Paying before session through interact e-transfer is advisable???

[smartdick]

I am in touch with one of the beautiful escort after having couple of email exchanges she asked me to send money at given account with message "since it is out first meet I would need an interact e-transfer", before meeting or contacting her therefore pls. let me know is it okay or its a fake or her pimp is trying to fool with us?

She is insisting to pay first then she will book the session and all.

Your suggestions will be appreciated.

 

[whitewaterguy]

No way..ever..with any sp..nor with anyone I've never met for that matter, regardless of what I would be intending on purchasing.,I'd give that a definite pass

 

[Luton]

No way..ever..with any sp..nor with anyone I've never met for that matter, regardless of what I would be intending on purchasing.,I'd give that a definite pass

I totally disagree. I have etransfer with Sps I have seen before like Vivienne Lawrence and Malika Fantasy. Never had a problem.

 

[Frank Gravey]

I totally disagree. I have etransfer with Sps I have seen before like Vivienne Lawrence and Malika Fantasy. Never had a problem.

Um, are you saying that in both cases you paid them via interact before even seeing them, ever? I can see maybe going that route for my own convenience - but only at the time the session commenced, with an absolute known quantity who I knew I could trust. I did it a couple of times in a rub and tug setup, but only after the tug was complete - that's how much she trusted me.

 

[jonskis]

Frank Garvey reminded me of something. The receiver actually can't complete the etransfer without the answer or password to the question you would assign to it. So, if you really want to see her, you could indicate your willingness to etransfer, but would only provide her the answer or password when you see for your own eyes that she's for real.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

No effin way, pay when services are rendered. While it is possible she could be legit, most often these sort of requests are scams. I've even heard of guys who have known an SP for quite a while and then done this and got burned.

 

[Luton]

Um, are you saying that in both cases you paid them via interact before even seeing them, ever? I can see maybe going that route for my own convenience - but only at the time the session commenced, with an absolute known quantity who I knew I could trust. I did it a couple of times in a rub and tug setup, but only after the tug was complete - that's how much she trusted me.

I guess you can't read. I have seen them before.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I guess you can't read. I have seen them before.

Right. But OP has never seen this SP, only email contact.

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

A lot of context is require here, there are a number of well established touring providers who are legit and offer and use EMT . But DO NOT EVER use EMT with young fly by night short stay providers advertising on back page who you've never met before . This is and always should be a cash only business, perhaps once you've established a good relationship with a regular sp you can consider this type of arrangement if it's mutually beneficial. If you're married, don't even think about it.

 

[waterloodude]

Also remember the etransfer will include your full name when sent to the recipient. Depending on your comfort level this may or may not be an issue for you.

 

[asuran]

No problem if it's an established well reviewed SP.

 

[Gobroncosgo]

If you have an established relationship...sure, might make sense then. But that's very different than this scenario.

No way with a first time visit. And yeah, the privacy part is a no-go for me. Straight cash transactions.

If you're new enough to have to ask...you're probably answering the Q already. No way.

 

[mediumrare]

I'd recommended cc'ing local LE on any emails and adding "for sex" in the message of the e-transfer.. Just to be sure everything's on the up-and-up

 

[Herelookin_p3]

i am in touch with one of the beautiful escort after having couple of email exchanges she asked me to send money at given account with message "since it is out first meet i would need an interact e-transfer", before meeting or contacting her therefore pls. Let me know is it okay or its a fake or her pimp is trying to fool with us?

She is insisting to pay first then she will book the session and all.

Your suggestions will be appreciated.

No way!!!

 

[newinottawa]

I am in touch with one of the beautiful escort after having couple of email exchanges she asked me to send money at given account with message "since it is out first meet I would need an interact e-transfer", before meeting or contacting her therefore pls. let me know is it okay or its a fake or her pimp is trying to fool with us?

She is insisting to pay first then she will book the session and all.

Your suggestions will be appreciated.

I wouldn't do this. I have a few stories about these kinds of deals turning sour with established girls with whom I've built a rapport, so i certainly wouldn't with someone I didn't know even if she was an elite provider.

 

[whitewaterguy]

If it's an "established" relationship, the SP will have zero problems accepting your cash after the deed is done. If it's an untrusting relationship, she will demand her money in advance or as soon as you walk in the door... if money is being requested in advance, you haven't established a mutually trusting relationship. Pretty simple

 

[Gntlmn]

For the "no way" folks:
There is a well-known local SP who I won't name (because she decided, in the end, she didn't want the hassle of this being a general option) who I actually, gasp, pre-paid for a number of visits rather than pay an increased per-visit rate. It all worked out great (that agreement ended since we no longer needed it) AND I continue to see her and it continues to be mutually beneficial. Sometimes ya just gotta trust, my friends. And, I did "go with my gut". The vibe I got/get from her is that she's cool. BUT BUT BUT this was not a first-time visit.

 

[eagle1man]

No, no ...and NO! You don't know this person. This has bad written all over it. If she's legit, this can't be the only way. Two sayings come to mind regarding the hobby:
Caveat Emptor
Cash is King

 

[Frank Gravey]

I guess you can't read. I have seen them before.

No, apparently I can't. Thanks so much for pointing that out.

 

[ReaganAdams]

A lot of context is require here, there are a number of well established touring providers who are legit and offer and use EMT . But DO NOT EVER use EMT with young fly by night short stay providers advertising on back page who you've never met before.

This.

If she's reputable and well-reviewed, there should be no issue with a deposit.