Online/Phone Dating

[DPlaya]

Hi all, I have tried phone dating in the recent past. The two organizations I have tried have been Quest and Lavalife with mixed to zero results.

All I'm looking for is to meet some women for some causal fun . That being said can anyone recomend a particular service. My feedback from Quest wasn't too bad, but Lavalife is just full of escorts roaming the system. To paint a little more of the picture for you I'm in my mid 20's and wouldn't mind finding an unfulfilled housewife seeking a little excitement on the side. So I'd appreciate any suggestions. Thx

Dplaya

 

[Manji]

Just out of curiosity, how did you find out that the women on Lavalife were escorts?

Did they tell you in person or on the phone? When and how did they bring it up?

 

[t_dot]

Just out of curiosity, how did you find out that the women on Lavalife were escorts? Did they tell you in person or on the phone? When and how did they bring it up?

i've experienced this too, and manji this is usually how it goes:

woman: i'm 25 white 120 lbs. d cups and love to give head.

you: wow, where are you calling from? would you like to hook up?

woman: are you generous? the price is $120.

most of the women that are ready to meet right away are escorts, or ugly and dirty. you really have to beat the bushes to find a good one.

i use quest off and on, sometimes i go on streaks of nothing, then sometimes you get lucky.

one of my most bizzar experiences was with a 23 year old girl. she seemed a little up tight, but was really eager to meet. for some reason i wasn't that into it (probly because she seemed like she was looking for a boyfriend) anyway, i agreed to meet her. i was expecting a real dog and a short date, instead i was greated with a totally HOT babe. then my thoughts immidiately shifted to 'wow am i out of my depth' i was really expecting to hear her say i wasn't really her type, so i was totally freaked out when she told me this was the best blind date she ever had, and that she wanted to see me sooo many more times.

we talked on the phone a few more times, but i never saw her again. that's what i call the quest mind f*ck.

so beware, but have fun. i've had some great times from that line too.

 

[yoniluvrca]

My experience with phone lines is that the girls are either sub-standard hookers who can't get it together to actually put together a web site or work for an agency-or-ladies who are into the mind-fuck. You can waste an awful lot of money looking for that imaginary "gem", non-pro who will be the woman of your dreams.

This being said, I have on occasion hooked up with some fun ladies-only once or twice actually.

A couple of years ago I made a connection with a couple of "high school girls"-actually out of high school as they were 19 & 20-who provided a hot duo for 2 browns. It was kind of freaky though and if I had been a married pooner I would have been worried about my anonnymity(spelling?) as they required that I disclose a lot of personal info for, as the explained, their safety. As it turned out I did not ever hear anything from them again.

Another time I hooked up with another couple of cuties but cut them loose when I realised that they really were high schoolers out for some adventure and cash and that they were in fact under aged. This is not a position you really want to put yourself in-so be careful

 

[Leaffan1976]

My night at the SC with the girls lol

Well back when everyone was on ICQ (Now it seems like people just use msn or yahoo lol) I met this one girl that was from the same town as me. We got to know each other found out she was bi and that she likes to go to the strip clubs. One day we decided we were gonna meet and asked if her girlfriend could come along. No problem. It's good to have a friend with you when your meeting someone online. So of all places to go on a first date we ended up at CT's lol. I couldnt believe it haha. We certainly got the attention of everyone! the girls friend who I was more attracted to (she wasnt interested in me tho dammit lol) gave her panties to the dj lol. I think they were more interested in each other lol I saw the girl a couple times after that. Real nice girl but physically no attraction. I still think about her I want to call her up but I lost her number lol

 

[SaveFerris]

Having used Lava in the past (I haven't for a couple of years now because I don;t like the wasted time of emailing back and forth, impressing her, and then meeting, and of course the chemistry is not always there...so then back to the drawing board....but I'd say it was successful about 1 in 5 where you made a real investment (say emailing/phone talk for 2-3 weeks and then meeting).

What I found was that in the "casual encounter" section, most women want some hunky looking guy to fullfil a fantasy (not all, I met a couple through this category as well)...but the REAL jems are hiding in "relationship" category....this is because they have more class than simply advertising that they are looking for sex (after all, any woman can get laid if that's what she wants, and she doesn't have to go on a computer to get it). So if you give these "realtiosnhip" seekers what they want (a potential for something more serious if things develop) they can be quite the tigers in bed...and they won;t be dumping you after 2 weeks because they want to move on to the next hunk.....you'll basically have regular sex for as long as it works....just my two cents...

 

[DPlaya]

Hey T-tot, your description is bang on. I'm tired of wasting credits to talk to chicks who end up asking for a donation. To top it off, I think you get better value for money on Quest than Lavalife, although the search categories are more extensive on lavalife.

I think I'll try Quest again and see what happens, if anyone knows of any systems to meet some hot MILF's please let me know thanks

Dplaya

 

[scouser1]

ICQ is ok for meeting overseas East Euro babes if you intend to travel like I did last summer, I suggest www.campuskiss.com, its free and I have had some luck on there meeting some really nice women

 

[DPlaya]

Hey Smiley27, I think you have a good chance of finding MILF's on Lavalife because they have a section for women who are married and looking for something extra. However I think the majority of them just place profiles to see what else is out there but then dont have the courage to follow through.

Does anyone know what system is good for sourcing some MILFS?

Dplaya

 

[healer677]

There's a bar off of the 427 at the Valhalla Inn called Mermaids....happy hunting.

At least this way you see what you're getting right off the bat.

 

[Leaffan1976]

ICQ is ok for meeting overseas East Euro babes if you intend to travel like I did last summer, I suggest www.campuskiss.com, its free and I have had some luck on there meeting some really nice women

yeah thats why i dont use it much anymore. Plus a lot of spam messages and girls just looking for sex lol. Not like it was a couple years ago.

not serious about settling down now so ive come here to terb to look for some hot ladies who wanna have fun hehe

 

[t_dot]

i've found that women who are married, and looking for an affair are actually the hardest to meet. they all seem to have some complex about you falling in love with them and ruining their lives. i always want to say: ' hey honey, you're going out of your way to cheat on your husband. what makes you think you'e such a prize?'

i think the time of day you go on quest makes a difference too. the afternoons are just full of chicks wasting your time. the evening and nights are when you could probably find the gems.

 

[DPlaya]

Hey tdot I think you nailed it on the head, during the afternoon the chicks on the system are either out to mess with your head or looking for "donations". I am gonna try Quest again, and a big plus for doing so is that they are a lot cheaper than Lavalife.

Also Healer677 I agree with you, going to a cougar bar is a better way of seeing first what your are getting into (pardon the pun). However I don't think any really hot MILFS would go to a cougar bar, but one may get lucky, what nights does Mermaids go down. Thanks

Dplaya