My Cat is sick with Chronic Renal Failure!

The Finisher

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Arrgghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!


Just hoping for a bloody miracle that my cat only had an bacterial infection!!
The vet confirmed that my cat has chronic renal failure.
The cost is prohibitive...$300 dollars per day for antibiotics, intravenous, monitoring, over-night clinic stay etc.

I don't know what to do.
My cat gave me a sign that he knew his time was up. Normally, he does not like to cuddle up to me. However, last night, he dropped his paws over my hand and rested his head on it. He closed his eyes. He looked so content yet I could feel his pain! He couldn't even purr.

I'm not sure if I can handle the next step....to put him down.
I've read all of the alternative and mainstream remedies to control this horrible disease.

My vet said that he is in an advanced stage where treatment may not help his suffering.
I'm so sad. :(

TF
 

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Sorry about your cat Finisher. Animals do have a way of letting us know in some way or another. IMO If the treatment isnt going to fix him...why let the cat suffer? I feel your pain bro, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
 

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There are alot of things to consider here. I for one, would not want my animals to live a life of misery. I own a cat, dog and snake. If anything serious every happend to them and I knew that they would still feel pain even with treatment, i would put them down. Now I am saying this and my pets are in good health. I probably would have a different opinion if one of them was dying. My dog and cat are very attached to one another, so if one passed away I am sure the other would feel depressed.
 

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The Finisher said:
Arrgghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!


Just hoping for a bloody miracle that my cat only had an bacterial infection!!
The vet confirmed that my cat has chronic renal failure.
The cost is prohibitive...$300 dollars per day for antibiotics, intravenous, monitoring, over-night clinic stay etc.
Even with cost out the equation, what kind of life is that for a cat?
 

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Unfortunately with chronic renal failure, your cat will die, all you will be doing is prolonging the inevitable. I went through this with one of my cats, and besides costing me thousands of dollars, in the end my cat stopped responding to treatment, and it got to the point that the only thing I could do for him was to put him down and end his suffering.

It is a hard thing to do. Obviously you want to do everything you can to try to save your cat, but from my experience, you are better off putting the cat down.

Giving your cat an IV and forcing pills and liquids down his throat everyday is not easy.

Some quick advice...wrap your cat up in a towel so that only his head is free, you'll save yourself a lot of scratches.
 
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Alexa Taylor said:
My cat was hit by a car about 6 years ago with a crushed lung and broken leg. When I brought him to the vet hospital, he was in shock. After 3 K worth of x-rays, surgery, medication and boarding, the vet said he would go on to live a long life since he was only 4 years old at the time. Everyone thought I was crazy to pay that amount to save what was considered to them a silly cat ( had it been a dog I'm sure they'd be saying otherwise) but I consider him part of my family/ Now, he's very active and healthy today with the exception of a slight limp when he walks.
I'm glad things worked out for you and your cat.

Just the same, 3K is a lot to pay for a little pussy. ;)
 

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Hey Finisher, I do feel for you because I had to put down my best friend of 16 yrs. She was with me the day I moved out when I was 22, all through my gfs and moves etc etc.

It is hard to do, but you have to weigh what your cat's life will be like. Even with all the treatments will it survive? When I had to put mine down I weighed what it would do to her to be at the vet's for weeks. I know she'd go batty and then the doc couldn't say whether she'd even survive.

Even tho it still affects me to this day, I know her final days would have been hell for her so I did what was best for her.

It'll hurt, but you'll survive......
 

stinkynuts

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This may be a dumb question, but do they have kidney transplants for cats?

If your cat is old anyway, then it's probably best to put him/her down.

Sorry to hear about what you're going through. It must be difficult but I hope you get through it ok. Good luck.
 

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Sorry to hear of your pain Finisher. Other pet lovers will empathise with your predicament. it is like a family loss because they are part of your family!
When the cat stops eating and does not respond to you, or shows signs of obvious distress, then its time to do the humane thing and end his suffering...
 

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One of my four cats became sick a little over a month ago. Lost 7# which is an enormous amount for a cat. It is liver problems and it caused me to cease , to all intents, my work. I am currently feeding via a stomach tube, but to my surprise my little 7 year old is bouncing back far beyond what
I would have thought. I wish I had only spent 3k but regardless it is a family member and I would not abandon him.
Now having said that I believe that vets play on our emotions and they are not cheap. We however know nothing about our pets physiology, we are in the vets hands, but I still get that nagging feeling that I have been scammed out of thousands.
 

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I'm really sorry Finisher. I'm dreading the day my furry pal will be too old to live a good life, he's already 17. Its not an easy thing, but I wouldn't want to let my cat suffer. If its time to say goodbye then do what is best for your friend. Good luck man....
 

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So sorry to hear about your cat. I too had to make the same dreaded decision that is now facing you.

The kindest the thing I could do for my friend was to help her pass on with dignity.
 

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I had an older cat that was diagnosed with CRF also. There is no real treatment for it, although special diets if they will eat it can sometimes prolong their life, but it still a fatal illness. People can also experience this condition and are treated with dialysis but this is unpleasant and kidney transplant is the only real cure. Neither is readily available for animals. My cat was given about a year to live but deteriorated fairly rapidly and had to be put down about four months later and even then I probably should have done it sooner. Your cat sounds to be in an advanced stage and even though it is difficult now would be the best time to make that decision. It sounds like he has already tried to tell you goodbye. Sorry and good luck.
 
It will not be easy. Be prepared to shed a lot of tears. But it is selfish to keep a pet when they are suffering. I held my dog as she was euthanised, it was emotionally painful but I felt it was the right thing to do. Did not want her to feel abandoned in her final moments. Silly, but made me feel better, better being a relative term.
Sorry for your news, btw mine had cancer. Would have done anything but she lived longer than expected.
 

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lookingforitallthetime said:
I'm glad things worked out for you and your cat.

Just the same, 3K is a lot to pay for a little pussy. ;)
Only the people who have pets for a while and really bond with them truly know how painful it is when it is time for the friend to depart this world. I had to hold my cat of 15 years while he was being put to sleep for FIP, feline infective peritonitis. However, I still admire your play on words.
 

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DistantVoyeur said:
It will not be easy. Be prepared to shed a lot of tears. But it is selfish to keep a pet when they are suffering. I held my dog as she was euthanised, it was emotionally painful but I felt it was the right thing to do. Did not want her to feel abandoned in her final moments. Silly, but made me feel better, better being a relative term.
Sorry for your news, btw mine had cancer. Would have done anything but she lived longer than expected.
DistantVoyeur, you are all heart. I like your sig, hugaholic.
 

james t kirk

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I assume you've had your cat's blood work done.

My cat has CRF has well. In fact, she's had it for about 3 years or so.

She was diagnosed by accident when the local vet said she needed her teeth cleaned (for $865.00!!) and I said ok and the first thing they did was blood work. Her urea and creatinin levels were higher than normal.

The local vet said she had a year or so left to live, but that I could help her by feeding her special Vet prescription diet KD (Kidney Disease) cat food and 2 kinds of narcs. As luck would have it, they sold both, imagine that.

I was quite taken aback at the time and called a friend of mine who is an animal nut and she suggested that I take my cat to a "naturalpathic vet" outside of Guelph whom she had a lot of respect for.

I figured what the hell, I wasn't getting a warm fuzzy feeling from my local vet for sure.

I packed the cat up and headed off for Guelph. The lady in question is a certified vet, but she's also a big believer in doing the right thing by way of lifestyle for the animal.

The first thing she asked me was what I was feeding the cat. Answer, Diet Eukanuba. She told me in no uncertain terms to stop feeding the cat ALL processed cat food. Including the vet sold gourmet cat food.

She (the natural vet) told me that ALL pet food, regardless of how they dress up the bag, is poisonous for our four footed friends. It's all crap, made from crap, made to be convienient for humans. Imagine food that doesn't rot - how's that possible?

Anyway, she had a convincing arguement - that vets make more money selling food and narcs than they do being vets. Hardly unbiased. We use pet foods to get rid of the bottom of the barrel rotting food, mix it with anything to fill the animal up and package it to be convienient to the human owners.

My cat was supposed to be dead two years ago. I have been making her chicken and veggies, or fish and veggies for 3 years now and she has lost weight (holding at 9 pounds) and is asleep right now in the other room.

The multi billion dollar pet food industry would like you to believe that pets somehow require some secret food that only they can make. Nothng could be a bigger pile of steaming horseshit. Well, your animal would probably be better off eating fresh horseshit than it would be eating anything by IAMS or Eukanuba (Proctor and Gamble and Colgate Palmolive)

Believe me, I am not a birkenstock wearing tree hugging hippie, but I do work in the corporate world and I know how they operate. If they could sell us cotton dipped in chocolate and get us to eat it for lunch, they would. Animals can't voice their concerns. So just ask yourself - Would you want to eat what you are feeding your cat or dog?

If the answser is no, then your cat or dog probably feels the same way. How'd you like to eat cheerios every day, three times a day, for the rest of your life?

I have had her blood tested 2 other times since the first time and her levels are increasing, but slowly.

I attribute this to the proper diet I am feeding her.

I have also taken her to the Cat Clinic in Hamilton where the lady who owns that clinic (Dr. Obrien) is a cat expert extraordinaire. She is one of only 4 board certified cat practioners in Canada.
www.thecatclinic.ca

I highly recommend them and her. In fact, if you want to take your cat to see her, you need to specifically request her because she is so in demand.

I gave up on my local vet here in Toronto. I owe them for finding the problem early, but they are only interested in the upsell, not what's truly best for the animal.

I have been lucky and found that in my vet in Guelph and the cat clinic in Hamilton.

Perhaps you might want to consider a second opinion.

Feel free to PM me for my home made cat food recipe.

(BTW, after that last pet food scare - menu foods, I am more convinced than ever that feeding your cat or dog a sound diet is money spent wisely.)
 

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The Finisher said:
Arrgghhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!


Just hoping for a bloody miracle that my cat only had an bacterial infection!!
The vet confirmed that my cat has chronic renal failure.
The cost is prohibitive...$300 dollars per day for antibiotics, intravenous, monitoring, over-night clinic stay etc.

I don't know what to do.
My cat gave me a sign that he knew his time was up. Normally, he does not like to cuddle up to me. However, last night, he dropped his paws over my hand and rested his head on it. He closed his eyes. He looked so content yet I could feel his pain! He couldn't even purr.

I'm not sure if I can handle the next step....to put him down.
I've read all of the alternative and mainstream remedies to control this horrible disease.

My vet said that he is in an advanced stage where treatment may not help his suffering.
I'm so sad. :(

TF
Its hard but don't let the poor guy suffer more than he has to.
 
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