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Ontario nurse admits to sex with 80-year-old dementia patient, loses nursing certificate

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Intercourse? I'm glad to hear you can still get a boner at 80 years old.

A Peterborough-area nurse who admitted to having sex with an 80-year-old patient with dementia while working for him as a personal support worker has had her nursing certificate revoked.

Cathryn Marie Dulmage, a registered practical nurse, was fired by her employer Nightingale Nursing Registry in January 2017 after the man’s family reviewed security camera footage that showed the two embracing and kissing during an unscheduled visit, and the man telling her that he loved her.

Questioned by her agency the day after that encounter, Dulmage admitted to being intimate with the patient, including sexual intercourse and oral sex, and said she was also in love with the man, according to a decision of the disciplinary committee of the College of Nurses of Ontario.

The misconduct amounts to “sexual abuse” of the patient, and for that, Dulmage, who got her nursing diploma in 1991, can no longer practice as a nurse, a penalty that is in line with previous cases and “in the public interest,” reads the five-member panel’s decision, signed by committee chairperson Tanya Dion.

The decision, which came after a May 5, 2021, hearing, was passed to the Star by a Sheridan College journalism student who first discovered it in a legal database. The decision has also been published in the college of nurses’ monthly magazine, the Standard.

A publication ban on the identity of the victim has been imposed. The college refused a Star request for the man’s name for the purpose of contacting family for this story.

The man died sometime after the encounters with Dulmage and before the hearing.


Ontario Provincial Police investigated the case and it was “determined there were no grounds for criminal charges,” said spokesperson Bill Dickson, who directed any further questions back to the college.

 

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Such blatant double standards are frustrating to see.
You gotta to speak to men about it. Look at the comments here. More men will be proud of the 80 year old with a hard on then they will see the assault for what it is.

Same with the “hot female teacher” with the young boy

I think it is sick and men need to retrain their brains a bit.
 

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I wonder how much money she actually conned him out of?
 

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There was a psw a while back that would have a shower with the demented old guy for a cash tip until his daughter found out and reported her to the agency.
 

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Sad, losing your license for being horny. I couldn't have been worth it for the nurse.
 

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I’m 70 and still see escorts. My latest regular, I’ve seen her 7 or 8 times since I got doubled vaxxed in May, is 26 years old and quite enthusiastic in bed. Am I being abused? Fuck no. Knowing that I can see her motivates me to stay in shape. I want to get my money’s worth. And she is worth every penny. I’m in good shape physically, mentally and emotionaly.
Sex is health.
 

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You gotta to speak to men about it. Look at the comments here. More men will be proud of the 80 year old with a hard on then they will see the assault for what it is.

Same with the “hot female teacher” with the young boy

I think it is sick and men need to retrain their brains a bit.
If I'm the old dude getting the sex, what gives you the right to deny me that sex?? If I want to pay her or she just likes old dudes, is it not my right even as a crusty old man to receive my sex without some fuddy-duddy (sorry LOL) claiming that I've been assaulted???? I personally would consider it an assault if I am denied that ride into the sunset with a hot young nurse steering my wilted rutter.

I'm going with Poker's take. I'm not sure most ladies get the hots for 80 year old geezers.
Come on man, stop shitting all over my future planning!!!!!
 

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If I'm the old dude getting the sex, what gives you the right to deny me that sex?? If I want to pay her or she just likes old dudes, is it not my right even as a crusty old man to receive my sex without some fuddy-duddy (sorry LOL) claiming that I've been assaulted???? I personally would consider it an assault if I am denied that ride into the sunset with a hot young nurse steering my wilted rutter.
When you have dementia and may be getting taken for more then just a ride? Yes. You get denied. Sorry.
 

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When you have dementia and may be getting taken for more then just a ride? Yes. You get denied. Sorry.
Oh no!!! DON'T YOU DARE!!! I'm going to get laid dementia or not, my little wilted squeeze is going to get some action when I'm in my golden years. I am intentionally saving a rip me off and ride me into the sunset fund and I do NOT need a fuddy-duddy do-gooder to ruin my parade.
 

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When you have dementia and may be getting taken for more then just a ride? Yes. You get denied. Sorry.
I suppose whether or not you can consent to sex when you have dementia depends how advanced your dementia is, and if it has affected your ability to understand what you are doing, and the consequences.
In any case, a healthcare professional having sex with a patient is considered abusive, due to the nature of the HCW/ patient relationship. Hence the loss of licence.
Agree with you that I’m suspicious that the sex may have been for some other type of benefit.
 

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To be serious for a second, it may sound amazing, but I know for a fact that in nursing homes "demented" elderly men do get erections and rape elderly demented women in nursing homes. I think a person's base personality remains even after various forms of dementia set in. This makes an odd legal conundrum, because dementia is a varied, unpredictable and bizarre condition/disease. However, my "feeling" is that the nature of the demented person, is essentially the same as before they were deemed "demented". A person's nature or hardwired personality is not likely to change. The demented may have fantasies about who they are assaulting that make the person seem out of it, but I think they know they are doing something wrong.
Also, from personal observation of persons with dementia, 100% I can say that if a person is an asshole before Alzheimer's, or other dementia sets in, their base personality remains. If nice, they remain nice.
So we really do need to be respectful for the thousands of elderly people who are sexually abused.
But the "hot for teacher" scenario is still hot!
 
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this is just sad, I had a grandmother with dementia and she had no clue of most what was going on except when the group was singing. It broke my heart seeing her in this state not knowing who anyone was and not able to take care of herself. That nurse is sick in the head.
 
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