My brush with a civilian

[IM469]

There’s a dude on insta called boldboi who creates content of him approaching women with the goal of obtaining their digits. His strategy seems to work, which is to approach in a non threatening manner, then give a compliment or ask a question, ask her name, introduce himself and then ask her out for coffee etc and get her number. The cool thing about it is, you can’t really lose. Either she’s down, or if not you can just say something like have a great day and move on to the next one. Worth a shot imo.

Anyone posting conquests on the internet is a narcissistic shallow man. I'm guessing he isn't going to push his failures so that he can attract adoring fans trying to find the secret key for attracting women.
Sad on both ends.

Just be yourself and enjoy life. Then you won't have to worry about what to do when the adopted script you are using runs out.

 

[Jenesis]

Is there an independent analysis of how many of those numbers are not fake?

This was my thought. He could pay them to act in camera, they can be fake numbers. I’m just throwing out random things that could make the videos false. I have never seen him or his videos. So I’m not saying he doing it but I would leery of this type of PUA showboating.

 

[NotADcotor]

This was my thought. He could pay them to act in camera, they can be fake numbers. I’m just throwing out random things that could make the videos false. I have never seen him or his videos. So I’m not saying he doing it but I would leery of this type of PUA showboating.

One pick up artist who was quite attractive did post his numbers on random approaches and I am pretty sure they were correct because his success rate was extremely low. low single digits IIRC

 

[Jenesis]

One pick up artist who was quite attractive did post his numbers on random approaches and I am pretty sure they were correct because his success rate was extremely low. low single digits IIRC

That was going to be my next question. He filmed the “successes” but how many failures did that take?

 

[NotADcotor]

Anyone posting conquests on the internet is a narcissistic shallow man.

To go around badgering random women for sex, and lets face it, if you are approaching a total stranger it isn't because of her Marxist Feminist Dialetic bringing all the boys to the yard or how she can provide some insight to the economics of the Southern Colonies without spouting off Woods and Vickers, is a bit of an issue.
Of course they don't give fuck, they will bother 1000 woman if it gets their dick wet, that is the ONLY thing that matters.

Thought experiment. How would you like it if 5 or 10 gay dudes were trying to get up in your guts every day, some attractive, some hidious, but dudes.

Yeah the story would change. Well they say, that doesn't happen that often, maybe, maybe not, but if people generally started adopting that mind set then it would get very bothersome.

I also doubt those pick up artists are nearly as understanding when some homeless bum hits them up for change. But hey, you miss the shots you don't take and if they fail, they just move on, so they can't lose.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

To go around badgering random women for sex, and lets face it, if you are approaching a total stranger it isn't because of her Marxist Feminist Dialetic bringing all the boys to the yard or how she can provide some insight to the economics of the Southern Colonies without spouting off Woods and Vickers, is a bit of an issue.
Of course they don't give fuck, they will bother 1000 woman if it gets their dick wet, that is the ONLY thing that matters.

Thought experiment. How would you like it if 5 or 10 gay dudes were trying to get up in your guts every day, some attractive, some hidious, but dudes.

Yeah the story would change. Well they say, that doesn't happen that often, maybe, maybe not, but if people generally started adopting that mind set then it would get very bothersome.

I also doubt those pick up artists are nearly as understanding when some homeless bum hits them up for change. But hey, you miss the shots you don't take and if they fail, they just move on, so they can't lose.

Well in the case mentioned, I wasn't angling for cheap pick up sex. I was kind of hoping to meet a really interesting woman. Final thoughts. I was at the same mall after work to pick up one can of beer again. It's my Friday night. I work Saturday. So Saturday is my Friday night. I saw a handsome grey haired guy with nice upper body development in a muscle shirt, pushing himself along in a wheel chair. Kind of put my problems into perspective. Lot tougher for him. Makes me feel kind of pathetic really.

 

[Patron]

Well in the case mentioned, I wasn't angling for cheap pick up sex. I was kind of hoping to meet a really interesting woman. Final thoughts. I was at the same mall after work to pick up one can of beer again. It's my Friday night. I work Saturday. So Saturday is my Friday night. I saw a handsome grey haired guy with nice upper body development in a muscle shirt, pushing himself along in a wheel chair. Kind of put my problems into perspective. Lot tougher for him. Makes me feel kind of pathetic really.

Maybe he knows it is a great pick-up spot for Asian chicks and he has stumbled upon the ultimate method of getting a sympathy fuck.

 

[NotADcotor]

Well in the case mentioned, I wasn't angling for cheap pick up sex. I was kind of hoping to meet a really interesting woman. Final thoughts. I was at the same mall after work to pick up one can of beer again. It's my Friday night. I work Saturday. So Saturday is my Friday night. I saw a handsome grey haired guy with nice upper body development in a muscle shirt, pushing himself along in a wheel chair. Kind of put my problems into perspective. Lot tougher for him. Makes me feel kind of pathetic really.

He could be an interesting person, could have asked him to go for some beers. No homo.

Actually till he died last year my number 1 hommie was confined to a wheelchair, plenty of man dates, not gay, can recommend, not gay.

Not gay.

 

[Jenesis]

To go around badgering random women for sex, and lets face it, if you are approaching a total stranger it isn't because of her Marxist Feminist Dialetic bringing all the boys to the yard or how she can provide some insight to the economics of the Southern Colonies without spouting off Woods and Vickers, is a bit of an issue.
Of course they don't give fuck, they will bother 1000 woman if it gets their dick wet, that is the ONLY thing that matters.

Thought experiment. How would you like it if 5 or 10 gay dudes were trying to get up in your guts every day, some attractive, some hidious, but dudes.

Yeah the story would change. Well they say, that doesn't happen that often, maybe, maybe not, but if people generally started adopting that mind set then it would get very bothersome.

I also doubt those pick up artists are nearly as understanding when some homeless bum hits them up for change. But hey, you miss the shots you don't take and if they fail, they just move on, so they can't lose.

If gay men treated straight men the way straight men treat women, change would come swiftly, globally and instantly.

 

[xix]

I wish women would be more aggressive like one lady on the internet (I know it could be fake) who told how she met her husband. She was behind him in line at the grocery store and they were chatting and she saw his name on a credit card or license or something due to an issue with the cash register. She looked him up on Facebook, but instead of sending him a private message (like most of us would have done and been put on Block and Report), she looked at his friends, which included his mom who loved a certain Book Club. She joined that Book Club and became friends with the mom and got her to talk about her son. She asked the mom if her son might be interested in meeting her. It was set up, and ended happily ever after. Although if the guy ever wants to see an escort now, he better scrub that computer and text history given her abilities.

Interesting.....

Bro delivered an anime villain monologue PT. 3

www.youtube.com

 

[kherg007]

To go around badgering random women for sex, and lets face it, if you are approaching a total stranger it isn't because of her Marxist Feminist Dialetic bringing all the boys to the yard or how she can provide some insight to the economics of the Southern Colonies without spouting off Woods and Vickers, is a bit of an issue.
Of course they don't give fuck, they will bother 1000 woman if it gets their dick wet, that is the ONLY thing that matters.

Thought experiment. How would you like it if 5 or 10 gay dudes were trying to get up in your guts every day, some attractive, some hidious, but dudes.

Yeah the story would change. Well they say, that doesn't happen that often, maybe, maybe not, but if people generally started adopting that mind set then it would get very bothersome.

I also doubt those pick up artists are nearly as understanding when some homeless bum hits them up for change. But hey, you miss the shots you don't take and if they fail, they just move on, so they can't lose.

Back in the day I remember a few times being hit on by gay guys. It was a bit destabilizing for a minute or two once it dawned on me what was going on. But thought it through and got my bearings and took it as a compliment and just said they seem like a nice bloke but I'm on "team kitty". They got it and appreciated how I handled it.

 

[Insidious Von]

Was going to start a thread called My Brush with Death, decided to go for a soda instead. Kim Mitchell is very therapeutic.

"these girls don't want anything to do with us man".

 

[NotADcotor]

Back in the day I remember a few times being hit on by gay guys. It was a bit destabilizing for a minute or two once it dawned on me what was going on. But thought it through and got my bearings and took it as a compliment and just said they seem like a nice bloke but I'm on "team kitty". They got it and appreciated how I handled it.

Sure if it's once in a while, but if it happens multiple times a day... and of course some of them won't take no [like dudes do with female dudes]

 

[NotADcotor]

If gay men treated straight men the way straight men treat women, change would come swiftly, globally and instantly.

With a hard core crack down on homosexuals?

You arn't suggesting people will develop empathy to take away a different lesson are you?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

If gay men treated straight men the way straight men treat women, change would come swiftly, globally and instantly.

They'd get used to being ignored?

 

[drlove]

That was going to be my next question. He filmed the “successes” but how many failures did that take?

That’s probably true. I remember years ago, there was a guy doing a social experiment. He’d randomly approach women and ask if they wanted to have sex, point blank just to see what their reaction was. He asked about 100+ of them and only one said yes.

 

[kherg007]

Sure if it's once in a while, but if it happens multiple times a day... and of course some of them won't take no [like dudes do with female dudes]

I found the gay guys were good about it. Could be they have encountered blokes who get violently upset so they appreciate the calm and polite explication of which team I'm on. Plus back then a tall and fit 106kg might dissuade to persistent.