Never been to a spa

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Hey, so I’ve been hobbling for about 9 years now. Have had some of the best experiences of my life in this hobby and some not so pleasant ones. I have been in this game since backpage and then onto leolist, then heard about Terb about 4 years ago where I met some of the best women of my life. To be honest, I’m not as social as I would like to be, but some of the providers I’ve met made me feel extra comfortable when I see them. I realized, all I’ve seen are independent providers with incalls. I have never been to a spa before. There are certain ladies that I would love to see at the spa. I haven’t taken the leap into it yet, but what can I expect at the spa that’s different than an in call, and how does the process work? The whole reason I’ve never really been to a spa is because with an Incall, I deal with the one person on the phone that I go and meet and spend some intimate time with them and nobody else knows, whereas with spas, I always had the fear that once I go in, there are multiple people that I interact with and feel somewhat judged by receptionist and other people. I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or not, just was hoping someone can share their insight on spa’s and how they work and can I expect the same services as an Incall.
 

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Hey, so I’ve been hobbling for about 9 years now. Have had some of the best experiences of my life in this hobby and some not so pleasant ones. I have been in this game since backpage and then onto leolist, then heard about Terb about 4 years ago where I met some of the best women of my life. To be honest, I’m not as social as I would like to be, but some of the providers I’ve met made me feel extra comfortable when I see them. I realized, all I’ve seen are independent providers with incalls. I have never been to a spa before. There are certain ladies that I would love to see at the spa. I haven’t taken the leap into it yet, but what can I expect at the spa that’s different than an in call, and how does the process work? The whole reason I’ve never really been to a spa is because with an Incall, I deal with the one person on the phone that I go and meet and spend some intimate time with them and nobody else knows, whereas with spas, I always had the fear that once I go in, there are multiple people that I interact with and feel somewhat judged by receptionist and other people. I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or not, just was hoping someone can share their insight on spa’s and how they work and can I expect the same services as an Incall.

I would say in general its totally different experience and no you will not get services you are used to. Strip clubs,spas sex clubs and in calls all have overlaps, but they are distinctly different experiences.
Added to that Spas have a much wider difference between them. Once there was one had all the staff dressed as classic nurses and had a medical feel like your getting a health treatment. Others have hot tubs. Some do the line up of girls where you can pick them from a group, others have the girls come one by one. Others have no such meet at all. There is a wide variation.
If you have low expecations your be happy or if you treat it as a totally different thing. I certainly know of people who avoid spas and some who only do spas after trying everything.
 

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I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or not, just was hoping
someone can share their insight on spa’s and how they work
and can I expect the same services as an Incall.
In a typical massage parlour you will receive your service
on a table which is smaller than a single bed. If you receive
the same service as an incall (highly unlikely) it will be a
very different experience. You can't roll over the massage
table like you did with an incall escort for instance.
 

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I don't like spas because you have to pay for a massage and then negotiate and barter for upgrades. I'd rather just pay for sex and get down to it, with no upselling. ANd who wants to do it on a massage table?????????
 

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I concur, totally different experience. First of all though, nobody is judging you. The receptionist works there. She doesn’t care/judge. In smaller spas it is usually the attendant that meets you in the lobby. Service varies very much between spas. What are your priorities? If you’re good with just a happy ending it’s a little easier. So spas are better if you are interested in young super hot girls. Lots of Asian spas if that’s your thing. It is surprisingly hard to find a good deep tissue massage. I have had girls that started with light touching and teasing right from the beginning of massage, edging me for 45 minutes before finishing me. Part of the experience is not really knowing what you are going to get. Price for mileage varies widely as well. Expect $120 and nothing more than a handy. This will vary, but a good starting idea. If you’re not super budget restricted, give a couple of places a try. It may or may not be your cup of tea, but at least try.
Hope this helps.
Cheers
 
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