What have you guys said/done if an MA fails to get you to that sweet spot. How have you reacted? How did she react? What sort of things were/could be offered to make up for it?
No finish
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Okay... geez are all of your 1000+ posts this useful? Hang on, I just checked... yeah... they are
Go find something useful to do somewhere else
Go find something useful to do somewhere else
Sorry, are you holding your 25 posts up as stellar content? I guess it figures...where the fuck is Ottawa anyways?BigDaddyOttawa said:
Depends, did she just not offer you a finish (i.e. "therapeutic massage")? Then you just go somewhere else next time.BigDaddyOttawa said:
Did she try to give you a finish, but it didn't work? That brings some subtle sub-contexts. If she tried and had a great attitude, and you just weren't up for the job, then just pay her the full tip and try again next time. If she was giving you a bad attitude which resulted in you not finishing, then cut back on the tip and never return there again.
ona few occaisions guilt has kicked in for me. I just said thanks thats enough and ended the session. No explanation is necessary. I am paying for an hour, if I want to end it then so be it.... There have been occasions however that the Sp could not keep up with me and a whole whole of vigorous work was way to much and they could not go on 
Funny for me I guess because I was just the opposite. I'd get wood as I was undressing in front of her. No big deal I thought.
I always hit the sweet spot, sometimes quicker than I wanted.
Then one MP told me to j/o before visting her to make it last longer.
I did...and enjoyed it.
I always hit the sweet spot, sometimes quicker than I wanted.
Then one MP told me to j/o before visting her to make it last longer.
I did...and enjoyed it.
It happened to me once when I was in Montreal: the girl was new and she did not want to do the finish; I asked to speak to the owner (manager) and she was very apologetic; she gave me a rain-check with another girl at a time that is convenient for me and she assured me that the other girl will take care of me. I returned a few days later and everything went well.BigDaddyOttawa said:
I'm batting 98%. But, once or twice I've had MP who (a) I wasn't attracted to; and (b) didn't turn me on. It just wouldn't stay up. Worse mistake I made was giving one of them more $$ to try a CBJ. They had already lost me. Funniest thing, on the way out, there was this blond with tits looking at herself in a mirror... I had instant wood.
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twice actually
It's happened to me twice where everything was great, we were having a great time but I just didn't pop. not prob gettin wood. Not sure why, maybe too tired, stressed, too much sex (they both happened when I was hobbying a lot). And it was with 2 different ladies.
Amazing thing to me was, in both cases I was asked to return the next day for a free session. Both times I did and both times it was an awesome time. And both times I left a nice tip for understanding and going above and beyond to see me happy. One of them would not accept the meny and stuffed it back in my pocket. I discreetly left it so she'd find it later and got yelled at next visit and had it returned. Same girl who will not let me tip her to this day, just last week tried to slip her an extra 20 and she shoved it in my pocket .... feel I have to try to sneak in a tip every now and then just to see if I can get away with it. Been about 2 years since she took a tip from me .... sorry, got a bit off track here ....
It wasn't their fault I didn't pop but they both made it up to me in spades. Of course I wasn't a newbie with either of them ........... this may explain to some who wonder how I can be loyal to my favs and not trying new places like I used to..... they're loyal to me too. I mean, I didn't cum due to no fault of theirs yet they felt compelled to make it up to me and cost themselves money to do it.
That said, there was once or twice with other girls at other MPs were they didn't get me off because they gave lousy service or didn't turn me on. I honestly don't remember specifics but I'm sure it's happened. I simply didn't return for these ............ if I'm right and that has happened to me I'm sure I did reviews here .........
It's happened to me twice where everything was great, we were having a great time but I just didn't pop. not prob gettin wood. Not sure why, maybe too tired, stressed, too much sex (they both happened when I was hobbying a lot). And it was with 2 different ladies.
Amazing thing to me was, in both cases I was asked to return the next day for a free session. Both times I did and both times it was an awesome time. And both times I left a nice tip for understanding and going above and beyond to see me happy. One of them would not accept the meny and stuffed it back in my pocket. I discreetly left it so she'd find it later and got yelled at next visit and had it returned. Same girl who will not let me tip her to this day, just last week tried to slip her an extra 20 and she shoved it in my pocket .... feel I have to try to sneak in a tip every now and then just to see if I can get away with it. Been about 2 years since she took a tip from me .... sorry, got a bit off track here ....
It wasn't their fault I didn't pop but they both made it up to me in spades. Of course I wasn't a newbie with either of them ........... this may explain to some who wonder how I can be loyal to my favs and not trying new places like I used to..... they're loyal to me too. I mean, I didn't cum due to no fault of theirs yet they felt compelled to make it up to me and cost themselves money to do it.
That said, there was once or twice with other girls at other MPs were they didn't get me off because they gave lousy service or didn't turn me on. I honestly don't remember specifics but I'm sure it's happened. I simply didn't return for these ............ if I'm right and that has happened to me I'm sure I did reviews here .........
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Getting it up for me isn't a problem. Getting it down is.
A half dozen times or more I've left with a raging hard on. Each time I paid in full. It wasn't the attendants fault that she didn't know how I liked it (nor am I fully able to explain how I like it). The ones that do the full time and try their best even get a tip... the ones that complain and keep informing me of the time just piss me off. One even gave me a countdown. "You have 20 seconds left, 19, 18, 17....".
A half dozen times or more I've left with a raging hard on. Each time I paid in full. It wasn't the attendants fault that she didn't know how I liked it (nor am I fully able to explain how I like it). The ones that do the full time and try their best even get a tip... the ones that complain and keep informing me of the time just piss me off. One even gave me a countdown. "You have 20 seconds left, 19, 18, 17....".
It happens with me now and then, a bit less than it used to but I'm not sure why. I doesn't happen with anyone I see regularly though (which is probably why they're my regulars). Usually I just ask her to keep massaging and I take matters into my own hands.
It's not ideal but it doesn't bother me much and I still leave the usual tip (assuming the girl has made an effort).
It's not ideal but it doesn't bother me much and I still leave the usual tip (assuming the girl has made an effort).
BigDaddyOttawa said:
It happened to me once here in TO...
Nothing to do with her though. It was me... I fell asleep. <LOL>
An Asian place where the massage they give is always very nice and relaxing. She was massaging my neck, arms, back etc. In retrospect I was kind of tired that day, only slept 4 or 5 hours the night before. The massage was so relaxing I fell asleep. Next thing you know I hear her say "Ok, you turn over now" So I turn over lie on my back and she leaves the room. I'm thinking, wtf? I'm still lying there 3 or 4 mins later she comes back in. She looks at me strange and says "You pay another 1/2hr?" I said "no I pay already" She says "Your time over now" <LOL> So I just got up, got dressed and went on my way.
Nothing to do with her though. It was me... I fell asleep. <LOL>
An Asian place where the massage they give is always very nice and relaxing. She was massaging my neck, arms, back etc. In retrospect I was kind of tired that day, only slept 4 or 5 hours the night before. The massage was so relaxing I fell asleep. Next thing you know I hear her say "Ok, you turn over now" So I turn over lie on my back and she leaves the room. I'm thinking, wtf? I'm still lying there 3 or 4 mins later she comes back in. She looks at me strange and says "You pay another 1/2hr?" I said "no I pay already" She says "Your time over now" <LOL> So I just got up, got dressed and went on my way.
