Thank you svtcobra. I remember very well that conversation we had on the other board and how true it was that most people we met were different from their 'online' personna's.
Also, that the Sp's we met at parties and 'socially' were more themselves and less likely to be into 'acting' to please you, then when you paid them for a session.
I can recall having seen an escort in TO for a session then meeting her socially for a drink a month later with some other fellas and two other industry ladies. That was also an 'eye-opener.'
Here was the same lady that had acted like a hot sexy little 'coochie-coo' lapdancer during the session, having a serious discussion about jazz, philosophy and literature. She appeared to be a totally different person, from the personna she exhibited at her 'incall' location.
As it turns out this lady was attending Grad school at UofT, and was going to graduate with an Master's Degree the following year. She also looked and dressed totally different, and her vocabulary was exemplary. She no longer escorts as she has a good career in the 'real' world. She was an extremely intelligent woman, and a single parent, who was only escorting to pay her bills and tuition fees.
Needless to say, when I repeated, knowing what we both knew about each other, the next session was much different. It was a much more 'real', and a much more sensuous experience as a result.