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Naughty Bedside Manners
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Terrie
I have addressed this to you in the past, years ago now, and the girls kept on with their practices. I addressed it again and you basically told me that the girl has the right to do that. As for phoning in when this occurs....well that's just taking away from the whole experience. Business practice starts with the boss and filters down.
I have addressed this to you in the past, years ago now, and the girls kept on with their practices. I addressed it again and you basically told me that the girl has the right to do that. As for phoning in when this occurs....well that's just taking away from the whole experience. Business practice starts with the boss and filters down.
From Terrie @C&E
dirkd101
I provide a time base service so the fees that are set on the website or quoted over the phone is for the companionship of a duration time with the lady of your choosing. If you call me to complain I make a judgement call but on my end of things it is base on time. I agree that by your choice if you want to tip or give more $ to a lady and you offer as in you offer her I agree that is between you and the lady but if she demands more money for her time I don't agree with that as this is a time base agency and you are already paying C&E for her time and in return we are paying the lady. Only do I come in the picture if you decide to extend than you need to contact C&E to extend and pay another fee for more time. If a lady requires more money and you make an agreement with her and you don't address me with it during your engagement than that arrangement $$ is between you and the lady and you fully agree to pay her in which case I am not at fault as you never question only agreed and paid.
You need to realize my relationship with you is phone base only and if you don't properly and verbally communicate your issues during or right after an appointment I can't justify the mistake that was made. If you give a lady more money than you are agreeing to the situation with that lady and it is out of my hands your not giving me the $$ and you are an adult that can choose to or not to - sorry
dirkd101
I provide a time base service so the fees that are set on the website or quoted over the phone is for the companionship of a duration time with the lady of your choosing. If you call me to complain I make a judgement call but on my end of things it is base on time. I agree that by your choice if you want to tip or give more $ to a lady and you offer as in you offer her I agree that is between you and the lady but if she demands more money for her time I don't agree with that as this is a time base agency and you are already paying C&E for her time and in return we are paying the lady. Only do I come in the picture if you decide to extend than you need to contact C&E to extend and pay another fee for more time. If a lady requires more money and you make an agreement with her and you don't address me with it during your engagement than that arrangement $$ is between you and the lady and you fully agree to pay her in which case I am not at fault as you never question only agreed and paid.
You need to realize my relationship with you is phone base only and if you don't properly and verbally communicate your issues during or right after an appointment I can't justify the mistake that was made. If you give a lady more money than you are agreeing to the situation with that lady and it is out of my hands your not giving me the $$ and you are an adult that can choose to or not to - sorry
Terrie, I like you. You seem very professional. But you still need incalls. Can you set up some specific dates perhaps?
Thank-you Terrie for addressing that.
Tipping is up to the gentleman, asking for more money, while still within your alotted time, is unacceptable. Asking for a tip is also poor practice.
Tipping is up to the gentleman, asking for more money, while still within your alotted time, is unacceptable. Asking for a tip is also poor practice.
From @ Terrie C&E
I am sorry if ladies do practice that but if you don't address or if you plainly say no it is a set fee
and you make a stand than you won't feel hustle - I can only act on what I hear if nothing is said than I assume that everything went find. Boards like this is great because over time I can see what I don't hear and question and act on responses good or bad. I prefer to see good or bad reviews so I know what adjustments I personally need to make as the name/business is class and elegance and it is mine - I am co_owner of NBM and I want to see this agency aswell do well and provide an excellent service too
Once again I am sorry that it did happen
I am sorry if ladies do practice that but if you don't address or if you plainly say no it is a set fee
and you make a stand than you won't feel hustle - I can only act on what I hear if nothing is said than I assume that everything went find. Boards like this is great because over time I can see what I don't hear and question and act on responses good or bad. I prefer to see good or bad reviews so I know what adjustments I personally need to make as the name/business is class and elegance and it is mine - I am co_owner of NBM and I want to see this agency aswell do well and provide an excellent service too
Once again I am sorry that it did happen
From Terrie @ C&e
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Man you really want C&E to set up incalls don't you! lol.Participant said:
Terrie, I'm presuming that you already talk to your staff about asking of any tips.
And you're right, the amount of money that is originally agreed upon between the agency and the client, is the set price. Unless, as you have suggested, the client agrees to tip the lady on her own. Or, if he agrees to pay extra for a service that the sp may provide, above her standard service. eg, greek. However, I think it would be better if the client knew about any possible extra cost like that. And that's fine if there is, IMO, as long as the client is aware of that. He can make his own decision whether to partake or not.
If an sp decides to ask for a tip, not based on extra services, then I think that the matter should be dealt with right away. Tactfully ofcourse. Call the agency and let them know. See about resolving the issue then, as opposed to coming out here on the board and mentioning the incident. It's not fair to the ageny if they're blindsided by this and not given a chance to rectify the situation then.
I've only seen one girl from your agency Terrie, and there was no issue of asking for a tip. But, if there were, I wouldn't have any hesitation in calling you up and letting you know.
Wooly and Terrie you have both covered, very well I might add, the situation as it should be handled by hobbyists in future with whatever agency they deal with should the issue come up.
Wooly like you I have only had one experience with Terri and I also did not experience an issue like that.
Now that being said and playing the devils advocate here a little. I think another concern of the client in this type of situation could be that they might get some restricted service without the tip. I am not suggesting that this has happened or that the intent of the tip was simply to add some extra cash for the agreed upon services.
The question that I ask is with the various personal restrictions that the ladies have it is impossible to know for certain what is actually being paid for with the agency fee and then what might the tip get the client in addition to that fee.
Once you have seen a lady once or twice you pretty well know for sure what her limits are, is it possible that when you are not sure that some services may be available for some extra cash?
We have all seen at least one provider that has a sliding scale of services. I will use one that I saw as the example. Paige in Toronto on the RZ has three distinct fees. Regular, GFE and PSE. The regular will get you a nice time with FS and very little else. GFE will get you some DFK basically added with the DATY and CBJ also available on the regular fee, but I can tell you she doesn't seem to really participate in either DATY or the CBJ, she is not into it. The PSE I am not sure what all is included but would bet that she becomes much more involved.
The other issue would be when the tip is asked for. If it before the session then the fear of a restrictive session would be there for the client. If it is after the session then at least they know what they got and if they felt it was worthy of a tip then so be it.
I have tipped providers but it has always been after the session or in many of the cases on a second, third or fourth session with the provider. I have no problem paying extra for a particularly fun lady to be with. The best part I find to that is knowing the money goes directly to her and the agency does not get a further cut of the action. (Sorry Terrie)
Anyway that is my .02 worth on the topic
Wooly like you I have only had one experience with Terri and I also did not experience an issue like that.
Now that being said and playing the devils advocate here a little. I think another concern of the client in this type of situation could be that they might get some restricted service without the tip. I am not suggesting that this has happened or that the intent of the tip was simply to add some extra cash for the agreed upon services.
The question that I ask is with the various personal restrictions that the ladies have it is impossible to know for certain what is actually being paid for with the agency fee and then what might the tip get the client in addition to that fee.
Once you have seen a lady once or twice you pretty well know for sure what her limits are, is it possible that when you are not sure that some services may be available for some extra cash?
We have all seen at least one provider that has a sliding scale of services. I will use one that I saw as the example. Paige in Toronto on the RZ has three distinct fees. Regular, GFE and PSE. The regular will get you a nice time with FS and very little else. GFE will get you some DFK basically added with the DATY and CBJ also available on the regular fee, but I can tell you she doesn't seem to really participate in either DATY or the CBJ, she is not into it. The PSE I am not sure what all is included but would bet that she becomes much more involved.
The other issue would be when the tip is asked for. If it before the session then the fear of a restrictive session would be there for the client. If it is after the session then at least they know what they got and if they felt it was worthy of a tip then so be it.
I have tipped providers but it has always been after the session or in many of the cases on a second, third or fourth session with the provider. I have no problem paying extra for a particularly fun lady to be with. The best part I find to that is knowing the money goes directly to her and the agency does not get a further cut of the action. (Sorry Terrie)
Anyway that is my .02 worth on the topic
from Terrie @ C&E
no worries I want to thank you for your honestly and your options.
When I was younger ( 18 - 22 ) I started as an escort I do agree with you wanting more money to go into the ladies pocket as to an Agency. I know both sides up and downs and good and bad I understand and that is why I can relate.
no worries I want to thank you for your honestly and your options.
When I was younger ( 18 - 22 ) I started as an escort I do agree with you wanting more money to go into the ladies pocket as to an Agency. I know both sides up and downs and good and bad I understand and that is why I can relate.
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Dodger - you're right, the girl may have a sliding scale. That's the term I was trying to figure out. I had the same thing applied to me when I saw a girl in Kelowna. She had a sliding scale as well, starting with kissing. And, I didn't find that out until I was already into the session. I think it's better if the client knows that info BEFORE going into the session.
And you're right about the tip timing. I would be very unsure of the situation if she asked for a tip beforehand. I would have the same fear that she would be more restrictive, and, not only that, but, it really does spoil the mood. At least it would for me. Which would mean, I probably would really enjoy myself as much. And if that's the case, then what's the point? Afterwards would be easier to deal with.
I don't think agencies have a problem with tipping. As long as it is initiated by the client, not the provider. And I think the most of the ones that we would probably deal with, would appreciate knowing about it when it happens, so that it doesn't become a constant with that provider. It's a good way to scare off clients, and I don't think that's what the agencies want happening.
And, I didn't find that out until I was already into the session. I think it's better if the client knows that info BEFORE going into the session.And you're right about the tip timing. I would be very unsure of the situation if she asked for a tip beforehand. I would have the same fear that she would be more restrictive, and, not only that, but, it really does spoil the mood. At least it would for me. Which would mean, I probably would really enjoy myself as much. And if that's the case, then what's the point? Afterwards would be easier to deal with.
I don't think agencies have a problem with tipping. As long as it is initiated by the client, not the provider. And I think the most of the ones that we would probably deal with, would appreciate knowing about it when it happens, so that it doesn't become a constant with that provider. It's a good way to scare off clients, and I don't think that's what the agencies want happening.
wooly110 and Dodger, you guys both hit the nail on the head.
Sage advice from two well respected individuals here.
Well put, well said.
Thank-you
Sage advice from two well respected individuals here.
Well put, well said.
Thank-you
