Multiple phone calls is wasting a man's time. They can easily meet men in public places like food courts, dundas Square etc to vet potential dates. Phones should be only used to set dates.
New norm for dating?
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Met a decent looking lady a few days ago who stopped me to ask about some parking issues at a new development. We had a nice conversation for about 5 minutes. I mentioned that I lived a couple of minutes from there and sympathize with the traffic issues, etc. There's a place across the street, so I proposed a coffee to make up for the inconvenience, and instead she insisted we exchange numbers to "text". I forgot all about it and the next afternoon I got an angry text why didn't I contact her(red flag), so I offered a nice dinner with an apology. I got "how dare you?!" in return. I explained, again, that I'm offering to make it up to her over some wine. I got back that she's uncomfortable moving so quickly and she'd prefer texting and maybe even some phone interactions to "get acquainted better" , etc, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit- in a long paragraph. I sent back: my invitation stands, call me when you're ready. We're having dinner this Saturday. Got to put your foot down, guys. Men are still men and women are still women despite all this tech mumbo-jumbo.
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Nice Sigma maneuver, or she realized she might loose a free meal ticket. Can of whoops ass I say.
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Dating would be crazy tough in these times, thank goodness for our lifestyle - love the SP's and love the flexibility that it allows me. I came to conclusion a long time ago that I love my alone time and love me single. I have a good core of friends and my only love - our hobby. 
Another new norm I've noticed with East Asian women on these dating apps, specifically those that immigrated here as adults, is the pervasive use of face-tuning apps. You see examples of this on a lot of profile photos from the Asian SP agencies. I had no idea until I was showing a profile to a Korean female friend and she pointed it out right away. And then showed me how these face-tuning apps can even work in realtime over video! Have only been catfished once by these, but I was really impressed with how radically they can change someones face, while simultaneously being disappointed with the situation I was in lol.
My friend said it is just part of East Asian culture to use these face-tuning apps, and it isn't limited to just women - men use it too apparently.
My friend said it is just part of East Asian culture to use these face-tuning apps, and it isn't limited to just women - men use it too apparently.
I love my 2 hour dates with the ones that were recommended by fellow members. No stress, no baggage and no time table.Dating would be crazy tough in these times, thank goodness for our lifestyle - love the SP's and love the flexibility that it allows me. I came to conclusion a long time ago that I love my alone time and love me single. I have a good core of friends and my only love - our hobby.
You never turn back. I speak for myself, dont miss it and never regretted my decision.
Good luck. Hope you are not wasting your time and money. With her attitude I would have told her to FO.
