My honest thoughts on sugardating vs. Hobbying

[superman2006]

Been in both sugar dating and hobbying for years and here are my honest thoughts about sugar-dating vs hobbying:

-SBs usually have a day job or still in school, they are much less experienced vs. SPs
-there are definitely some pros posing as SBs and you can tell by how they interact
-long term relationships vs transactional
-lot of conversations with potential SBs vs. Few text exchanges with SPs
-ppm is usually between 500-1K vs. anywhere between 1-5K for social + private time with an escort.
-weekly allowance around 800-2K for a young SB (2-3 visits per week) vs. 240 - 1000 per hour for hobbying

 

[shack]

Been in both sugar dating and hobbying for years and here are my honest thoughts about sugar-dating vs hobbying:

-SBs usually have a day job or still in school, they are much less experienced vs. SPs
-there are definitely some pros posing as SBs and you can tell by how they interact
-long term relationships vs transactional
-lot of conversations with potential SBs vs. Few text exchanges with SPs
-ppm is usually between 500-1K vs. anywhere between 1-5K for social + private time with an escort.
-weekly allowance around 800-2K for a young SB (2-3 visits per week) vs. 240 - 1000 per hour for hobbying

I'll be honest as well.

I don't think that you've said anything that hasn't been said dozens of times before on TERB.

Have you read the multitude of threads already dealing with this topic?

 

[bazokajoe]

Been in both sugar dating and hobbying for years and here are my honest thoughts about sugar-dating vs hobbying:

-SBs usually have a day job or still in school, they are much less experienced vs. SPs
-there are definitely some pros posing as SBs and you can tell by how they interact
-long term relationships vs transactional
-lot of conversations with potential SBs vs. Few text exchanges with SPs
-ppm is usually between 500-1K vs. anywhere between 1-5K for social + private time with an escort.
-weekly allowance around 800-2K for a young SB (2-3 visits per week) vs. 240 - 1000 per hour for hobbying

You mean "long term transactional relationships"

 

[xix]

If money is not an obstacle.
I would rather see 3 different SP's per week than the same person. Might as well get a FWB/NSA.

 

[coolmanfever]

Been in both sugar dating and hobbying for years and here are my honest thoughts about sugar-dating vs hobbying:

-SBs usually have a day job or still in school, they are much less experienced vs. SPs
-there are definitely some pros posing as SBs and you can tell by how they interact
-long term relationships vs transactional
-lot of conversations with potential SBs vs. Few text exchanges with SPs
-ppm is usually between 500-1K vs. anywhere between 1-5K for social + private time with an escort.
-weekly allowance around 800-2K for a young SB (2-3 visits per week) vs. 240 - 1000 per hour for hobbying

So are you saying it is cheaper per hourly basis to sugar dating than hobbying but it will take more time investment in sugar dating than hobbying?

 

[superman2006]

So are you saying it is cheaper per hourly basis to sugar dating than hobbying but it will take more time investment in sugar dating than hobbying?

It’s definitely cheaper than hobbying, but yes it’s time consuming

 

[xix]

It’s definitely cheaper than hobbying, but yes it’s time consuming

Okay so you spent 2-3 hours per visit with the deed included?

 

[Telebass]

It’s definitely cheaper than hobbying, but yes it’s time consuming

Would you say there is any difference in emotional investment (or lack thereof)?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I'll be honest as well. Nobody asked.

 

[xmontrealer]

Would you say there is any difference in emotional investment (or lack thereof)?

Don't expect real feelings to develop between a client and an escort or sugar baby. Even if some clients are hoping for that.

The most you can hope for is a kind of friendship or at most fondness with a regular sp or sugar baby, and even that is rare.

These are financial transactions...

 

[shack]

I'll be honest as well. Nobody asked.

Honesty is the best policy.

 

[Dave in Phoenix]

I assume $500 to $1000 is for many hours; I would never dream of paying that much for an escort.

 

[RobI]

If money is not an obstacle.
I would rather see 3 different SP's per week than the same person. Might as well get a FWB/NSA.

That's the thing, if you are looking for lots of variety, better to go with hookers/spa girls than sugar dating, your wallet will thank you

Actually, if you're using your head up top, maybe use some of that money to get a plane ticket out of Canada every now and then - the Caribbean, southern Europe, etc.

 

[RobI]

I assume $500 to $1000 is for many hours; I would never dream of paying that much for an escort.

$500 is reasonable for a few hours, but if a sugar baby asks for a grand in Toronto, they better be a Russian supermodel with the Vouge cover to prove it

On the other hand, yes, on the Asian board, you can see girls are asking $700/800/1000 for an hour - though I suspect their "managers" get most of that

 

[RobI]

So are you saying it is cheaper per hourly basis to sugar dating than hobbying but it will take more time investment in sugar dating than hobbying?

Yes, that's pretty much it. If you're just feeling horny one night, got hit the spas or an incall. Sugar-bbies are a bit different, you have to negotiate things a bit and have a bit of game, if you don't have any interest in that, stick with the first option

 

[RobI]

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/33ghSzQIoBw (age gaps)

 

[Dave in Phoenix]

Sugar-bbies are a bit different, you have to negotiate things a bit and have a bit of game, if you don't have any interest in that, stick with the first option

Another factor for me is I am not that interested in more than an hour. I am not into dinners or going out to bars etc. My idea of fine dining is McDonalds, Denny's or Perkins and don't like the taste of alcoholic drinks. Would just have a diet coke or Pepsi at a bar - like I order at strip clubs.