My updated Sugar dating progresses
- Thread starter superman2006
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I’ve just finished blowing through my credits on sugardaddy.ca
I am not impressed. Suspiciously young and good looking women not responding to messages… very fake vibe altogether. Felt like a trap.
I thought seeking was bad but this is another level
I am not impressed. Suspiciously young and good looking women not responding to messages… very fake vibe altogether. Felt like a trap.
I thought seeking was bad but this is another level
a bunch of girls are on both sites anyway. At least on seeking you pay once and you don't feel like being little by little defrauded for credits. It's death by a thousand cuts lol.
edit - I dunno maybe I should have bought a few hundred bucks worth of credits then they would be cheaper and contacting one woman would only be $3 or so in which case maybe it’d be worth it.
I was just trying to see if this is a scam like Ashley Madison and I think at least partially it may be
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What’s the latest ppm prices or average allowance now? I am out the game for too long
Has anyone else had this experience with the sites that use a credit system? The time you'll get one or two replies/messages from actual women is when you’re getting low on credits and need to buy more? It seems to be the same formula as secret benefits, designed to separate you from as much cash as possible but somehow keep you coming back.
It seems to me that actual success at finding sugar babe that you might want to hang onto for a while is bad for their business model.
I've only used SB in the past and resorted to only doing it annually again at $100 at most. Quite a few seem fake now where they'll reply back but then ghost after the second generic question and if I follow up a few days later there's still no reply. There are real ladies on that platform who I met in the past 4 or so years. I'd say the PPM on average is roughly $300 for a few hours. Last one I spoke with said just over $300 for like 4 hours or so.
I usually get opening offers from of $300, $350, $400-ish. I usually counter with $500 which is competitive with SP rates. They are usually QUITE happy with this & generally don't bother answering your messages. 
Man, one offered a PPM of $200 I quickly corrected her and what the real rates are...she was just great!
Man, one offered a PPM of $200
I quickly corrected her and what the real rates are...she was just great!Why would you counter them? Or offer more? Stick to what she wants and add into it like going out more or buying her gifts more. I've been with some who's PPM was between $100-350 and I don't counter back offering $400 or $500 when I'll factor the stuff I said on top of what they want. Now if down the road the ones who I seen for like $100 or $200 wanted $400 then sure, but I wouldn't counter with $400 right off the bat incase later on it changes to $500 or $600. I don't expose my budget so it gets close to the max I'd fork out. Most I seen weren't worth repeating after a few times but if they were I personally wouldn't have countered with more in the event things ended sooner than later based on my budget.
Why the fuck would I want to buy a SB gifts?
I really like the ones I see of course but that's not my mindset. The only person I buy gifts and flowers for is my wife. I have some boundaries. I've no idea exactly where but they're there. Somewhere.I don't do dinners, I don't do dates, I bring Tim's and muffins or they make me tea and breakfast/lunch sometimes. That's about it.
I pay that because for a few hours that's the equitable market rate. Shit, given 2 hours with a SP is $600 to $800-ish, it's still arguable lower. I'm not here to exploit some poor girl who doesn't know otherwise. It's a small world & I believe in Karma.
The ones I met or talked with were fine hanging out for hours and I just kept my mouth shut to offer more lol. Especially in the beginning I'd say and some were just dull, didn't connect or chemistry lacked so I ended things. Most also lean towards changing things from PPM to an allowance if it's on going but I haven't gotten that far yet. Generally after 3 or 4 hangouts I get the general idea if it's someone worth my time or not. And I'm fine with going out at times than just being indoors since my situation is different than yours.
I thought the fun part about SBs is the build up phases, if I just want to have sex I’d just go see a SPWhy the fuck would I want to buy a SB gifts?
I don't do dinners, I don't do dates, I bring Tim's and muffins or they make me tea and breakfast/lunch sometimes. That's about it.
I pay that because for a few hours that's the equitable market rate. Shit, given 2 hours with a SP is $600 to $800-ish, it's still arguable lower. I'm not here to exploit some poor girl who doesn't know otherwise. It's a small world & I believe in Karma.
I’m reading up on sugardaddy.ca on Reddit and here’s what I found about their “let me be your secret” verification video - apparently girls are not made aware that it’s visible to us
that’s why they all look disheveled like hobos!
There's a few weird ones on SB also, but if they don't know all the men see it that kinda makes sense and is hilarious. I've seen odd ones XD!I’m reading up on sugardaddy.ca on Reddit and here’s what I found about their “let me be your secret” verification video - apparently girls are not made aware that it’s visible to us
Just watching those verification videos made me feel like I haven’t totally wasted money on that site.
9 times out of ten it’s like portal to hell and it feels good that i haven’t wasted hours meeting them
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For me the build up is the coffee/tea/breakfast/lunch/chat/meaning of life discussions before the sex. It's not something a SP would tolerate.
When you talk with a SB you can ask her if she wants to keep things mono or poly so you're both on the same page. If she leans towards poly it's very similar to a SP cause she might want more than 1 or 2 daddies. There's some on LL who I've seen on a site mostly women from Barrie or Sudbury. Ones who generally prefer PPM are probably very similar to SPs. You'd have to ask her if she wants mono/exclusive so she's not seeing anyone else and what her allowance is. Weekly/biweekly/monthly. And even if it's mono that's not to say she could lie and see others or is on dating apps looking for an actual relationship and overall not into you like that of course. Locally where I am I seen 2 online I know who are in relationships and were discreetly on the site most likely cheating on their bf to gain more money. A few are also in relationships already or married and their partners know they are on the site.
Thanks for the tips, I do see some familiar faces on SA and know they are in fact SPs.
