My gf doesn't cum
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I had a girlfriend years ago who also wasn't really into sex, I believe it was due to her upbringing. Iirc, the first time she came was when she was sitting on me while I sat on the sofa. I tried this position with a few other girls after that and found it worked with them too, even with me sitting on the edge of the bed and them on top.
After we had been busy for a while in other positions, I switched to this one and let them dictate the tempo. Once they were warmed up, it seemed that they were more relaxed, this position allowed them to grind deeper and harder.
It may or may not work but it probably wouldn't hurt to try, it's still a lot of fun and pleasure either way.
After we had been busy for a while in other positions, I switched to this one and let them dictate the tempo. Once they were warmed up, it seemed that they were more relaxed, this position allowed them to grind deeper and harder.
It may or may not work but it probably wouldn't hurt to try, it's still a lot of fun and pleasure either way.
Nah...mohan is just an abbrev for more hands ( for groping). Sase is for sexy. If you put all together..He is a sexy guy with more hands. Am I correct sexy?
Totally agree here too, girls on top can control tempo and pressure and them are more likely to reach O. I imagine its the same for guys, I can only finish when I'm thrusting, never done it while she was on top probably for the same reason
It has nothing to do with her being asian. Someone mentioned the answer here, it's all in her head. It has nothing to do with what you do to her with your tongue your hands, toys or anything! She has to first become comfortable with her own body and sadly, many girls were not raised to do this. Masterbating was a sin, vaginas were dirty, being a woman was evil, or whatever the case. So a life of all these messages messes with girls heads and affects their sex lives. Also, it's not up to you to fix her her or to make her cum. Its not about you at all and in fact you may be contributing to the pressure she is feeling by not having an orgasm. If you want to help her, back off and let her explore her own sexual pleasures. Buy her a pocket rocket and let her try that on her own, without you in the room asking if she's going to cum. I experienced the very same thing and trust me, it took a long time before I was remotely comfortable having an orgasm in front of a significant other.
Sounds like someone from the old generations...and somewhere time stand still... Nowaday, there are as many young and lusty girls (from anywhere) as the "clamped shut" ones.
You are doing all that and she won't suck your cock?
WTF is wrong with you? Grow some balls and move on.
I once dated a guy who said he would be giving oral and the girls would hit this block and wouldn't cum. He said he would almost like hold them down until they did climax because they were afraid of letting go. I've never had this but maybe it would be worth a try.
I would try doing it with the lights off or very dim so she can relax and make whatever faces she is going to make and not have to worry about what you'll think and also it will be less to distract her.
I would also try getting her a tiny vibrator, as mentioned earlier, and letting her take it home. Maybe even make sure it's water proof
Do you ever let her take the lead? Maybe her pace is different from yours.
I would try doing it with the lights off or very dim so she can relax and make whatever faces she is going to make and not have to worry about what you'll think and also it will be less to distract her.
I would also try getting her a tiny vibrator, as mentioned earlier, and letting her take it home. Maybe even make sure it's water proof
Do you ever let her take the lead? Maybe her pace is different from yours.
