An Indy I've seen and enjoyed a few times is willing to come to my house for our next play date. I live on my own in a single detached house in a nice area . She seems pretty normal in every way. It would be great to have a couple of drinks and not to have to get dressed , leave and drive home after she's tired me out! Am I asking for potential problems by doing this ? Anyone have negative experiences doing this?
Outcall to my house. Bad idea?
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I've done this a number of times with ladies I've seen already. The only issue I've had was once her driver sat out in the car idling for the hour. I didn't know at the time. That made me uncomfortable after the fact. If they are driving themselves I'm good. It saves on a hotel room, and is also a more comfortable setting.
Some words of friendly advice.
TREAD VERY CAREFULLY! Anonymity is your friend. Embrace it, and don't take chances.
I also had a regular that once suggested this... I was convinced she was normal in every way as well... but don't forget you are paying her for her time to BE what YOU want her to be!
I once saw an SP that I thought was genuine and truthful, but turns out she's a psycho bitch! She took it upon herself, to that text me at all times of day and night. Finally had to get a new cell number in order for the abuse to stop! Imagine that same scenario if she new my home address! :Eek:
TREAD VERY CAREFULLY! Anonymity is your friend. Embrace it, and don't take chances.
I also had a regular that once suggested this... I was convinced she was normal in every way as well... but don't forget you are paying her for her time to BE what YOU want her to be!
I once saw an SP that I thought was genuine and truthful, but turns out she's a psycho bitch! She took it upon herself, to that text me at all times of day and night. Finally had to get a new cell number in order for the abuse to stop! Imagine that same scenario if she new my home address! :Eek:
There is a huge number of bad things that you could be facilitating by inviting a stranger into your home to get nekkid and fuck. From coldly calculated crime (theft, violent or otherwise, at the moment or later) to passionate and psychotic (Vegas wedding to perpetual stalking) so why would paying her make it different? The one difference I can see is that a professional from a known agency who comes with a verified reputation is less likely to be a regrettable surprise.
You should note that professionals tend to travel with driver/security, and discuss that when booking as well as the sort of appearance that won't have your neighbours gossiping if you're slow at the door.
You should note that professionals tend to travel with driver/security, and discuss that when booking as well as the sort of appearance that won't have your neighbours gossiping if you're slow at the door.
Next, she may want to move in with the kid & will take half of what you've worked for down the road. Tread carefully. I took a gal home from Airport Golden Spa & after she saw my place she was ready to move in. She was serious & I had a hard time saying no. But did. Ruined a good thing and never saw here again after this.
Cannot comment on the girl you are speaking of BUT there is a few very reputable outcall services that have been around for many years. Very rare to hear problems from these agencies/ girls.
I completely agree with everything you said Jessie... but there is always that slim chance someone is not who they claim to be. :Eek:
Speaking from experience, I know this to be true... :frusty:
That's why I say its best to keep things anonymous.
there is always that slim chance that a meteorite would hit you on the head if you leave the house. That's why it's best to never leave the house.
For your later amusement, set up hidden video cameras to record the goings on... (just in case things go well)
When I was young and foolish I took a few dancers (not all at the same time) back to my place to carry on the conversation. Truth be told, they were actually more worried than I was. Never had a problem before, during or after.
It's not something I've done, and I'd be very wary to do so.
If you choose a reputable provider, likely everything will be OK. But there is some small risk (difficult to quantify) that something could go horribly wrong, and then you'd be in a very bad situation.
If you choose a reputable provider, likely everything will be OK. But there is some small risk (difficult to quantify) that something could go horribly wrong, and then you'd be in a very bad situation.
If an SP is going to do something criminal (steal your ID, wallet, etc.) then it really doesn't matter if you invite them to your house or you go to their incall; they're going to do it any way. The truth is that the overwhelming majority of SP's whether indy or not have no desire to do something dumb like that. I would also include driver's in there too since, I'd hope agencies and indys check them out first.
There are always exceptions, but you should still take steps to protect yourself. Honestly speaking, I wouldn't have an SP in my place whether I lived alone or not. Obviously, if you're living with someone then an outcall to your house would be bad idea. You have to assume someone's watching and will notice the lady coming and going or a driver either idling in your driveway or driving around on your street. Outcalls almost always carry an upcharge too.
There are always exceptions, but you should still take steps to protect yourself. Honestly speaking, I wouldn't have an SP in my place whether I lived alone or not. Obviously, if you're living with someone then an outcall to your house would be bad idea. You have to assume someone's watching and will notice the lady coming and going or a driver either idling in your driveway or driving around on your street. Outcalls almost always carry an upcharge too.
Personally, I would be uncomfortable having a SP come over to my place. Rather stick to outcalls to hotel.
Think of it like there is a massage parlor close to where you work or live. Would you be comfortable going in there ? You never know who is watching.
Think of it like there is a massage parlor close to where you work or live. Would you be comfortable going in there ? You never know who is watching.
