and many people are unaware that it is derived from Gypsy.
from http://www.dictionary.com/browse/gypped
gypped
to rip off; based on the gypsies way of life. Some retards would say this is racist, however these clots have never met a gypsy in theyre life. Truth is not racist, mkay?
"Finally got a zippo, only cost me 60 bucks."
"Damlol, you got gypped, i got the same model for 10 dollars at K-mart"
from http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gypped
Underlined are copied and pasted from the respective sites.
Maybe you and Chloe are cool with "jewed" As well..the same tasteless connotation , regardless of how you want to sugar coat your rationale.. Gypped/jewed..it's all so trailer park..not that there is anything wrong with living in a trailer park per se.
All I quoted is what was found on dictionary.com and on urban dictionary.
None of it were my comments.
Emo much?
It's part the old indy vs. agency argument. I've used mostly agencies because my schedule is so hit & miss, I need the choice, but I get the appeal of Indys - especially with the high-end ones, the allure of repeats and reliability, and establish a regular GFE, well for some it's worth the extra $ & hassle. The 1-2 Indys I've tried in MTL were mind-blowing, and repeating with them will be awesome, when I can match schedules (and I've done my TDL). Personally, I'm for trying variety, but I get the reasoning.
Back to the OP - I get that if a SP is very reputable, this shouldn't be an issue, but without a first-time visit under the books, past my comfort zone. I do get that high-end SP's with a strong reputation can make this condition, as they're in demand, though. But, most importantly for me, this is a cash-only hobby, especially given where things stand these days legislation-wise. Maybe I'm too paranoid, but cash is the only sure way to stay under the radar.
Wow.... million thanks folks for your overwhelmed response, you guys are awesome, actually you guys are all with smart dick I should change my name from smart dick to dumb dick...LOL. I came to conclusion that KYASH IS KING, whatever it may be if any govt agencies wants to dig out records they can find out easily with the help of various authorities so bank or any financial institution interaction is not at all advisable in such discret transaction it may create issues in future. Even she wants to find out more about you she can find out with the eTransfer transaction details, so NO NO NO to eTransfer.
If somebody emails to SP not once or twice but many times to find out her availably it means he is damn serious otherwise he won't spend a single minute in writing mails. Also now a days nobody is trustworthy in this world ... I can see lots of happenings between hubby n wife, boy and gal friend, father - son....and boss - employee etc etc...so I believe there is no TRUST exists, the best policy is fuck and forget....!! what you say?
Cheers folks continue to be awesome.
If somebody emails to SP not once or twice but many times to find out her availably it means he is damn serious otherwise he won't spend a single minute in writing mails. Also now a days nobody is trustworthy in this world ... I can see lots of happenings between hubby n wife, boy and gal friend, father - son....and boss - employee etc etc...so I believe there is no TRUST exists, the best policy is fuck and forget....!! what you say?
Cheers folks continue to be awesome.
