Stockings & Lingerie are pretty important to me. I don’t get too specific though and let the provider pick their own items, and will kind of propose it as a theme to providers who don’t want specific outfit requests. And of course will always tip generously as I am aware of the extra prep that goes on. I have mostly punted in the UK and it seems that high end lingerie is pretty standard where here I find if you don’t ask the lingerie will be minimal or non existent.