I just wrote this in another thread on another board but want to bring it back here again.
The difference between a woman working and man seeing an escort is basically choice.
Some women, most women, who are still working, have no choice. For whatever reasons, they don’t have savings and they have kids to feed. Men have a choice, you don’t need to get your dick wet. You don’t need to have sex. Jerk off. If you really need a release, that is your option. Not seeing escorts.
Imagine if you literally had no food in the house for your children. What would you do? How far would you go to feed them? And think about how scary it must be to be an SP having to work during this time. Always in fear of catching the virus, passing it on to your children. It must be so stressful. And then to be shamed and bashed because of it.
Yet men, unless they have said something here, are not being shamed at all. Most are not able to be blacklisted because they are not speaking up. I am thankful for the ones that have, as I will now not see them but women are out there for all to see in ads, because they have to be to get business. It is easy to shame them.
I will say it now, If I had to put food on the table and had no choice, I would be working too. I would do so under a new name, new pics, new pricing, new screening, and probably in a new area. All to ensure I was able to feed my family and not have to deal with losing of business when all this was over. And even that is considered a luxury to some women because they can’t just set up new pics, or go work in a new area as they don’t have transportation.
I admit I sometimes forget that not all escorts have the same choices I have. I forget that some really are just trying to survive. This is more a hobby for me, to get laid and paid. To them it is life or death. When I pull my own head out of the clouds, and really look at the reality of life for some, it truly shows where some judgements should lie and where some shouldn’t.
I have taken two escorts under my wing so to speak. I have forwarded all donations from my Fans of Rain site to help these ladies out as well as provided food from my own cupboards and now my once a week shopping trip. If anyone wants to help these ladies out, let me know or make a donation on my shop page of my fan site. Any help goes a long way.