Part time SP's in Durham question..

[Davenash2]

Why do a lot of part time SP's not give much notice of a pending schedule?
Most Full time SP's, you can just text and see if they are available when you want to see them, so usually they are easier to plan with..

I love when SP's put out schedules weeks or even month by month, so there is time to plan. Jessica Lee does this ( :thumb Ya I know she is a full time SP. Just giving an example.
Actually I remember Heidi putting out her schedule, sometimes for a month or so at a time, when she was more active. thumb

I know its your business and some of you can only plan week to week. But would you not have better luck filling your dance card by announcing your schedule with more notice?
I know some of you are very popular and have no trouble filling your dance card on shorter notice. I am just asking.....

Also I have heard some SP's don't like guys that book weeks in advance. Do you find advance booking end in a lot of NO shows?? Is that why?

 

[thumper18474]

LOl....unexpected expense has come up...or
they do it on purpose so guys will drool over the fact that...OMG...she is available...(sucks dont it Ridge)...
Ever heard of the saying....
always leave them wanting more?....

personally...I'll stick to the full time ladies ...as oppsed to the part timers who only come out to play when they feel like it

 

[Lily Divine]

Why do a lot of part time SP's not give much notice of a pending schedule?
Most Full time SP's, you can just text and see if they are available when you want to see them, so usually they are easier to plan with..

I love when SP's put out schedules weeks or even month by month, so there is time to plan. Jessica Lee does this ( :thumb Ya I know she is a full time SP. Just giving an example.
Actually I remember Heidi putting out her schedule, sometimes for a month or so at a time, when she was more active. thumb

I know its your business and some of you can only plan week to week. But would you not have better luck filling your dance card by announcing your schedule with more notice?
I know some of you are very popular and have no trouble filling your dance card on shorter notice. I am just asking.....

Also I have heard some SP's don't like guys that book weeks in advance. Do you find advance booking end in a lot of NO shows?? Is that why?

I am closer to part time than I am to full time based upon limited availability (my preference) and a maximum number of visits per day and per week so I will give some perspective from my point of view.

Personally I know my availability and schedule for up to 8 weeks in advance or more. I don't post more than 2 weeks at a time due to the simple fact that I often share a room with others for incall days and I am trying to coordinate with their schedule. I don't have a problem with pre-planning visits and often encourage this as it makes my life far easier.

I've actually found there is a level of frustration for those whom I spend time with regularly mistakenly thinking I will not be able to be available for them in an alternate area because I have posted availability somewhere else. Thankfully that has now been sorted and those who know me know I will adjust accordingly for them.

For myself... It is much easier if someone simply emails me and says "would you be available in this area, on X date?" OR "Can you let me know when you will be coming to this area?" if they are trying to plan ahead. Just a piece of advice though. It may be helpful to avoid planning ahead to "text on the day of" and getting frustrated when things don't work out. Either make the plans, or take ones chances. The number of times men make tentative plans that don't work out astounds me.

LOl....unexpected expense has come up...or
they do it on purpose so guys will drool over the fact that...OMG...she is available...(sucks dont it Ridge)...
Ever heard of the saying....
always leave them wanting more?....

personally...I'll stick to the full time ladies ...as oppsed to the part timers who only come out to play when they feel like it

Darn it Thumper and I thought we had something delightfully raunchy in store still. Does this mean I have to go full time? I don't know if I have that much energy!

 

[Lily Divine]

Also booking too far ahead almost always leads to 75% cancel/ no show rate . Booking 2-3 days ahead is way more reliable for most sp's. I still book two weeks ahead but usually only with a regular or a reference

I will actually say that my advance booking cancellation rate is only about 10% for the ones booked well in advance and 30% in the ones booked 2 days - 2 weeks in advance. Though I mostly see the same people over and over.

 

[Lily Divine]

Ya that's what I mean , new client advanced bookings. If it's a regular or I got a reference then it's usually solid but new client two weeks ahead not so much , things come up for anyone though I still accept pre bookings

Makes complete sense. Outside of terb members and men visiting from the US do they actually give references out in Durham? I was met with shock by more than one whom I have asked for them from.

 

[Davenash2]

Heidi you are great! I love how you operate and referenced you in my OP. Hope to see you in May or later. Its been way too long, if you remember me.

Lily, sorry we have never meet. I have only heard good things from your friend AMY.

Thanks ladies...It all makes sense. I need to email more or text when I want to see a Part time SP, a few weeks down the road.. I guess I have assumed someone is not available, for a future date, if I have not seen any activity from theme. I don't want to be bugging the SP..

 

[thumper18474]

I am closer to part time than I am to full time based upon limited availability (my preference) and a maximum number of visits per day and per week so I will give some perspective from my point of view.

Personally I know my availability and schedule for up to 8 weeks in advance or more. I don't post more than 2 weeks at a time due to the simple fact that I often share a room with others for incall days and I am trying to coordinate with their schedule. I don't have a problem with pre-planning visits and often encourage this as it makes my life far easier.

I've actually found there is a level of frustration for those whom I spend time with regularly mistakenly thinking I will not be able to be available for them in an alternate area because I have posted availability somewhere else. Thankfully that has now been sorted and those who know me know I will adjust accordingly for them.

For myself... It is much easier if someone simply emails me and says "would you be available in this area, on X date?" OR "Can you let me know when you will be coming to this area?" if they are trying to plan ahead. Just a piece of advice though. It may be helpful to avoid planning ahead to "text on the day of" and getting frustrated when things don't work out. Either make the plans, or take ones chances. The number of times men make tentative plans that don't work out astounds me.



Darn it Thumper and I thought we had something delightfully raunchy in store still. Does this mean I have to go full time? I don't know if I have that much energy!

LMAO...No worries Lily..
I'd just rather spend a 3..4..or 5 hr raunchy afternoon with an escort who is in the biz full time as opposed to someone who just comes out and plays when the mood hits her or just does it as an escape from their drab private lives or whatever their reason is.
IMHO...the full timer knows...its a livelyhood for her and does everything she can to keep business coming back...part timers ...SOME are taking the attitude ..meh im only doing this for fun anyways and I got an outside life that pays my bills...

 

[Lily Divine]

Lily, sorry we have never meet. I have only heard good things from your friend AMY.

Thanks ladies...It all makes sense. I need to email more or text when I want to see a Part time SP, a few weeks down the road.. I guess I have assumed someone is not available, for a future date, if I have not seen any activity from theme. I don't want to be bugging the SP..

We've never met but I do believe I spotted you once in passing. Next time maybe a hello is in order.

 

[Lily Divine]

LMAO...No worries Lily..
I'd just rather spend a 3..4..or 5 hr raunchy afternoon with an escort who is in the biz full time as opposed to someone who just comes out and plays when the mood hits her or just does it as an escape from their drab private lives or whatever their reason is.
IMHO...the full timer knows...its a livelyhood for her and does everything she can to keep business coming back...part timers ...SOME are taking the attitude ..meh im only doing this for fun anyways and I got an outside life that pays my bills...

LOL! As you well know I only play when in the mood, and I am a bit of both but never typically in a position where I am in it to get my hands on quick cash. Then again I want them to keep coming back because I tend to enjoy making them my play toy too so win win!

 

[AndyQuest]

Why do a lot of part time SP's not give much notice of a pending schedule?

I also wondered about the lack of notice.
I always book well in advance as my business commitments do not provide much last minute play time. I was able to play regularly when I was seeing a local regular but I've recently decided to start seeing ladies outside of Durham as there seems to be more choices in those that, not only meet my tastes but who also provide advance availability schedules. SP's like Heidi (recommended to me by Heather ) and Nikki Klass seem to just pop in at the last minute with typically only one or maybe two day notice .

 

[thumper18474]

I also wondered about the lack of notice.
I always book well in advance as my business commitments do not provide much last minute play time. I was able to play regularly when I was seeing a local regular but I've recently decided to start seeing ladies outside of Durham as there seems to be more choices in those that, not only meet my tastes but who also provide advance availability schedules. SP's like Heidi (recommended to me by Heather ) and Nikki Klass seem to just pop in at the last minute with typically only one or maybe two day notice .

But some are just in it for the excitement !!
So I guess when they get bored they grace us with their presence...
Funny..
when I want excitement im the one paying...
Hmmmmmm.....interesting when the part timers want excitement...we pay them?
Something wrong with this picture??

 

[pencilneckgeek]

People can claim whatever they want. For the most part it's about $$$ and bills to be paid. And there is a difference between a job and a career. I'll be surprised to see a career woman working as a part time SP in Durham.

But some are just in it for the excitement !!
So I guess when they get bored they grace us with their presence...
Funny..
when I want excitement im the one paying...
Hmmmmmm.....interesting when the part timers want excitement...we pay them?
Something wrong with this picture??

 

[Horngry]

People can claim whatever they want. For the most part it's about $$$ and bills to be paid. And there is a difference between a job and a career. I'll be surprised to see a career woman working as a part time SP in Durham.

Funny you should mention. I know of one career woman that does work part time as an SP, in Durham.

 

[Ridgeman08]

People can claim whatever they want. For the most part it's about $$$ and bills to be paid. And there is a difference between a job and a career. I'll be surprised to see a career woman working as a part time SP in Durham.

Heidi Vixen...

 

[pencilneckgeek]

Funny you should mention. I know of one career woman that does work part time as an SP, in Durham.

A professional career such as accountant, banker, lawyer, nursing etc.

 

[pencilneckgeek]

Heidi Vixen...

I don't know about her but being a secretary is not a career.

 

[heatherstouch]

Lol love how this thread turned into why I work as an SP and whether or not what I do for a living is a "career" or not. & that a total stranger feels he can make that decision?Makes me laugh my personal life is off the table here
So, let's stay happy and naughty and just have fun guys and if your preference is an SP who only works as a full time SP to pay her bills and does not have a career on the side or doesn't have the option to leave the industry if she gets into a personal relationship (which is why I take absences usually) then there are many of those to choose from! To each their own were all here for one thing at the end !
Xox
Heidi

Well said Heidi...You super Sexy thing YOU!!!!! Miss you like crazy!!!

 

[jred2171]

obviously pencilpecker has never seen Heidi and probably never will now

 

[dirkd101]

pencilneckgeek, Why are you splitting hairs here or are you just a hater?

+1 Heidi

And Heather, I miss you both.

 

[foxxxy lady]

obviously pencilpecker has never seen Heidi and probably never will now

It's sad that he is so judgemental ,but like they say when you point your finger there is three pointing back right at you. I think he should book with Heidi and kiss her sexy ass and apologise for being so a narrow minded

xo amber