Older Clients?

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Sep 7, 2001
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Ladies, do you have any reservations about booking dates with older clients? I mean ones that are say over 65.
A Lady I saw recently was telling me that a client she has seen, in his 70's, has revealed that he has a heart condition. Now she's a little hesitant to take another session with him. Wouldn't want to have hime have a heart attack or something.
Does this type of thing concern you? What would you do if your client had an attack while you were there, or in the middle of the deed? Just Curious.
 
LOL!! I remember one time, our own lovely Alexa Taylor almost gave an older client a heart attack! guess all the sensory excitement was just too much for him to take in! :D
 
Dani said:
Defib and a bottle of oxygen always on stand by.
I do find that the best way to keep the "older" gentlemen alive is to continue the mouth to mouth during the session.:D
I figure Dani gives more heart attacks than she prevents!!!LOL
 
I think Alexa Taylor posted the story here a few years ago. Maybe she could repeat it. As I recall it, the client did actually have a heart attack and she called 911, thus saving his life.

I think his family handled it well and expressed their appreciation.

As far as "older" and/or heart condition: I know a guy in his mid 40s who collapsed and died while riding his bike. He was in good shape too. heart condition was undiagnosed.
 
I have 2 concerns about seeing older clients, but will see them if these are not issues.

1. No viagra - & I can only hope they are honest with me. The underlying reason for viagra is a heart condition - we know that. So of course my concern is the health of a client being compromised because of a visit with me. I am not hiding my work from family & friends so I would have no issue calling 911 if something did happen - it's only right.

2. I prefer to visit with older clients Monday to Friday, between 10am & 4pm, to avoid the appearence of something weird going on should anyone NOT be minding their own business & be watching.
 
A.J. Raven said:
I have 2 concerns about seeing older clients, but will see them if these are not issues. . . .



2. I prefer to visit with older clients Monday to Friday, between 10am & 4pm, to avoid the appearence of something weird going on should anyone NOT be minding their own business & be watching.

Is there a seniors' discount during those hours? :))
 
I know CPR and would not hesitate to call 911, just as I would hope if anything should happen to me during a session, the guy would do the same. I dont think this is necessarily simply an age thing however, things happen, allergic reactions, asthma, drugs who really knows.

Just to clarify though...viagara worsens or betters the risks?
 
years ago when I used to go to stripper bars ( beer was $2.50 per bottle) a friend of mine managed a bar out by the airport. One of the patrons stroked out during a lap dance dead with a smile before he hit the floor. The paper work all completed club cleaned up etc,. I was reading the paper the next day, came across his add.

XXXXXX Strip club our dancers will stop you dead in your tracks.

The only time I believed in truth in advertising
 
I guess its one of the better ways to go haha. Maybe we should offer clients a DNR option LOL. In this case of course it WOULD mean do not recessitate, not to be confused with NRP ;)
 
HaileyGirl said:
In this case of course it WOULD mean do not recessitate, not to be confused with NRP

Ahem, ahem, resuscitate!! Sorry I couldn't resist.

That is a hard one though...As the actress said to the bishop.:D
 
A.J. Raven said:
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1. No viagra - & I can only hope they are honest with me. The underlying reason for viagra is a heart condition - we know that. So of course my concern is the health of a client being compromised because of a visit with me. I am not hiding my work from family & friends so I would have no issue calling 911 if something did happen - it's only right.

Where the heck did you pick up that piece of misinformation.

Yes, some guys with heart conditions may need Viagara to keep it up.

and

Some guys may be prescribed Viagara to treat some types of heart conditions.

The truth is that the 99.9% of guys that take Viagara, do so in order to maintain an erection, period.

That being said, and it has been emphasised many times on this board, it is important that you seek the approval of your GP before starting on Viagara, Cialis etc. He/she may not recommend it if you have certain heart problems, ie. If you are taking nitro for angina.

Before my GP would give me Cialis, he had me go for treadmill stress tests and an ultrasound scan to check out a slurpy heart valve (heart murmur).

So :p on your theory.
 
johnnyone1 said:
…edit…it has been emphasised many times on this board, it is important that you seek the approval of your GP before starting on Viagara, Cialis etc. He/she may not recommend it if you have certain heart problems, ie. If you are taking nitro for angina.

Before my GP would give me Cialis, he had me go for treadmill stress tests and an ultrasound scan to check out a slurpy heart valve (heart murmur).

So :p on your theory.
Yeah, what he said. When I enquired about Viagra, my GP said, "First we'll do an ECG, stress test and such to make sure of your cardio health, then I'll talk to you about what is or isn't safe for you." Better than "No Viagra" would be a "No Self-Prescribed Viagra" Rule.
 
johnnyone1 said:
Where the heck did you pick up that piece of misinformation.

Are you kidding me?? The main reason an older guy can't get or keep an erection is because the heart is not pumping enough blood to keep the erection. Where have you been? Under a rock or something? it's amazing to me how little men know about their own health! And these drugs are readily available without prescriptions, and doctors give prescriptions pretty generously nowadays. The cash is not so important to me that I would eagerly risk causing a health problem in a client, or putting myself in the uncomfotable position of having to deal with it, should it happen. I'm not an asshole, so I am not out to deprieve older gentlemen of having fun with me. But I stress over it during the encounter and it's supposed to be fun. I have enough to stress over, why add one more thing to my conscience.

As far as these drugs go, I also hate seeing guys who take it that do not need it. It upsets the balance of a natural encounter. I am not a machine and the drug turns them into one. It's ridiculous really.
 
A.J. Raven said:
Are you kidding me?? The main reason an older guy can't get or keep an erection is because the heart is not pumping enough blood to keep the erection. Where have you been? Under a rock or something? it's amazing to me how little men know about their own health! And these drugs are readily available without prescriptions, and doctors give prescriptions pretty generously nowadays. The cash is not so important to me that I would eagerly risk causing a health problem in a client, or putting myself in the uncomfotable position of having to deal with it, should it happen.

Did you even bother to read the whole post??:rolleyes:

But it's ok AJ, you can go on believing exactly what you want, because you will never be offered the opportunity to pleasure me anyway.

Really!!
 
DonQuixote said:
The restriction of blood to the penus can be the
result of several reasons.

The most prominent reason is that the man may
have been a smoker. The vessels are impeded
in the penus. That cause isn't the result of
an unhealthy heart. The blood vessels serving
this region of the body are very narrow as
compared to other vessels in the body.

That's the reason for the stress test. To
test the heart, and not down there.

Anyone who smokes has an unhealthy heart. C'mon.
 
johnnyone1 said:
Did you even bother to read the whole post??:rolleyes:

But it's ok AJ, you can go on believing exactly what you want, because you will never be offered the opportunity to pleasure me anyway.

Really!!

of course I read the entire post, you condescending prat. Check your ego - typical jerk-off response "you will never be offered the opportunity to pleasure me anyway." Right up there with calling girls dykes when they rejected you first.