Newbie

you do need to be more specific as itd131 mentions but also you are posting in the wrong forum. you should post questions like this in the 411 section
 
Just have fun, don't over commit or lie... Sometimes Toftt is great sometimes not...

Organizations do usually offer more reliable experiences
 
I would suggest the best place to start is CMJ; great website and amazing ladies. For a newbie, can't go wrong.
 
any sp/ma you would recommend

What type are you into?
What are you looking for?
Ebony, Caucasian, Asian?
Any particular service that may be a deal breaker, if not included?
Are you into mature ladies? BBW? Slim? Blondes, brunette etc.