Neuro-linguistic programming

[Dash]

Neuro-linguistic programming -

or

NLP.

I heard it can be quite effective when chilling with the ladies.

Has anyone explored it, tried to understand it?

How effective is it?

What I'm hoping for. Is a crash course from some of the terbites that have tried to master it. Maybe a few tips. Something to get me started on it.


Is it really as good as its hyped up to be?

I used to be so good at psychology, but that went all out the window when I learned too much about it

 

[Sexy Violet]

NLP has been around for a long time, but only became popular more recently, or rather, more public with the rise of the 'seduction community.' With many different 'methods' of how to pick up girls out there now, Mystery Method, Juggler, Speed Seduction, etc., NLP has also made it's mark in effective communication with the opposite sex.

Richard Bandler is one of the original developers of NLP and any of his books or courses are highly recommended. I would also suggest 'NLP The New Technology of Achievement' (The NLP Comprehensive Training Team, Edited by Steve Andreas and Charles Faulkner)

NLP can be effective in helping other people feel comfortable with you and disarmed by you (which is a really good thing) but MOST importantly, it helps you to re frame the way you see the world, and the way you think. If you are truly confident with yourself, and are seeing the world and thinking the 'right way' then you can achieve anything. NLP is perfect for this.

Now, look up Bandler's work, and get started. This is something that you will notice affects your life positively overall, not just with women.

Good luck!
~Violet~

 

[Dash]

NLP has been around for a long time, but only became popular more recently, or rather, more public with the rise of the 'seduction community.' With many different 'methods' of how to pick up girls out there now, Mystery Method, Juggler, Speed Seduction, etc., NLP has also made it's mark in effective communication with the opposite sex.

Richard Bandler is one of the original developers of NLP and any of his books or courses are highly recommended. I would also suggest 'NLP The New Technology of Achievement' (The NLP Comprehensive Training Team, Edited by Steve Andreas and Charles Faulkner)

NLP can be effective in helping other people feel comfortable with you and disarmed by you (which is a really good thing) but MOST importantly, it helps you to re frame the way you see the world, and the way you think. If you are truly confident with yourself, and are seeing the world and thinking the 'right way' then you can achieve anything. NLP is perfect for this.

Now, look up Bandler's work, and get started. This is something that you will notice affects your life positively overall, not just with women.

Good luck!
~Violet~

Thanks, love.
I couldn't have gotten a more valuable reply. Your considerable contribution to my growth is eternally appreciated.

 

[Dash]

Wait. Violet.

how come you're so skilled in NLP?

 

[boffo]

Men are already programmed by "the good lord" through millions of years of evolution.

It is that incessant, insatiable inner voice that says: "Get laid, get laid, get laid, get laid..."

That's the only coherent programming we men know and understand.

 

[Fred Zed]

Neuro-linguistic programming -

or

NLP.

I heard it can be quite effective when chilling with the ladies.

Has anyone explored it, tried to understand it?

How effective is it?

I think what counts when chilling with the ladies is:
1- a fat wallet
2- you smell nice



On a more serious note Dash, I think any one of the numerous self-growth methods
will work to some extent, but it all depends how much work you are prepared to put into it.

 

[Fred Zed]

That and timely answering pms

yes but, you are not a lady..or are you ?

 

[daKoolGuy]

Thanks. This is something new I learnt today.
Wikipedia has a load of information and references on this topic.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

 

[red]

I think what counts when chilling with the ladies is:
1- a fat wallet
2- you smell nice



On a more serious note Dash, I think any one of the numerous self-growth methods
will work to some extent, but it all depends how much work you are prepared to put into it.

i think if you have nice smelling fat wallet, you will be ok too

 

[xarir]

Fred smells nice?!

 

[Sexy Violet]

seduction

Seduction Methods don't work on me because they are mostly targeted at girls with low self esteem, and usually involve a gentle insult, or a 'neg' to knock the girl down so that when you pay her a compliment she is hungry for the positive attention. If you try this approach on a confident girl who is comfortable with herself, then she will just look at you funny like you have mayonnaise on your chin. I've had guys approach me and try to be cocky like that, but I just don't respond to it.


Now don't get me wrong, these seduction schools teach you things that will work, but it all depends on the kind of girls that you are seeking to spend time with. Personally, I'm much happier to talk to a guy who simply uses the 'hi, my name is ...... " as opposed to fakeness of 'seduction.'

Also keep this in mind... lots of girls will tell you to 'just be yourself,' but what they really mean is 'don't be someone that you're not.' If you are unhappy with yourself, don't pretend to be that cocky, funny alpha personality that you *think* the girls want, because you will come across as fake and not confident. Simply take the steps to improve yourself. Being impressive doesn't get you very far, but being INTERESTING, does.

And lastly, just have fun! If you die happy, you win! There's nothing more to it than that!

xoxo Violet

and studied the "seduction experts". Sexi Violet, which seduction method do you think would work more on girls, or at least, on you, or it's all crap?

 

[Sexy Violet]

Wait. Violet.

how come you're so skilled in NLP?

Well, I wouldn't say I'm skilled in NLP, although I'm working on it I spend a lot of my time helping guys to become more comfortable with themselves and in turn become more successful with women and in life. I have gone through a great transformation in the last couple of years from an insecure, self-conscious little girl (who knew?!) to the confident, settled and immensely happy girl that I am now. I couldn't be happier and all I want to do is help others to get to this place too, so whenever I can, I share my insights and help guys. It makes them feel good about themselves and it makes me feel good about myself, so it's a win-win situation.

So while I wouldn't consider myself skilled in NLP, I do spend a lot of time learning new things and expanding my horizons, in many areas, but especially in men-women relations. Sex is wonderful and more people should be enjoying it!

xoxo Violet

 

[islandman4567]

Men are already programmed by "the good lord" through millions of years of evolution.

It is that incessant, insatiable inner voice that says: "Get laid, get laid, get laid, get laid..."

That's the only coherent programming we men know and understand.

and that's how it usually comes out. get laid ,get laid, get laid and not usually coherently.

more like "where da pussy ?" like the kibbles and bits commercial.