Need some advice from the board RE: after Squirting....

[Kya_Jean]

I know that men have posted this question before, and having been in this business, I should have the answer to this, but I don't. I have already tried some of the norms and I am afraid it is not helping and my situation seems ot be getting a little worse.

So the stroy:

Mr. D came over last night and we went for our usual couple of hours of bedroom play. Everything was as it usually is except that for the last month or so, we have discovered that I am a squirter and so we have really enjoyed playing around with that new found aspect of our sex live. As we continue to do this we are noticing that I am squirting more often, more fluid, just more everything. Last night was another "more" as he stopped touching me completely and I squirted 3 more times. The orgams would just not stop. None of this is a problem.

It is now the morning after and I am completely swollen shut. When I first woke up, I laughed a bit about it and hoped into a nice luke warm bath hoping to help it come down a bit. I am not wearing any underwear and simple light loose cotton pants. However it is even more swollen now then before and it hurts to walk, sit, anything.

Now I am not raw, or in any type of dried out pain. It not like if you have a had some hard sex and you thought there was enough lube at the time, but you have that friction burn now. It is nothing like that. I feel like I have a huge black eye but on my yoohoo.

Other then giving it time, because I doubt that my little kya is broken, is there anything that anyone can suggest. Having great sex should not have this morning after problems.

 

[jimmydean007]

that sounds serious.....i better come over and have a look at that for you.

 

[Brill]

It's such a turn-on to make a woman cum like that.

Every woman is so different in this respect, I'd have to come over and have a look and do a bit of probing before offering advice.

 

[Ironhead]

Did you use a condom ?
Maybe you are allergic to the chemicals on the condom or the latex itself.

 

[Ashley Dupree]

I have same problem a few week ago. when you squirt are you using finger or toy to do this? I find my clit get very sore like you mention about the black eye after playing with toy and squirting and I cannot touch it.

I masturbate a lot and this happen from time to time. it could also be from the orgasm that you have with the squriting. give it 3-4 day and it will subside. until then dont try to squirt anymore or do activity that promote this.

 

[rafterman]

Rest a plastic bag of frozen peas across the afflicted area.

 

[Mia.Colpa]

I masturbate a lot and this happen from time to time.

That's it! You have to stop masturbating and get the real thing regularly to prevent that black eye feeling. When can I come over???

Kya, never heard of that one, I used to see a lady regularly years ago that constantly squirted, 10 to 15 times each session, sheesh it drained me everytime, and she never complained about any pain the next day.

 

[Kya_Jean]

Okay to answer some of the questions:

No toys, simply fingers or full penetration.

No condoms, we are a couple - so we have gone through all the proper precautions before hand.

It is not my clit that is swollen either as it was all g-spot. So I feel like my g-spot area is so swollen is like popping out of my yoohoo opening and shutting off everything else. My lips are pretty puffy to and my clit is actually lost in the puffiness.

I can't be any more delicate about it and I am trying. I can only say if you have ever had a really good black eye where it was all black and blue and so swollen that you just can't open your eye - that is my pussy right now, minus the black and blue colors.

 

[Ashley Dupree]

Okay to answer some of the questions:

No toys, simply fingers or full penetration.

No condoms, we are a couple - so we have gone through all the proper precautions before hand.

It is not my clit that is swollen either as it was all g-spot. So I feel like my g-spot area is so swollen is like popping out of my yoohoo opening and shutting off everything else. My lips are pretty puffy to and my clit is actually lost in the puffiness.

I can't be any more delicate about it and I am trying. I can only say if you have ever had a really good black eye where it was all black and blue and so swollen that you just can't open your eye - that is my pussy right now, minus the black and blue colors.

it was probably the finger action or lot of nice action for that matter.lol. ive had that too but not to extent that you talk about.

 

[doggee_01]

i can't believe no one has offered to kiss it better yet lol

 

[phail]

Do you think it's related to the squirting rather than the type of sex you were having?
Dont know but it doesn't sound squirting related.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

oh sweets, i'm sorry to hear you are in pain.
i would suggest calling up the people at hassle free and making an appointment

but in the meantime, there is a clinic in San Fran that can give advice over the phone. there number is 1 (415) 989-SFSI (7374)

and their website : http://sfsi.org/wiki/Main_Page


hope that helps.

 

[Kya_Jean]

ahahooper - The sex was no different. Mr.D and I always have marathon sessions. I have never been sore or swollen except for the last time which was a week and half ago. This was another squirting session as well, and again our usual couple of hours. He is a gentleman and stops for breaks when he sees I am getting overly excited. I was only a bit swollen for the day that time, but this is getting worse as the day goes on. It is not hard core pounding here either. He has actually been a little gentler and slower the last couple of times. So I am lost as to the answer.

MMB - I think you are right. I am going to have to go my doctor. Since my doctor knows all about my sex life, private and previous professional, he will be okay to talk to about this.

 

[WhaWhaWha]

Did you really say Yoohoo?
It's very easy to call it by it's proper name.
Click Here -- >> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y18xFKnE8J4

 

[Danolo]

Sounds like it might be an allergic reaction of some sort...

If Mr. D had something on his fingers... hand creme, etc, or lube... swelling without bruising is often allergic.

I just hope you don't become allergic to having sex!

And... I'm sorry to mention it, but I'd REALLY like to see some pics..
Sorry, but I AM a pervert...

No, I'm NOT sorry!

 

[Never Compromised]

Have you considered calling your ob/gyn and getting in to see him/her right away?

I've known several women that squired, including one that we had to put towels (plural) down because she sprayed so much fluid, and I've never heard of your problem being described because of the squirting.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Never heard of this and Mrs. CG has not ever had this happen...

I'd say this is some good advice though:

Have you considered calling your ob/gyn and getting in to see him/her right away?

Good Luck Kya!

 

[wet_suit_one]

Did you really say Yoohoo?
It's very easy to call it by it's proper name.
Click Here -- >> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y18xFKnE8J4

Holy fuck. That's funny! I feel off my chair twice!

 

[Carrie Moon]

is there any discharge or odour? or simply swelling. It's often hard to know anything is going on inside your vaginal area due to lack of tactile sensation. The vaginal canal is built to be sensitive to pressure whereas the vulvar area is sensitive to touch.. thank goodness.

I think of the elusive gspot as emitting fluid in a similar way to the salivary glands. If you've every noticed when opening your mouth to something tasty.. sometimes the salivary glands squirt. (for me it's salted licorice which is a dutch treat).

Not being a squirter often myself.. I have limited personal experience but medically speaking.. I would imagine the glands which emit the fluid got inflamed somehow.. are heading for infection and need to be looked at by a gyny..

If you are not successful/satisfied with the regular medical route.. pm me and I'll work on a homeopathic remedy for you.

 

[BillyBobBobbybob]

what did you use to clean yourself right after you squirted, im guessing a reaction to a chemical in the product, and the bacteria from your squirting, inflamed small tares after the orgasm session.