Nervous SP = Awkward Session

[drlove]

I'm wondering if anyone has ever experienced something like this: I once called a very well respected agency in the GTA. The girl I chose was someone I hadn't seen before, and I can only assume that she was brand new to the business. She was extremely nervous, and I got the impression that if she could have, she would have spent the entire hour at arm's length making small talk.

Again, I don't know what the specifics of her situation were, but I felt like I was twisting her arm to get her to do the deed with me. Maybe escorting was not for her, but I didn't spend $250.00 to have someone chat away about nothing, trying to waste the time we had together. Still, it was awkward in the sense that I got the feeling she didn't want to be there. Anyone else been in a situation like this??

 

[S.C. Joe]

Lucky no but I am sure it happens.

Its not for everybody, thats for sure.

If it was an escort company, call them back and explain what happen, if its was a Indy, oh well.

 

[Machine]

The first week would almost universally have to be a little unsettling.

I think that that behaviour is fairly common for a new escort, especially one who really, really doesn't want to be with strange men. Some nervously fill the time with small talk while others will try to satisfy without intercourse (but with a hand job, for example.) It can be unsatisfying for the client. I don't know if that's why some agencies extend a lower initial rate.

Most new escorts I've been with, despite being nervous or uncertain, were pleasant to be with.

 

[Dodger]

Doc I have experienced that a few times and yes it is a little bothersome. In most of the cases I was aware that the lady was new or relatively new to the industry. Actually I have had the good fortune to be two ladies first customer.

It is all in how one goes about the process I guess. Because I knew of their inexperience, I took things slow and spent a fair amount of time chatting with them to show them that I was cool. It helped that I had booked two hour sessions with the ladies as I had time to spare.

In one of the cases the lady never really got comfortable and we just basically ended up doing it and getting her on her way. She later became a better date from what I got from other reviews.

Two of the ladies that I was the first customer, they both relaxed after about a half hour and we had some serious make out sessions with both ladies prior to getting totally down to teh deed at hand. I had repeat sessions with both of these ladies and it got better each time I saw them. They both commented on how happy they were that I was their first date in the industry and how it made it easier for them to be relaxed on future dates.

Of the three ladies mentioned here, two were young about 19 or 20 and one was mid to later 20's. One of the young ones worked out well the other didn't.

 

[tboy]

I had this too with Robin from Hollywood and she basically complained for the first 20 minutes about how homesick she was and how she hated toronto.

I (mistakenly) persevered and tried to get things moving but yeah, she was worse in bed so I told her to pack up and go.

This wasn't her first time either, she'd been around a while by then.

After complaining to hollywood about it they basically said I should have sent her away immediately so this is my reccommendation to anyone experiencing this: if you're not comfortable, or she's not comfortable, you're the customer and end the session right then and there and demand your money back less a $30.00 cancellation fee (which really isn't warranted but it is a nice gesture).

 

[lebeau]

I don't know

I don't know. I once spent 90 minutes chatting and enjoying some vino with a lovely lady who is well respected and well reviewed on this board. When she had to leave, I happily passed over my envelope. I've repeated several times since with different results and, in retrospect, I wouldn't have it any other way. I think that first session has immeasurably enhanced the ones that have followed.

 

[tboy]

I don't know. I once spent 90 minutes chatting and enjoying some vino with a lovely lady who is well respected and well reviewed on this board. When she had to leave, I happily passed over my envelope. I've repeated several times since with different results and, in retrospect, I wouldn't have it any other way. I think that first session has immeasurably enhanced the ones that have followed.

That's totally different than an SP purposely wasting your time, or making the whole encounter uncomfortable.

BTW: since we pay for their time only that is what is expected of a date anyways

 

[MuffinMuncher]

After complaining to hollywood about it they basically said I should have sent her away immediately so this is my reccommendation to anyone experiencing this: if you're not comfortable, or she's not comfortable, you're the customer and end the session right then and there and demand your money back less a $30.00 cancellation fee (which really isn't warranted but it is a nice gesture).

I had the same experience with the God-awful Shaun from HWE, and after complaining to the owners, I got offered $20 off a future session. WTF?

Its instances like this that separate the good agencies from the bad.

 

[drlove]

I had the same experience with the God-awful Shaun from HWE, and after complaining to the owners, I got offered $20 off a future session. WTF?

Its instances like this that separate the good agencies from the bad.

Thankfully, my encounter wasn't like that. However, I sensed that the SP I saw was very uncomfortable - so much so that I actually asked her beforehand if she was ok with this. She said she was, but I had to initiate the action and she turned out to be a "dead lay". Needless to say, I didn't repeat.

 

[tboy]

I had the same experience with the God-awful Shaun from HWE, and after complaining to the owners, I got offered $20 off a future session. WTF?

Its instances like this that separate the good agencies from the bad.

OOPS maybe it WAS shaun that I had the shitty encounter with.....though they didn't offer me anything when I complained (basically told me to get stuffed)

 

[james t kirk]

I think it's up to the client to take the lead in time management.

A little small talk is always a nice way to start rather than come across as an oagre and just rip her clothes off in the bedroom. If anything, this will get you better service.

If you are polite, through in a little humour (if you can), and then lead into the bedroom, you should obtain a maximum return on your investment.

I can imagine that some women are just not comfortable in their chosen vocation and will attempt to stall or divert. That could be a real draw back and is no doubt a potential pit fall to to be avoided, but when you are dealing with people and people react emotionally, especially young females, you can't always be assured of the outcome.

I have only been seeing one SP from time to time who is well known on this board. She LOVES to talk and I love talking to her. She's extremely intelligent, and the conversation just flows between us. (I really like her quite a bit truth be told.)

The first time we met, she spent allot of time talking, I really enjoyed the conversation, but I was looking for the intimacy as well. I solved the problem by asking her for 1.5 hours from then on. Yes, it costs more, but I value the overall experience with her, including the flirting and conversation at the start. I certainly don't feel cheated in anyway. Having her come over for just an hour and just leading her up to the bedroom to start with the old in and out would just not be the same.