Need some advice please

[incognito]

Hey folks, need a bit of your valuable input here. I kinda double booked myself for this friday, first is after work me and a buddy are going to watch the Jay game at the skydome. OR i can go out with drinks with a beautiful young woman. Now i know what you're thinking: THE GIRL...THE GIRL... But here's the thing, we are just friends cause i've known her since she was a kid (yes, i'm much older than her) and she is like a dear sister to me, i mean i can talk to her about almost anything. AND i have absoloutley no chance with her cause she's WAYYYYY out of my league. Did i mention that she's gorgeous!!!

I think i know what the answer is but i'm sure you'll let me know.
No, i am NOT making a poll.

 

[DistantVoyeur]

You go to the game, send me the girl.

Maybe see if you can rebook the girl, or see if you can meet up with her after the game? Double header?

 

[hunter001]

Dump the buddy, take the girl to the game, and drinks after.

 

[kbluejayk]

You will make a BIG impression if you stick to your girl and let buddy take someone else. There will be other chances to see a ball game, but if you stand her up on this occasion, she may move on to someone else and your opportunity will be an unpleasant memory for a long time!
Remember first impressions are very critical...what does it tell her about you if you dump her for a stupid ballgame?

 

[tboy]

Well, he said the "girl" isn't HIS girl.....

BTW: an important lesson? women come and go but you (should) keep your buddies for life......but if you bail on em for a chick that you have no hope or interest in banging, find yourself another buddy.

 

[anon1]

If he was really a buddy, he would understand if you chose to go out with the girl.

 

[tboy]

If he was really a buddy, he would understand if you chose to go out with the girl.

Yeah, but he would always remember you bailing on him for a woman (who admittedly is not even close to being a love interest).

Now if this was a once in a lifetime event where you had a chance to date your favourite porn star who was only in town for a night and so WANTED to go out with you, that's a different story.

Dude, IMO you'll fuck your friendship if you bail on your buddy. As I said: women come and go but you should keep your buddies for life.

 

[elmufdvr]

the jay's are done... go with your buddy and have some drinks with the gril.. it is that simple... sell the tickets or give them to a dad to take his kid...

 

[themexi]

If he was really a buddy, he would understand if you chose to go out with the girl.

espescially if you're up-front & honest with him

so

THE GIRL man! go for the girl

 

[Mongrel4u]

man you guys are all pussy blinded.

First I would say...try to juggle both; go to the game and meet her for drinks afterwards.

otherwise...go with your buddy....bros before hos...especially if this girl only sees you as a friend with absolutely no chance

 

[secret_touch]

Well, he said the "girl" isn't HIS girl.....

BTW: an important lesson? women come and go but you (should) keep your buddies for life......but if you bail on em for a chick that you have no hope or interest in banging, find yourself another buddy.

I whole-heartedly agree!!

You would be disrespecting your buddy and leaving him high n dry.......put the shoe on the other foot!

 

[hunter001]

I don't need a buddy that is so insecure that he can't understand, I would rather spend time with a hottie, then watch the Bluejays in all likelihood lose a game.

 

[secret_touch]

I don't need a buddy that is so insecure that he can't understand .

It is not a matter of insecurity. He made commitment to his buddy first that includes already purchased tickets. If you and buddy had awesome concert tickets and he bailed on you for a pretty girl....how would you feel?

 

[Meister]

I could never understand how people can watch 3 hours of Baseball unless there is food, drinks, cheerleaders..., but that's besides the point.

Since you have no chance with her take her to the Brant House tonight. The place is crawling with good looking women on a Thursday. Being with a pretty young girl you'll appear like some cool dude and may get lucky with some other chick.

 

[hunter001]

It is not a matter of insecurity. He made commitment to his buddy first that includes already purchased tickets. If you and buddy had awesome concert tickets and he bailed on you for a pretty girl....how would you feel?

It is a freaking baseball game...not a concert..

I am secure enough in myself to attend a concert by myself or offer the other ticket to my buddy to take the girl.

 

[hunter001]

AI know he's getting laid again! Once the "newness" starts to wear off, he'll be back....my fridge is always full of beer!

Maybe that is why he is divorced.

 

[tboy]

It is a freaking baseball game...not a concert..

I am secure enough in myself to attend a concert by myself or offer the other ticket to my buddy to take the girl.

As usual, here's the point ---->>> .




and here's hunter ------------------------------------------->>>> .

It has nothing to do with security or the ability to do things on your own, it has EVERYTHING to do with screwing over aka bailing on a FRIEND for a woman.....

IMO it doesn't matter if it's a B O R I N G baseball game, a concert, or shootin' hoops. He made plans with a buddy, he should stick to his original plans. The same goes with seeing this chick, it isn't like it's a once in a lifetime oppurtunity that will never come up again.

Speaking from experience: I had plans with a buddy to go to our local watering hole to see the Final game of Team Canada's hockey game a few years ago. The one where they were either going to win gold, or go home with nothing. We'd planned it all week and it worked out well because his S.O. was going away for a girl's weekend in Montreal.

So, he's walking over here and she calls telling him she's coming home early. What does he do? Goes running off to see her.....BTW: they'd been dating for 3 years and see each other on average of 5 times a week.

Sorry, bailing on a friend for a chick is SO uncool.

 

[tboy]

But wait!

What if the buddy/friend were also a gorgeous girl? Which would you choose?

Well, that's easy: the one that you have a chance of sleeping with!!

 

[hunter001]

But wait!

What if the buddy/friend were also a gorgeous girl? Which would you choose?

Buy another ticket? Bluejays tickets are pretty easy to come by.

 

[a 1 player]

Buy another ticket? Bluejays tickets are pretty easy to come by.

I agree, that would be the best idea.